Let me break the long story short-
I met this guy at a party, we exchanged numbers.
He invited me out once, we made out.
We've been talking for about 2 months afterwards but haven't met up because there's always been conflicts.
A week ago he asked me out but online, I said I'd love to but then I signed off right after because I had to leave.
I texted him saying sorry that I had to go but I'd like to see him.
I haven't heard from him since, he's probably given up and moved on, found someone else.
We get along really well and I think I like him........
I'm just wondering from an outside perspective if I should try talking to him or just leave it?What should I do about this guy? 10 points for best advice!?
Talk to him. I'm a guy and I do this kind of thing to get the girl thinking that I don't care and then when I do call her, she freaks out and falls in love with me. I'm kidding, but he is doing this to make you think he doesn't care about you. And it seems to be working.What should I do about this guy? 10 points for best advice!?
I think you answered your own question he probably is either mad or upset that you did sign out right away maybe he thinks you don't like him anymore. But he could have moved on and found someone else. My advice to you is to call or text him and ask him if he likes you like you like him and go from there. Good luck hun :)
He is not worth it,he sounds really loser-ish.Your right maybe he has meet someone else.Investigate and find out.Of course he may just be busy with other things and not girls.I say if he isn't that cute give him the boot.Tell him your concerns, and talk openly about it. He may understand and everything will work out.Think about it awile and you'll know what is right.Sorry I am not a very good advice giver.
It sounds like your either a busy person or just this relationship has bad timing. You have to ask yourself, do you have time for a relationship? And if you think you do and you want to give this guy a chance, give him a chance. Try to make dates on a day or time of day where you think will be less interrupted. Call him. It's better to talk on the phone than online, it's more personal and real. Let him know your interested. Some guys like a chase, but not for too long. If he's not worth giving up, call him, make a date and DONT cancel!
Good Luck!
Well he invited you out, but he doesn't seem as fussed as he should, if he really liked you he would try harder. Give it another try! If you like him, really do, and you get along, why not? But be careful in case he has moved on.. And maybe he didn't text back because he has no credit or something? :)
If you really like him, talk to him. Tell him about your situation and how you were busy, I'm sure if he really likes you he'll understand. Call him and meet him at a cafe to have some coffee or something. Try to spend some time even if it's doing something really simple like taking a walk. He might be busy too, which might be why he didn't call you ot text.
Hmm. sounds complicated. Sweety sometimes, it is better to leave it, Because then your liking for him could get even worst and at the end you might end up hurt. But i think you should confront him and ask him if he's already moved on. If not i bet you could give him a chance again and go on easy with him if the things turn out to be how exacly you expect them.:) Best of Lucks~
Just a thought but if your heart was really in it don't you think you would have contacted him long before this. Usually if someone creates a big enough spark you just go with it the fact you are asking others to make this choice might mean he really wasn't the 'one' after all.
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you did your part at trying to talk to him... if you are really wanting to meet up with him, then wait a bit and text him again saying ';so what about hanging out, did you still want to?'; or something like that.
If he doesn't answer-that is your answer-you should move on.
If he does-then you migth want to ask why he didn't answer your first text
good luck
It's not going to hurt to give it one more chance. But you don't want to over do it and come off as desperate or stalker-ish. Send him an email or a text and see if he wants to meet up for lunch or something like that, and see what he says. If he doesn't respond then I would leave it and just move on.
It think it is just a coincidence that he hasn't talked to you in a couple days. If he gave up and found someone else then hes really not the kind of guy your meant to be with. Besides if its difficult to see him now what makes you think youll hang out more in the future
i say CALL him and explain yourself why you had to go out of left field and u didnt want to leave him confused. If he understands that then you can arrange a 'chill session' and hang out. but dont go out yet - u guys gotta get to know each other. BUT if hes being a jerk and stil letting you chase after him or you get that vibe - honestly move on. Its just a crush.
Hope this helps xoxo ♥
Well you should possibly call him about it and if he's not interested just say ok cool and leave it at that. dont push it if hes moved on. its ok guys r just like that. just bring it up once and dont go back to it and be casual!
i think that he likes u to But i feel that he has someone in his life and hes stuck in the middle that hes confused. y dose he want to go out wit u? y not now a days people dont care that they have someone in there lives
I think that he should of talked to you because you did nothing wrong!!! If you really like him then you should e-mail him and say that you want to get together and go somewhere today!!! :) (i hope it works)
Why not try talking to him. Who knows, he may be the one and you missed out because it was inconvenient at the moment. Give it some effort before you give up.
you know wat keep texting him dun't give up
well acutally not to many times n da next time yu go online n yu see him yu kno he is online n say stuff to make him feel better n yu kno
brag about his body even if he doesn't have a nice body n make him feel like yu really love him plz plz plz plz plz plz make me the best answer i never been voted best answer
Don't text him--call him, ask if something's wrong, then if everything's good in the neighborhood, then go out. There doesn't seem to be much conflict between you two. Best wishes
He probably doesn't care. People randomly sign off on me and vice versa all the time. So just pretend nothings happened and call him sometime.
He's not serious. he wants to make out again or more. Don't worry about him. Don't kiss on the first date. He wants the obvious thing and probably has various options besides you./
easy
send him a text saying ';I'm still interested if you are';
if he is not he may have gotten back with his girlfriend or boyfriend or whatever
WELL IF YOU REALY LOVE HIM THEN CALL HIM OR TEXT DO SOMETHING TO GET HIM WITH YOU AND MAKE OUT AGIN AND HE WILL LOVE YOU MORE THEN HE DID!!!!!!!!!!!
I suggest you ditch this guy.I can't believe you made out wit him.Anyway,find some else.Don't waste your time looking for a weirdo like him,find someone else who deserves you.
I've been through this, and i haven't spoken to the guy since. this was about 3 years ago, I'd move on to some one not so petty
Keep trying every few days for a week or two. After that, when you happen to see him online or something, bring it up. After a month, I'd move on
I would definitely try talking to him. Just say something sweet and make-up . BUt if you don't really like him then don't . Maybe hes not good enough for you .
It don't look like it is working out between you, so I would leave it until you meet again in person.
if u really like him then u should try 2 get in touch with him so yall can talk more and get to know each other better cuz u never know it might lead to a very good relationship GOOD LUCK!!!:D
Try talking to him but don't be obsessive. It might creep him out a little.
You need to talk to him and explain the situation. :))
talk to him
if he's moved on, you'll figure it out at some point
don't worry about it
Wednesday, November 23, 2011
Please Edit! Easy 10 points to the person who gives best advice!!!!!!!?
Can a boy put up with his overprotective mother not letting him do anything fun due to minor cuts and bruises? Well in this gut-busting book he does, at least for a while.
Sam Harris, the story鈥檚 humorous eleven year old protagonist, can鈥檛 do anything fun like play football (soccer) or walk to school with his friends. Why can鈥檛 he? Your head is probably bubbling with curiosity. He can鈥檛 do anything fun because his Mother is afraid he鈥檒l get injured. Injuries over walking to school? Like that鈥檚 ever going to happen!
Since Sam can鈥檛 do anything fun he鈥檚 bored, but not for long. Soon the hysterical Griswalds move in next-door and Sam starts having some fun but his mother is still interfering with his play. Even though the Griswalds are fun to play with, they start causing trouble doing reckless things like burning down the bus shelter. While Sam and the Griswalds are busy becoming friends, there are problems around the city involving them. Will they be able to find solutions to all of them or will it be too late? Read this rib tickling book to find out!
Emma Barnes will absorb readers of all ages into this side splitting. The pictures by Tim Archbold are really something to look at. Readers who like humour and adventure will love this really funny book. Both the paperback and hardcover of Sam and the Griswalds which has 320 pages were published in 2004 by Bloomsbury Publishing Co.Please Edit! Easy 10 points to the person who gives best advice!!!!!!!?
Sam Harris, the story鈥檚 humorous eleven year old protagonist, is unable to participate in any fun activities such as play football, or walk to school with his friends. His overprotective mother is constantly afraid he will get injured.
When the Griswalds move in next-door however, Sam's boring existence comes to an end. The Griswalds, though funny people, weren't all they seemed. Reckless, they began doing crazy things like burning down the bus shelter. Problems evolve, and soon Sam and the Griswalds are desperately trying to find solutions.
Emma Barnes will absorb readers of all ages in this side-splitting book. The pictures by the illustrator, Tim Archbold, are also fantastic. Readers who like humour and adventure will love this really funny book. The 320 page paperback and hardcover versions of ';Sam and the Griswalds'; were published in 2004 by Bloomsbury Publishing Co.
This was very poorly written and a miserable read. It looks as though you were trying to combine a book description with an obnoxious television ad..Please Edit! Easy 10 points to the person who gives best advice!!!!!!!?
All looks good except there should be a comma after football soccer should not be in parenthesis and should have a comma after it as well.
There is nothing wrong except for the capital 'M' on 'mother' at ';He can鈥檛 do anything fun because his Mother is...';
This sounds good.
First off, Ashley's right - mother oughtn't be capitalized. You also seem to use the word 'fun' quite a bit. Try rewording sentences or using synonyms to avoid this.
Also, there's a part that should be changed slightly for the sake or sentence flow. I'll rewrite it with a few minor punctuation and word changes:
Since Sam can鈥檛 do anything interesting, he鈥檚 bored - but not for long. Soon the hysterical Griswalds move in next door and Sam starts having some real fun; However, his mother is still interfering with his play. And even though the Griswalds are amusing company, they start causing trouble by doing reckless things such as burning down the bus shelter.
See, I didn't even change much, but it kind of reads easier, don't you think? Well, maybe - it's just my opinion.
Last thing, you left a sentence unfinished, like maybe you were already thinking of the next sentence and forgot to complete the previous:
Emma Barnes will absorb readers of all ages into this side splitting...?
That's something I do all the time, actually. I'll be in the middle of one sentence, and then write the next without so much as a period. :)
Other than that, it's pretty good. Believe it or not, it's actually better than a lot of the writing people in my high school yearbook class do.
Sam Harris, the story鈥檚 humorous eleven year old protagonist, can鈥檛 do anything fun like play football (soccer) or walk to school with his friends. Why can鈥檛 he? Your head is probably bubbling with curiosity. He can鈥檛 do anything fun because his Mother is afraid he鈥檒l get injured. Injuries over walking to school? Like that鈥檚 ever going to happen!
Since Sam can鈥檛 do anything fun he鈥檚 bored, but not for long. Soon the hysterical Griswalds move in next-door and Sam starts having some fun but his mother is still interfering with his play. Even though the Griswalds are fun to play with, they start causing trouble doing reckless things like burning down the bus shelter. While Sam and the Griswalds are busy becoming friends, there are problems around the city involving them. Will they be able to find solutions to all of them or will it be too late? Read this rib tickling book to find out!
Emma Barnes will absorb readers of all ages into this side splitting. The pictures by Tim Archbold are really something to look at. Readers who like humour and adventure will love this really funny book. Both the paperback and hardcover of Sam and the Griswalds which has 320 pages were published in 2004 by Bloomsbury Publishing Co.Please Edit! Easy 10 points to the person who gives best advice!!!!!!!?
Sam Harris, the story鈥檚 humorous eleven year old protagonist, is unable to participate in any fun activities such as play football, or walk to school with his friends. His overprotective mother is constantly afraid he will get injured.
When the Griswalds move in next-door however, Sam's boring existence comes to an end. The Griswalds, though funny people, weren't all they seemed. Reckless, they began doing crazy things like burning down the bus shelter. Problems evolve, and soon Sam and the Griswalds are desperately trying to find solutions.
Emma Barnes will absorb readers of all ages in this side-splitting book. The pictures by the illustrator, Tim Archbold, are also fantastic. Readers who like humour and adventure will love this really funny book. The 320 page paperback and hardcover versions of ';Sam and the Griswalds'; were published in 2004 by Bloomsbury Publishing Co.
This was very poorly written and a miserable read. It looks as though you were trying to combine a book description with an obnoxious television ad..Please Edit! Easy 10 points to the person who gives best advice!!!!!!!?
All looks good except there should be a comma after football soccer should not be in parenthesis and should have a comma after it as well.
There is nothing wrong except for the capital 'M' on 'mother' at ';He can鈥檛 do anything fun because his Mother is...';
This sounds good.
First off, Ashley's right - mother oughtn't be capitalized. You also seem to use the word 'fun' quite a bit. Try rewording sentences or using synonyms to avoid this.
Also, there's a part that should be changed slightly for the sake or sentence flow. I'll rewrite it with a few minor punctuation and word changes:
Since Sam can鈥檛 do anything interesting, he鈥檚 bored - but not for long. Soon the hysterical Griswalds move in next door and Sam starts having some real fun; However, his mother is still interfering with his play. And even though the Griswalds are amusing company, they start causing trouble by doing reckless things such as burning down the bus shelter.
See, I didn't even change much, but it kind of reads easier, don't you think? Well, maybe - it's just my opinion.
Last thing, you left a sentence unfinished, like maybe you were already thinking of the next sentence and forgot to complete the previous:
Emma Barnes will absorb readers of all ages into this side splitting...?
That's something I do all the time, actually. I'll be in the middle of one sentence, and then write the next without so much as a period. :)
Other than that, it's pretty good. Believe it or not, it's actually better than a lot of the writing people in my high school yearbook class do.
Anyone got any advice on who the best for landline/broadband in rep of ireland these days?
currently im with eircom and have a package for broadband and landline. the thing that is costing me is ringing my mate who is with vodafone from the landline. my mobile is o2 prepay. anyone got any suggestions on the deals at the minute inc ';the fineprint? ';!!Anyone got any advice on who the best for landline/broadband in rep of ireland these days?
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PLEASE HELP ME WITH THIS DIRECTION. 10 points for the best advice.?
I am trying to go this address from Union Station. It is a right direction?!? Please help me. I have never been to the area before. Thank you
From Union Station, DC to Webster University
Barden Education Center
9625 Belvoir Rd., Rm. 143
Fort Belvoir VA 22060-1598
WMATA results:
http://www.wmata.com/tripplanner_d/tripp鈥?/a>
Can I walk pass the From the Tulley Gate without any documents? Thank youPLEASE HELP ME WITH THIS DIRECTION. 10 points for the best advice.?
I'd expect that the office you're meeting will need to put you on a list of approved visitors, allowing you entry to the post.
Getting down there from Union Station: I'd advise either a taxicab or renting a car. (This is the same advice offered when you asked this same question earlier today.)PLEASE HELP ME WITH THIS DIRECTION. 10 points for the best advice.?
You cannot just walk in Tulley Gate. If you are attending training, I suggest you contact them for gate access information. Last thing you want to do is be stuck at the gate with no access! Fair warning!!!
I put the link to gate access below for more information. Belvoir is huge and the gates are far removed from the schools. Just be certain you have all the papers you need. Good luck
You always need a military ID when entering a military base unless you are with someone who has a military ID then alll you would need is a government ID.
Try using Map Quest or Yahoo Maps to get dierctions.
you used to be able to get on base so easily it was ridiculous, now I have no clue....can you call the people you're interviewing with? or see if you can get an answer from the base directly www.belvoir.army.mil
The only thing I can add is go to the bases web site. If not go to a military site. If not there go to a recruiting office and they will know for sure. Don't sign up to go to Iraq.
From Union Station, DC to Webster University
Barden Education Center
9625 Belvoir Rd., Rm. 143
Fort Belvoir VA 22060-1598
WMATA results:
http://www.wmata.com/tripplanner_d/tripp鈥?/a>
Can I walk pass the From the Tulley Gate without any documents? Thank youPLEASE HELP ME WITH THIS DIRECTION. 10 points for the best advice.?
I'd expect that the office you're meeting will need to put you on a list of approved visitors, allowing you entry to the post.
Getting down there from Union Station: I'd advise either a taxicab or renting a car. (This is the same advice offered when you asked this same question earlier today.)PLEASE HELP ME WITH THIS DIRECTION. 10 points for the best advice.?
You cannot just walk in Tulley Gate. If you are attending training, I suggest you contact them for gate access information. Last thing you want to do is be stuck at the gate with no access! Fair warning!!!
I put the link to gate access below for more information. Belvoir is huge and the gates are far removed from the schools. Just be certain you have all the papers you need. Good luck
You always need a military ID when entering a military base unless you are with someone who has a military ID then alll you would need is a government ID.
Try using Map Quest or Yahoo Maps to get dierctions.
you used to be able to get on base so easily it was ridiculous, now I have no clue....can you call the people you're interviewing with? or see if you can get an answer from the base directly www.belvoir.army.mil
The only thing I can add is go to the bases web site. If not go to a military site. If not there go to a recruiting office and they will know for sure. Don't sign up to go to Iraq.
Advice the best diet for getting pregnant,and tips for getting pregnant?
To get pregnant you must have sex on a day that your eggs are being released.
After the 3rd day from the day that menses started put a thermometer into your mouth and check your body temperature every morning before you start turning in bed. The best time is at about 4 a.m. Maintain a chart. You will find that on one day the body temperature drops from 1/2 degree to one degree. This is the day that your eggs are being released. If you want to get pregnant this is the day that you must have sex.
After having sex you must stay in bed for about 30 mins with your knees bent up so that the sperms will not pour out - to enable them to travel up.
Get your husband to save his sperms in the testacles for at least 5 days before sex to enable them to mature well to do their job.Advice the best diet for getting pregnant,and tips for getting pregnant?
You want to be sure to be eating a well balanced diet. It's not a bad idea to take prenatal vitamins, which you can get over the counter at a drug store. It is also a good idea to make sure that you're getting folic acid in your diet as this helps to prevent birth defects.
The easiest way to get pregnant is to use an over the counter ovulation tester (which can also be found at your local drug store) to help you determine when you are ovulating. This way you'll know which days of the month are you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.
After the 3rd day from the day that menses started put a thermometer into your mouth and check your body temperature every morning before you start turning in bed. The best time is at about 4 a.m. Maintain a chart. You will find that on one day the body temperature drops from 1/2 degree to one degree. This is the day that your eggs are being released. If you want to get pregnant this is the day that you must have sex.
After having sex you must stay in bed for about 30 mins with your knees bent up so that the sperms will not pour out - to enable them to travel up.
Get your husband to save his sperms in the testacles for at least 5 days before sex to enable them to mature well to do their job.Advice the best diet for getting pregnant,and tips for getting pregnant?
You want to be sure to be eating a well balanced diet. It's not a bad idea to take prenatal vitamins, which you can get over the counter at a drug store. It is also a good idea to make sure that you're getting folic acid in your diet as this helps to prevent birth defects.
The easiest way to get pregnant is to use an over the counter ovulation tester (which can also be found at your local drug store) to help you determine when you are ovulating. This way you'll know which days of the month are you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.
Girlfriend acting different around me, weird? (free five star to best advice...?
recently she hasn't wanted to really hang out like last week and today at school i heard she was trying to avoid hanging out with me this weekend, but she still talks to me on the phone every night and talks to me at school and still even kisses me and says she still likes me, shes says shes confused about us, and recently she doesn't really wanna talk about the confusion so i thought i should give her space mentally like stop asking so many questions and just talk and be happy with her, but IDK this is really bothering me that i hear she didn't twanna n hang out this weekend i dont wanna approach her if its not true, maybe i should wait a couple weeks and see if it goes away , at the begging of our relationship it was all ok and she even told me she could see us being together for a long time but recently she has acted really weird, she has her guard up and is being uncomfortable around me, yet she still gives me a hug and a kiss... does anyone have any idea whats going on, with Christmas soon i just want this all to be over with so she can fully appreciate what i got her fro Christmas i pout alot of thought into it and i truly do love this person i just want to help, but she says its osmething she has tohandle herselfGirlfriend acting different around me, weird? (free five star to best advice...?
This might not be the case for her, but I am speaking generally... but generally, when girls have their ';gaurd up'; as you said, it's because they're afraid of getting hurt. Maybe (and this is just an example) she heard that you like someone else or that you cheated on her, or something ridiculous like that, and that's why she is trying to distance herself from you, because she's afraid that if she keeps acting ';normal'; with you that she will get hurt. Like I said, it's just an example, but there is usually a good reason (whether it's truw or not) why a girl would try to distance herself. Maybe her parents don't want her dating, or mayber her friends don't like you for some reason? Maybe she was ';avoiding'; hanging out with you this weekend because she has other plans with like her family or something.
It's a good possibility that this is all in your head, too! If she still kisses and hugs you, then obviously nothing can be THAT wrong. Maybe the whole thing about her not wanting to hang out with you is just a stupid rumor that someone started for no reason, and now you feel like things are different, even though they really aren't.
I know you wanna give her space, but if its bothering you, you should talk to her about it. Just say ';is anything bothering you?'; make it out to be all about HER and her feelings so she won't feel like you just care about you or something. hopefully things work out, good luck!Girlfriend acting different around me, weird? (free five star to best advice...?
every girl goes through a phase with her current boyfriend. We tend to question whether or not our life is what we want it to be. it is most likely that for her. best advice is to show her you are worth spending a life with. don't suffocate her either. you have to be ready to let her go if that's what she wants. do not confront her about the whole weekend thing because it could be untrue and will cause an un-needed argument that may result badly.
This might not be the case for her, but I am speaking generally... but generally, when girls have their ';gaurd up'; as you said, it's because they're afraid of getting hurt. Maybe (and this is just an example) she heard that you like someone else or that you cheated on her, or something ridiculous like that, and that's why she is trying to distance herself from you, because she's afraid that if she keeps acting ';normal'; with you that she will get hurt. Like I said, it's just an example, but there is usually a good reason (whether it's truw or not) why a girl would try to distance herself. Maybe her parents don't want her dating, or mayber her friends don't like you for some reason? Maybe she was ';avoiding'; hanging out with you this weekend because she has other plans with like her family or something.
It's a good possibility that this is all in your head, too! If she still kisses and hugs you, then obviously nothing can be THAT wrong. Maybe the whole thing about her not wanting to hang out with you is just a stupid rumor that someone started for no reason, and now you feel like things are different, even though they really aren't.
I know you wanna give her space, but if its bothering you, you should talk to her about it. Just say ';is anything bothering you?'; make it out to be all about HER and her feelings so she won't feel like you just care about you or something. hopefully things work out, good luck!Girlfriend acting different around me, weird? (free five star to best advice...?
every girl goes through a phase with her current boyfriend. We tend to question whether or not our life is what we want it to be. it is most likely that for her. best advice is to show her you are worth spending a life with. don't suffocate her either. you have to be ready to let her go if that's what she wants. do not confront her about the whole weekend thing because it could be untrue and will cause an un-needed argument that may result badly.
Is love the most crazy feeling? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I just cannot explain why I am in and out of love..
When I was a teenager. I had a crush on this guy for 3 years. We never had a relationship. I still think he is a great person. Recently, my friends still talk about him. I smiled and said, ';you know I don't like/love him anymore';
Today, my girlfriend talked about my ex. My ex and I loved each other for 4 years. I moved on. She asked me..how? I said, ';I don't know. I just don't love him anymore';
What do you think? Please advice.Is love the most crazy feeling? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
i don't think you have ever been in love. the kind of love that you couldn't live without...not many people have. people throw around the ';love'; word way too often in my opinion.Is love the most crazy feeling? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
For one... why is your soo called friend still egging on about your ex??? (what a friend) I dont know how old you are and what happened between the 2 lost loves.. but move on!! if you are young or old than take a moment and jot down all the bad things that were wrong in those 2 ex relationships.. you maybe in a transition period and thats normal to feel lonely but dont look back if those 2 relationships were unhealthy... look towards the future and feel good about yourself!! your alive !! hopefully in good health!!! have a job!!! and things going for you !!! when u least expect it you will find the love of your life it may not be tomorrow but focus on you right now .!! thats all that matters.. lol. t
love can come and go, it just depends on the other person.some times you just love one specific thing about some one and they end up changing that thing, opening your eyes to who they really are. this is why people get divorced. my ex husband used to bring me flowers and hold me when i was sick, but for some reason he stopped doing that and i just lost interest. don't over think your situation and have fun with life.
I think that if you don't love a past love its because the bad outweighed the good.
it's not uncommon to fall in and out of love...You may feel a concern about the person and not want them to be in harms way, but you don't feel romantic towards them.
It's natural.
When I think about my ex's, I only want good things for them.
It's a nice feeling when you get to that point,plus it shows maturity and you're able to move on.
All relationships teach us things and helps us evolve into the person we become....until you meet a special love that stays in your life for a long time, where you never stop loving them.
Hopefully, when that person shows up in your life, you both are ready for a healthy, mature relationship that allows both of you to grow together and independently at the same time striving for the same life goals.
It's perfect timing when each person has learned from previous relationships and are able to treat each other with mutual respect, honesty, communication and genuine care.
Now combine that with '; butterflies that never cease';, regardless of how many years you have known the person, then I'd say that's a magnificent moment to capture....
Don't be hard on yourself.
Your moment hasn't arrived yet....
I think that love is more then just a feeling, it is a commitment, you have to work at it and build it, everyone has difficulties in relationships, it's the ones that want the love to last with that one person you choose that really work for it, some people just like the feeling they get when you first get into a relationship, they think when the butterflies go away that they don't love that person any more, those people have not come to the understanding what true love is. You have to work at it to keep it.
Sounds like your girlfriend just wants to make sure you don't still love anyone else. Deal with that instead of wondering why you are good at moving on. :D
im not sure what you need advice on...
lol oh ya. Love is definently a crazy thing that needs to be treasured and desired. Im in love with this guy and we've been dating for only a year. All I can say is love is a VERY UNPREDICTABLE feeling. I personally think love is just undefined. Anyways, I agree with love being the craziest feeling.
When you fall in love with someone it is all new, exciting and you can think of nothing else. Then time passes and that person does something you don't like or treats you in a way that you don't like and it begins to feel like a dull penny you leave on a table.
True love is accepting the faults in the one you love and not leaving them to the way side. Making a commitment to that person and being loyal to them.
However, we mess up when we loose ourselves in that one person. They don't make us do things like change the type of music we listen to, or watch movies we don't like. This is of our own doing.
We can love being around someone and truly love them without loosing ourselves.
It's good that you can move on and just want someone and don't need them to survive. Be glad for your strength and have fun.
Stay out of love. settle for lust.
Because youre more in love with the idea of being in love than actually being in love.Hope that makes sense. Youve dreamed of the pefect love and are trying to make every guy you meet fit into that mold and when he doesnt,you turn off the switch and move on.Until you actually find this Mr Perfect,you wont be truly happy and wont be able to settle down. So until then or if you lower your standards,nothing will ever change and unfortunately, you will never find the perfect male so the bet you can hope to do is come close and deal with the rest and realize the grass is never greener on the other side. Also trust your gut instinct more than your heart as your heart will lie to you but your gut wont. Good luck
It is weird. I was determined that i loved my ex...and i tolled myself that i would never look back like everyone else does after a relationship and say ';well i never really loved him anyway';.....then we split and i got with my recent bf. Ofcourse i cryed and cryed over my ex when we first split (which is what i always forget) but know i wonder if i was actually ever really in love with him.
I know i love my now boyfriend though....and i would never say i didn't!!!! I hope lol.
when love does come to you , you will know it and beleive me you WILL then know that crazy crazy great feeling and will never want it to stop. good luck when it does come i hope it will last for ever. some people do spend the rest of their life loving each other.
You out grew the young feelings and stepped into a new phase of growth. This will develop too. Love makes you do crazy things. Some days you act like a lunatic and others a doe eyed school boy.
When I was a teenager. I had a crush on this guy for 3 years. We never had a relationship. I still think he is a great person. Recently, my friends still talk about him. I smiled and said, ';you know I don't like/love him anymore';
Today, my girlfriend talked about my ex. My ex and I loved each other for 4 years. I moved on. She asked me..how? I said, ';I don't know. I just don't love him anymore';
What do you think? Please advice.Is love the most crazy feeling? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
i don't think you have ever been in love. the kind of love that you couldn't live without...not many people have. people throw around the ';love'; word way too often in my opinion.Is love the most crazy feeling? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
For one... why is your soo called friend still egging on about your ex??? (what a friend) I dont know how old you are and what happened between the 2 lost loves.. but move on!! if you are young or old than take a moment and jot down all the bad things that were wrong in those 2 ex relationships.. you maybe in a transition period and thats normal to feel lonely but dont look back if those 2 relationships were unhealthy... look towards the future and feel good about yourself!! your alive !! hopefully in good health!!! have a job!!! and things going for you !!! when u least expect it you will find the love of your life it may not be tomorrow but focus on you right now .!! thats all that matters.. lol. t
love can come and go, it just depends on the other person.some times you just love one specific thing about some one and they end up changing that thing, opening your eyes to who they really are. this is why people get divorced. my ex husband used to bring me flowers and hold me when i was sick, but for some reason he stopped doing that and i just lost interest. don't over think your situation and have fun with life.
I think that if you don't love a past love its because the bad outweighed the good.
it's not uncommon to fall in and out of love...You may feel a concern about the person and not want them to be in harms way, but you don't feel romantic towards them.
It's natural.
When I think about my ex's, I only want good things for them.
It's a nice feeling when you get to that point,plus it shows maturity and you're able to move on.
All relationships teach us things and helps us evolve into the person we become....until you meet a special love that stays in your life for a long time, where you never stop loving them.
Hopefully, when that person shows up in your life, you both are ready for a healthy, mature relationship that allows both of you to grow together and independently at the same time striving for the same life goals.
It's perfect timing when each person has learned from previous relationships and are able to treat each other with mutual respect, honesty, communication and genuine care.
Now combine that with '; butterflies that never cease';, regardless of how many years you have known the person, then I'd say that's a magnificent moment to capture....
Don't be hard on yourself.
Your moment hasn't arrived yet....
I think that love is more then just a feeling, it is a commitment, you have to work at it and build it, everyone has difficulties in relationships, it's the ones that want the love to last with that one person you choose that really work for it, some people just like the feeling they get when you first get into a relationship, they think when the butterflies go away that they don't love that person any more, those people have not come to the understanding what true love is. You have to work at it to keep it.
Sounds like your girlfriend just wants to make sure you don't still love anyone else. Deal with that instead of wondering why you are good at moving on. :D
im not sure what you need advice on...
lol oh ya. Love is definently a crazy thing that needs to be treasured and desired. Im in love with this guy and we've been dating for only a year. All I can say is love is a VERY UNPREDICTABLE feeling. I personally think love is just undefined. Anyways, I agree with love being the craziest feeling.
When you fall in love with someone it is all new, exciting and you can think of nothing else. Then time passes and that person does something you don't like or treats you in a way that you don't like and it begins to feel like a dull penny you leave on a table.
True love is accepting the faults in the one you love and not leaving them to the way side. Making a commitment to that person and being loyal to them.
However, we mess up when we loose ourselves in that one person. They don't make us do things like change the type of music we listen to, or watch movies we don't like. This is of our own doing.
We can love being around someone and truly love them without loosing ourselves.
It's good that you can move on and just want someone and don't need them to survive. Be glad for your strength and have fun.
Stay out of love. settle for lust.
Because youre more in love with the idea of being in love than actually being in love.Hope that makes sense. Youve dreamed of the pefect love and are trying to make every guy you meet fit into that mold and when he doesnt,you turn off the switch and move on.Until you actually find this Mr Perfect,you wont be truly happy and wont be able to settle down. So until then or if you lower your standards,nothing will ever change and unfortunately, you will never find the perfect male so the bet you can hope to do is come close and deal with the rest and realize the grass is never greener on the other side. Also trust your gut instinct more than your heart as your heart will lie to you but your gut wont. Good luck
It is weird. I was determined that i loved my ex...and i tolled myself that i would never look back like everyone else does after a relationship and say ';well i never really loved him anyway';.....then we split and i got with my recent bf. Ofcourse i cryed and cryed over my ex when we first split (which is what i always forget) but know i wonder if i was actually ever really in love with him.
I know i love my now boyfriend though....and i would never say i didn't!!!! I hope lol.
when love does come to you , you will know it and beleive me you WILL then know that crazy crazy great feeling and will never want it to stop. good luck when it does come i hope it will last for ever. some people do spend the rest of their life loving each other.
You out grew the young feelings and stepped into a new phase of growth. This will develop too. Love makes you do crazy things. Some days you act like a lunatic and others a doe eyed school boy.
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