I have Buying Issues Help me solve this problem.Best advice and answer 10 Points.?
I am a 15 years old girl who has a problem.Whenever i go to the malls my MOM REALLY WANTS TO BUY CLOTHES FOR ME.I am a Tomboy but sometimes i wear Girly Girl clothes and the thing is i refuse because of the price.I don't want my Mom to spend to much Money for my clothes because i don't feel i deserve it plus i am scared it wont look good on me like other girls or actresses like Miley and Ashley.I worry about Money more than my mother.I don't know what is wrong with me.Do i have any disorder.Most teenage girls of my age aren't concerned about the money their parents spend on their clothes and i want to be carefree and careless too so what can i do.Why do i worry about money so much.I haven't bought any clothes in 2 months and now school is going to start and i haven't bought anything to wear.I like to buy things below 20 dollar.I know i ma weird and uncool.Please help me.I have Buying Issues Help me solve this problem.Best advice and answer 10 Points.?
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um..i'm a bit like you exept i worry about my mom 2 i mean every time we go to the mall and stuff she says lets buy this lets buy you that but it's a bit expensive you know?and i say no i don't want that and my mom thinks i'm crazy and stuff cuz all the other girls are like MOM PLZ BUY ME THAT but our moms are like darling come buy this and we are like no mom that's expensive LOL i thing we DON';T HAVE any problem we just don't have a bit confidence... and we are really kind btwI have Buying Issues Help me solve this problem.Best advice and answer 10 Points.?
It's other people that have a problem, not you. You should be HAPPY that you're frugal! By the time everyone around you realizes that they don't have an infinite budget, you'll be the one loaded with cash!
As for your mom, just flatly state that you won't wear the clothes that she buys for you. If she still does, hammer in the point by simply putting the clothes outside your room on the floor. She'll get the idea eventually, and you explain to her that she's saving money! Win win situation!
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Tuesday, August 24, 2010
I still want to wait for him? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I think I found my true love. We love each other for 4 years. We are separated and have not seen each other for almost 2 years now. We kept in touch as friends. We have very a busy lifestyle. He is a Marine officer. I am working full-times. Moreover, we came from difference cultures and our personalities are so different.
Recently, we were in argument. He was upseted and asked me to leave him alone. I knew he did not mean to hurt my feelings. We still love each other alot.
Many people told me to move on. However, I believe (deep down in my heart and intuition) oneday he will try to pursue a relationship with me. He just waits for the right times--may be 2-5 years from now. Therefore, I should not move on with anybody. I should wait for him because he is my true love.
Please advice. Thank you.I still want to wait for him? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
If he is your true love, don't listen to your friends. The next thing to do is write him and apologize. Don't let this go another day without saying anything. Let him know how you feel and that you want to get back together. I'm sure he will be very glad to hear from you.I still want to wait for him? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Aww i love this question because i just got back with the guy that ive loved...so we separated due to his reasons but we still loved eachother. I tried to move on but it didnt work because i loved/love him and i knew he did too. So like a few months passed then he calls and says that he's missed me and we got back together..we've been together 2 years btw..
What im getting at is that if you two love eachother then time will bring you guys back together, or you can even call him and tell him how you feel about him because you never know if thats what he wants too. Just don't pretend like your over him if the reaction is different from his side because ive learned its easier trying to move on then trying to forget about that person. Good luck though, it will work out.
If you trully think that he is your true love WAIT. What if you moved on and a year from now he came after you, found out you had been with someone else and then decided that he didn't want anything to do with you anymore!!!!! You would lose him forever and that would hurt the rest of your life. I messed up when I was younger and lost my true love. I still regret it today and would give almost anything not to have been so stupid.
Recently, we were in argument. He was upseted and asked me to leave him alone. I knew he did not mean to hurt my feelings. We still love each other alot.
Many people told me to move on. However, I believe (deep down in my heart and intuition) oneday he will try to pursue a relationship with me. He just waits for the right times--may be 2-5 years from now. Therefore, I should not move on with anybody. I should wait for him because he is my true love.
Please advice. Thank you.I still want to wait for him? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
If he is your true love, don't listen to your friends. The next thing to do is write him and apologize. Don't let this go another day without saying anything. Let him know how you feel and that you want to get back together. I'm sure he will be very glad to hear from you.I still want to wait for him? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Aww i love this question because i just got back with the guy that ive loved...so we separated due to his reasons but we still loved eachother. I tried to move on but it didnt work because i loved/love him and i knew he did too. So like a few months passed then he calls and says that he's missed me and we got back together..we've been together 2 years btw..
What im getting at is that if you two love eachother then time will bring you guys back together, or you can even call him and tell him how you feel about him because you never know if thats what he wants too. Just don't pretend like your over him if the reaction is different from his side because ive learned its easier trying to move on then trying to forget about that person. Good luck though, it will work out.
If you trully think that he is your true love WAIT. What if you moved on and a year from now he came after you, found out you had been with someone else and then decided that he didn't want anything to do with you anymore!!!!! You would lose him forever and that would hurt the rest of your life. I messed up when I was younger and lost my true love. I still regret it today and would give almost anything not to have been so stupid.
Why no explanation from him. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
This guy and I love each other for three years. We are separted because I moved to other states. He love over 20 poems about me. Three month ago he wrote this
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A Sun
Category: Writing and Poetry
If I could remember all at once
All the moments I'd rather forget
I'd probably think twice 'fore all
And sinking quickly behind the clouds
My sun would set.
But life is too short for mulling reservation
And most of those days have passed
So we are what we've done, both the good and the bad.
Riding bare as a sun hits its highest
Me and my fierce ambition have arrived
At last.
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I asked him about the poem. He did not to tell me. I thought he wanted to move on;therefore, I deleted him from my friendlist. He blocked me from his website.
In the past two months. I sent him an apology e-mail and explain what was going on. He did not reply my e-mail. However, he still post all the poems he wrote online. Why no explanation? What should I do?Why no explanation from him. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I think that what he is trying to say is that he used to always think about what happened in the relationship even though he didn't want to think about it anymore...he'd rather forget. And at the time he wrote this poem I think he finally decided it was time for him to move on (that's why he says those days have passed and that his ambition has arrived). It seems that he accepts what happened between you two and holds no resentments, he recognizes that what happened is what makes you both who you are today. I don't think he is replying because he realizes that sometimes you have to let go and remember the good things about a person and accept when it will not work or was not meant to be. It doesn't seem like a mean poem to me, more of a fond farewell.
Hope this gives you at least one other persepctive...it could mean something different to everybody.Why no explanation from him. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
he wants no contact from you,. he blocked you from his website, you should know by now. move on with your life.
Sounds like he found someone to love a little closer to him. Let him go and move on yourself.
Most likely he got his feelings hurt when you blocked him from your friendlist without him being able to give an explanation of what he felt. The reason for him not wanting to communicate could be because he could see you as someone who doesn't resolve their issues with upfront communication and he would like someone to come to him and be honest with their emotions. It didn't look good with you jumping the gun with not being his friend when you say you loved him. When you love someone you should love them faults and all. You should of asked him what the poem meant from his persepective and then you could of said something like...thank you because I thought it meant this and I am glad I asked you.....it is about communication. How would you have felt if the roles would have been reversed?
sounds 2 me like didn't know what he really wanted from what all had if he was so happy in the biggining and so miserable at the end wy didn't he think of all the reasons that made him happyto begin it also sounds like u didsomething really terrible to hurt him i ean is that the case b cause f not then he's a dillusional man andu should move onne ways if a man eversays he loves u that's forever ad always no matter what he obviously like i said doesn't ow what he's doing he must of had ano offense short tem lust 4 u that he realizd was not 4 him so ur best bet is to ve on if by u leaving him alone 4a while is the best u should try th and see what happens if he tries to cotact u listen to his reasons then and decide if they were good enough 4 how much he t u but don't leave ur heart widopen for rejection again take everything slow and c what happen and b careful hope i helped a little
why stress over this. maybe you thought he was really in love with you.and he was even writing poems to other girls behind your back and you weren't aware of. let it go. find someone who really deserves you. and stop emailing him, he will only think he still can have you whenever he wants.
the same as him ..sorry. move on .. good luck..
Forget about him because he is trying to forget about you and get you out of his life, but the poetry is still his intellectual property and he wants to be recognized for his works. I believe very few artists pull every poem, song, sculpture, or painting once their mood changes because they no longer feel like that. They keep that as part of what made them inspire what they felt at that time.
and what is your ambition ? Obviously not her!
I think you are reading into this to deeply, it doesn't matter at this point what the poem means, it sound like you guys are done, so let it go.
Did you tell him what you thought about the poem and what it meant to you? If he wrote the poem to you, then that's what he wants to hear from you. It's also possible he just wanted to put a delicate touch to the end of his relationship. Normally though people should try and be friends after a relationship. It was a bad idea to take him off your friends list imo.
Here's what I thought of the poem:
He doesn't want to forget all the bad moments. Then he talks about his sun setting behind the clouds, which could be you. So maybe he felt like you were leaving him beyound yonder. He doesn't want to waste time thinking about holding something back. Time will go on and everything good and bad wont matter because he feels strong and ambitious at last.
A poem is a test sometimes. Maybe he was testing you. My best advice is to move on. Find a better person.
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A Sun
Category: Writing and Poetry
If I could remember all at once
All the moments I'd rather forget
I'd probably think twice 'fore all
And sinking quickly behind the clouds
My sun would set.
But life is too short for mulling reservation
And most of those days have passed
So we are what we've done, both the good and the bad.
Riding bare as a sun hits its highest
Me and my fierce ambition have arrived
At last.
**
I asked him about the poem. He did not to tell me. I thought he wanted to move on;therefore, I deleted him from my friendlist. He blocked me from his website.
In the past two months. I sent him an apology e-mail and explain what was going on. He did not reply my e-mail. However, he still post all the poems he wrote online. Why no explanation? What should I do?Why no explanation from him. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I think that what he is trying to say is that he used to always think about what happened in the relationship even though he didn't want to think about it anymore...he'd rather forget. And at the time he wrote this poem I think he finally decided it was time for him to move on (that's why he says those days have passed and that his ambition has arrived). It seems that he accepts what happened between you two and holds no resentments, he recognizes that what happened is what makes you both who you are today. I don't think he is replying because he realizes that sometimes you have to let go and remember the good things about a person and accept when it will not work or was not meant to be. It doesn't seem like a mean poem to me, more of a fond farewell.
Hope this gives you at least one other persepctive...it could mean something different to everybody.Why no explanation from him. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
he wants no contact from you,. he blocked you from his website, you should know by now. move on with your life.
Sounds like he found someone to love a little closer to him. Let him go and move on yourself.
Most likely he got his feelings hurt when you blocked him from your friendlist without him being able to give an explanation of what he felt. The reason for him not wanting to communicate could be because he could see you as someone who doesn't resolve their issues with upfront communication and he would like someone to come to him and be honest with their emotions. It didn't look good with you jumping the gun with not being his friend when you say you loved him. When you love someone you should love them faults and all. You should of asked him what the poem meant from his persepective and then you could of said something like...thank you because I thought it meant this and I am glad I asked you.....it is about communication. How would you have felt if the roles would have been reversed?
sounds 2 me like didn't know what he really wanted from what all had if he was so happy in the biggining and so miserable at the end wy didn't he think of all the reasons that made him happyto begin it also sounds like u didsomething really terrible to hurt him i ean is that the case b cause f not then he's a dillusional man andu should move onne ways if a man eversays he loves u that's forever ad always no matter what he obviously like i said doesn't ow what he's doing he must of had ano offense short tem lust 4 u that he realizd was not 4 him so ur best bet is to ve on if by u leaving him alone 4a while is the best u should try th and see what happens if he tries to cotact u listen to his reasons then and decide if they were good enough 4 how much he t u but don't leave ur heart widopen for rejection again take everything slow and c what happen and b careful hope i helped a little
why stress over this. maybe you thought he was really in love with you.and he was even writing poems to other girls behind your back and you weren't aware of. let it go. find someone who really deserves you. and stop emailing him, he will only think he still can have you whenever he wants.
the same as him ..sorry. move on .. good luck..
Forget about him because he is trying to forget about you and get you out of his life, but the poetry is still his intellectual property and he wants to be recognized for his works. I believe very few artists pull every poem, song, sculpture, or painting once their mood changes because they no longer feel like that. They keep that as part of what made them inspire what they felt at that time.
and what is your ambition ? Obviously not her!
I think you are reading into this to deeply, it doesn't matter at this point what the poem means, it sound like you guys are done, so let it go.
Did you tell him what you thought about the poem and what it meant to you? If he wrote the poem to you, then that's what he wants to hear from you. It's also possible he just wanted to put a delicate touch to the end of his relationship. Normally though people should try and be friends after a relationship. It was a bad idea to take him off your friends list imo.
Here's what I thought of the poem:
He doesn't want to forget all the bad moments. Then he talks about his sun setting behind the clouds, which could be you. So maybe he felt like you were leaving him beyound yonder. He doesn't want to waste time thinking about holding something back. Time will go on and everything good and bad wont matter because he feels strong and ambitious at last.
A poem is a test sometimes. Maybe he was testing you. My best advice is to move on. Find a better person.
I'm 15, confused, depressed, and I need YOUR best advice. Help?
We've been together for fourteen months, but around the time we were celebrating our 10 month anniversary, I was getting closer to someone else and now I have seriously messed things up. I have confused myself and I don't know who I want more. I feel so ridiculous. I'm simply 15 but I will go crazy if I see either guy with someone else. What makes this so hard is that with the new guy I have somewhat of a bond with him and we are very close spiritually and emotionally, but with my boyfriend of over a year we can talk about anything, whereas with the new guy we don't have to talk; it's emotionally there.
I'm more comfortable in public with the new guy over my boyfriend.
In private, I'm more comfortable with my boyfriend. It's always been kind of weird to be with him in public...I feel horrible for saying that, but it's true.
The new guy is simply 1 1/2 years older than me, and my boyfriend is 3 1/2 years older...it's so hard on me. My boyfriend's friends seriously hate me because I seem ';immature'; to them, but that's a totally different story.
The point is, I'm afraid to start a new relationship because I might end up regretting what I gave up, but this new guy deserves at least a chance of us dating, but what if my boyfriend finds someone else?
I'm freakin 15...this shouldn't boggle me down this much...I'm 15, confused, depressed, and I need YOUR best advice. Help?
I was just in your situation at 16. It was my first relationship, and I really cared about my boyfriend. Here's my advice to you:
If you have feelings for the new guy, then you should break up with the boyfriend. Tell him things haven't been feeling quite right for you, and you want some time to sort things out. I know this really hurts and probably makes you feel really bad, but I promise it'll be okay. You're only fifteen and there will be so many more relationships in your lifetime.
After you break up, take some time to just be single and think about your feelings and what you want. It sounds to me like this new guy would be a better match for you, and you should give it a try once you take the time to move on from your relationship.
The truth is, if you're in a relationship and you start having serious feelings for someone else, then there's something missing in your current relationship and it's just not going to work out. This is your heart trying to tell you something, and you need to listen to it.
I tried hanging onto my boyfriend for months, instead of dating the new guy. My boyfriend and I eventually broke up anyways, because the truth is we just weren't right for each other. We're still good friends and hopefully it turns out just as happily for you. And the new guy? Well, I'm going to see him again this summer. I don't know how it's gonna go! Hopefully, whoever your new guy is, you're happy :)I'm 15, confused, depressed, and I need YOUR best advice. Help?
no it shouldn't but if you are serious about your boyfriend then the other guy needs to stay off your radar. you need to make up your mind and do it carefully think about it and donot do anything on impulse just slow down and think..growing up is hard work and never a easy path to take.. good luck
stay with your boyfriend. you've been together for this long, its normal to have feelings for other guys. the other guy could be anybody. thnk about it. you know more about your boyfriend than you do this other person. dont give up what you have. but hey thats my advice. do what you want.
ok so i was going to say something along the lines of your boyfriend sounds like a boyfriend and the other guy sounds like just a good friend
but wow 3 and a half years older... not such a big deal if you were older but wow.
go for the 16 yr old
Youre right,, youre 15. Odds are pretty good that youre not going to marry either of these guys. Dont take these things so seriously, youre just practicing for the real men girl. Just pick the one that makes you the happiest. Or hell keep them both lol
make a list of the pros and cons of each relationship or guy... look them over and consider everything... some one once told me, dont leave the one you love for the one you like cuz the one you like will leave you for the one they love!
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Just ask yourself if you still love your current boyfriend. that is the question. if you do, then you don't need to change a thing. If you don't then thats a different story.
You need to make a decision rather quickly because if eith one finds out, he might say something to the other one to start an argument. Then it will all be over-with both guys. Take my advice, hun Seriously
leaving a guy for anougher guy??
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try to get more confertable with ur bf in public
go for another
i kinda have the same problem
but not exactly
Dear, u wud need to thnk wida clear head, study u problem 4m a neutral point of view, den u wud ve de answr, see u r on dat stage whr u nd 2 do wats rite ethically n nt de way u want it to be rite, u can nt leave ur boyfrnd alone in de midway, shud b thkful dat he treats u lyk a propah lady, dis new guy it seems only want physical stuff, which wud leave u damaged emotionally n physically, so my suggestion is u ve *** dis far, so bid de new guy gudbye n its absolutely wrng 4 u 2 cheat on ur boyfrnd, also how sure r u, dat even though u do decide 2 go ahead wid de new guy, n leave ur boyfrnd, dis new guy wud nt ditch u 4 anthr girl? so my vote goes 2 ur boyfrnd who has been devoted 2 u n wud neva hurt u emotionally.....
You are right...you shouldn't be bogged down. You have dated your current bf since you were 13 and a half? Where are your parents on this. You should just now be allowed to date and you have been dating since you were 13...no wonder all this confusion. I think at your age you should be dating all around..and not going exclusive with any one person...you are way to young for this commitment stuff. Free yourself up..and don't jump into another long term relationship. Keep yourself open.
Im going through a relationship problem like you now, so i understand what you are feeling (your 15, and im 14, so i do understand how you feel on this). the thing is with relationships you can never know whats going to work or not, but you dont want to risk what you already have. trust me i know how you feel, even though i may not be able to fully understand your true feelings; in my case... im basicly dating one of my best friends ex's who where very close, and the weird thing is, the girl and i both really like eachother (possibly even love). we are both really unsure since we both have mixed feelings because of my friend (who is unaware) and our friends who are pressuring us, some supportive some not.. but those who are not get to me more... i basicly hate myself now... i want to be with her, but i dont want to hurt my friend...
in this situation, similar to yours the only rational thing to do is to talk to the ones in question (your current bf, and possible the other guy) and discuss how you feel. honestly, both of them seem to like you (exactly how much, is unknown by me), and if they truley do, they both will only want you to be happy. mainly, by just talking, you can learn alot about yourself and those you talk to. i know this may not solve the problem, but its the best thing you can do. you need to decide what you truley want. if possible, i know its hard, ignore those who try to shut you down, and do what makes you happy. just know that small things are not sufficant reason not to care for someone, though you like one thing, you may find something that you despise/dislike.
im very sorry for all the above confusion, but its all i can say right now, as i am talking from fresh pain/hurt and feel like im dying inside myself from all this.
i honestly hope that this does help you a little. i wish you nothing but the best of luck with this and all of your problems.
- T.J.R.
The liklihood of you ending up with either of these guys is slim.
You need to figure out why you feel more comfortable with each guy. Is one better looking than the other. Is one immature. Is one more shy.
Feelings change.
Have you told either of these guys about the other one?
Whether you say anything or not, there is a vibe you will give out if you have been cheating (even if nothing physical has happened). Relationships that start out this way, rarely end well. Generally if you are with someone else and you start seeing someone new, the someone new may think that it is okay to be with someone else at the same time as being with you, and not tell you about it.
My advice, which I doubt you will take, is to make a clean break from both the guys. Neither of them are right for you.
I have had this problem before, and I didn't end up marrying either of them, but that was a choice I made. First of all, you are only 15 so chances are that you will end up meeting other guys and probably forgetting about one or both of these guys. However, this new relationship will always seem great at first because it is new; so you should keep that in mind. There are other questions that arise though: Does this new guy know that you have a boyfriend?
I wouldn't care much about what your bf's friends think about, guys can say something bad about you one minute, then try and talk to you behind their homeboy's back the next.
You can keep seeing them both, but if they find out can u handle what will happen next? If not, you need to straight up and tell one or both of them what is going. Personally I would tell the new guy ';i have a boyfriend, but we can still be friends';
hey girl! I remeber when I was 15, you really need to play the field and try not to tie yourself down to one person. you are young, dating right now will help you determine what you want in a husband later. I have dated a lot of jerks, being with different types of guys helps you realize how you really want to be treated and what you really deserve. I say tell them both you dont want a commitment and date both! why not, you know! have fun there is no need to be commited to one guy at your age. good luck with everything girl! :)
Relax and know that you are not the first person to be in this situation. Many have been in your shoes and have made it out just fine. You are saying the right things, you are only 15. You have the rest of your life ahead of you. Things happen, people change. You may or may not be in love with both of these guys. You are the only one that can make the decision on what to do. I would recommend you pick one, not my choice but it sounds like the new guy and you click just a little more, and go with it. In life we do many things we regret, as long as you learn from them and do not make the same mistake twice you will be fine.
Best of Luck,
haha 15 is when it most likely WILL boggle you down this much, sounds to me tho like you just need to suck it up and make a choice and stick with it, if you leave your boyfriend for this other guy then it was time for that relationship to end anyway and if he finds someone else then you'll just have to move on and focus on this new guy, if it doesn't work out with him and you've lost your original boyfriend as well (because this outcome is possible in situations like this) then again you will just have to move on knowing that you took a risk that didn't turn out the way you wanted, you won't have to have any regrets
You still have a long way to go girl unless you wanted to get married as early as sixteen..and could be a more terrible/confusing thing..
Let me ask you this...what was those things that caused you to like him before giving him your ';Yes';? And what do you think are those beautiful things your boyfriend saw in you the time he is courting you? During those months being with him, is there mutual responses that created a bond?Is there any reason why you are not comfortable being with your BF in Public?Historical reason? Physical?Do you want to keep him?
If your answer to my last question is a big ';YES'; then find ways to create a spark again (if there was). What was those things you do enjoy mutually (aside from sex,if you did). Outdoors?Hiking?Some activities that will help you both know each other...deeply.
If not?Well that's is also acceptable answer. Answers can only be YES or NO. If you dont have that mutual feeling (anymore)..let go of yourselves. The experiences in the stage you are in now is just a preparation for a more mature discernment on things like these.
As you have said, you are freakin 15...this shouldn't boggle you down that much. There could be reasons why you are more comfortable with the GUY. Is he physically more attractive than your BF? You said you feel that there is somewhat a bonding whenever youre with him even without talking? Can you know him better that way? Do you find him more better to be with?Just a reminder..communication is indespensable..
Dont commit anything by now now to the Guy. Go back to my questions and answer to the last one. Dont tell the guy to wait but you can still be a friend to him.
Hope this help..
Honestly, I would take a break from your boyfriend and see where things go with the new guy. I wouldn't take this advice too seriously, I'm just basing it off what you wrote. I'm in a similar situation. I've liked a girl for years now, but since she's a little out of my league I haven't gotten the courage to ask her out. I know I should probably move on, but I'm sooo afraid of never knowing what might have been. It's a tough decision to make, but make sure you choose the one your most comfortable with, no matter where you are. Good Luck!
Make two lists one for you boyfriend now with positive and negative things about him, and one for the new guy with positive and negative things about him...Compare and contrast.... Make a list about yourself and the things you like and dont like about you..See which guy fits in there better...Sometimes its better to see things on paper rather than in ur head...It makes it more visual...Always trust your head and your heart...Take chances when it feels right...
You are right, you shouldn't let it bother you that much, but if you are with one guy and liking another, then maybe its time you take a break from the first one, you are still so young and you have so much more time to look for the right one, and trust me, you will know. I know its hard and this is probably not what you want to hear, but trust me. don't cheat on your boyfriend with this guy because you could ruin and hurt him so much more then a simple break up and at first, yeah it may be hard, but think of how much harder it will be to explain to him if he finds out you cheated on him. also if you break up with him and find out you don't like the other guy and you still have strong feelings for your first, its much easier to explain to your ex then it would be after you cheated on him. think of how you would feel in his place. just let your first know you are confused and you need a break and continue talking as friends to both guys, after you get to know them more you will know which one you share interests with the most and it will all be clearer. please don't stress over this too much, go out with friends and stuff, don't revolve your life over this. it could only cause much more severe symptoms.
good luck %26lt;3
I usually don't even answer stuff like this, but this sounds like a similar situation to my friend, so here goes:
As you are only 15 currently dating someone who is 18/19ish I can see where the public thing becomes awkward (it can be a little taboo for the older guy). As for his friends, they likely think that because you are 3 years younger that you aren't as mature as them, and in all likelihood it's true. You are still growing and learning. At your age you shouldn't be so concerned.
As for the other gentleman, you say you have a spiritual connection. Usually it takes a lot of time to develop such a close connection with someone, and I fear that it may be the excitement of someone new in your life who is closer to your age. As you said yourself, you're more comfortable with your BF in private than the other guy, and yet the other guy is better when in public.
It comes don to this: talk to your current BF and express how you feel in public. Try and find out WHY it is uncomfortable in public and address it. If you can work something out then great, problem solved, you have the best of both worlds. It's not too late to develop a connection with him.
If you cannot work out those issues then wait. Give it a little time, just in case the excitement of the new guy wears off and you're left without anyone at all. If you do TRULY have feeling for him then accept the risk that you will be leaving you current relationship for ever and never returning.
As you said, you're 15, and this is the least of your worries. It'll all be a learning experience.
Good luck.
HES 18 OR 19???????????????
this is a mess.
you're a mess.
1: Drop both of them by saying you just want to be friends.
2: A ten month anniversary? NOT EVEN NEWLY MARRIED COUPLES CELEBRATE 10 MONTH ANNIVERSARIES... WTF?
3: So, you want to date the new guy, but have your boyfriend as a backup in case it doesn't work out? NO COMMENT ON THAT ONE...
4: If you're not comfortable with your boyfriend in public what does that say?...
5: Hang out with friends and work out (running and whatnot). Maintain friendship with these two guys, but don't let them get in the way of your life.
You're 15. These things shouldn't be your main concerns. I know dating is fun and all in high school, but you'll realize high school relationships are completely pointless once your out of high school and into college.
I'm more comfortable in public with the new guy over my boyfriend.
In private, I'm more comfortable with my boyfriend. It's always been kind of weird to be with him in public...I feel horrible for saying that, but it's true.
The new guy is simply 1 1/2 years older than me, and my boyfriend is 3 1/2 years older...it's so hard on me. My boyfriend's friends seriously hate me because I seem ';immature'; to them, but that's a totally different story.
The point is, I'm afraid to start a new relationship because I might end up regretting what I gave up, but this new guy deserves at least a chance of us dating, but what if my boyfriend finds someone else?
I'm freakin 15...this shouldn't boggle me down this much...I'm 15, confused, depressed, and I need YOUR best advice. Help?
I was just in your situation at 16. It was my first relationship, and I really cared about my boyfriend. Here's my advice to you:
If you have feelings for the new guy, then you should break up with the boyfriend. Tell him things haven't been feeling quite right for you, and you want some time to sort things out. I know this really hurts and probably makes you feel really bad, but I promise it'll be okay. You're only fifteen and there will be so many more relationships in your lifetime.
After you break up, take some time to just be single and think about your feelings and what you want. It sounds to me like this new guy would be a better match for you, and you should give it a try once you take the time to move on from your relationship.
The truth is, if you're in a relationship and you start having serious feelings for someone else, then there's something missing in your current relationship and it's just not going to work out. This is your heart trying to tell you something, and you need to listen to it.
I tried hanging onto my boyfriend for months, instead of dating the new guy. My boyfriend and I eventually broke up anyways, because the truth is we just weren't right for each other. We're still good friends and hopefully it turns out just as happily for you. And the new guy? Well, I'm going to see him again this summer. I don't know how it's gonna go! Hopefully, whoever your new guy is, you're happy :)I'm 15, confused, depressed, and I need YOUR best advice. Help?
no it shouldn't but if you are serious about your boyfriend then the other guy needs to stay off your radar. you need to make up your mind and do it carefully think about it and donot do anything on impulse just slow down and think..growing up is hard work and never a easy path to take.. good luck
stay with your boyfriend. you've been together for this long, its normal to have feelings for other guys. the other guy could be anybody. thnk about it. you know more about your boyfriend than you do this other person. dont give up what you have. but hey thats my advice. do what you want.
ok so i was going to say something along the lines of your boyfriend sounds like a boyfriend and the other guy sounds like just a good friend
but wow 3 and a half years older... not such a big deal if you were older but wow.
go for the 16 yr old
Youre right,, youre 15. Odds are pretty good that youre not going to marry either of these guys. Dont take these things so seriously, youre just practicing for the real men girl. Just pick the one that makes you the happiest. Or hell keep them both lol
make a list of the pros and cons of each relationship or guy... look them over and consider everything... some one once told me, dont leave the one you love for the one you like cuz the one you like will leave you for the one they love!
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Just ask yourself if you still love your current boyfriend. that is the question. if you do, then you don't need to change a thing. If you don't then thats a different story.
You need to make a decision rather quickly because if eith one finds out, he might say something to the other one to start an argument. Then it will all be over-with both guys. Take my advice, hun Seriously
leaving a guy for anougher guy??
HORABLE
try to get more confertable with ur bf in public
go for another
i kinda have the same problem
but not exactly
Dear, u wud need to thnk wida clear head, study u problem 4m a neutral point of view, den u wud ve de answr, see u r on dat stage whr u nd 2 do wats rite ethically n nt de way u want it to be rite, u can nt leave ur boyfrnd alone in de midway, shud b thkful dat he treats u lyk a propah lady, dis new guy it seems only want physical stuff, which wud leave u damaged emotionally n physically, so my suggestion is u ve *** dis far, so bid de new guy gudbye n its absolutely wrng 4 u 2 cheat on ur boyfrnd, also how sure r u, dat even though u do decide 2 go ahead wid de new guy, n leave ur boyfrnd, dis new guy wud nt ditch u 4 anthr girl? so my vote goes 2 ur boyfrnd who has been devoted 2 u n wud neva hurt u emotionally.....
You are right...you shouldn't be bogged down. You have dated your current bf since you were 13 and a half? Where are your parents on this. You should just now be allowed to date and you have been dating since you were 13...no wonder all this confusion. I think at your age you should be dating all around..and not going exclusive with any one person...you are way to young for this commitment stuff. Free yourself up..and don't jump into another long term relationship. Keep yourself open.
Im going through a relationship problem like you now, so i understand what you are feeling (your 15, and im 14, so i do understand how you feel on this). the thing is with relationships you can never know whats going to work or not, but you dont want to risk what you already have. trust me i know how you feel, even though i may not be able to fully understand your true feelings; in my case... im basicly dating one of my best friends ex's who where very close, and the weird thing is, the girl and i both really like eachother (possibly even love). we are both really unsure since we both have mixed feelings because of my friend (who is unaware) and our friends who are pressuring us, some supportive some not.. but those who are not get to me more... i basicly hate myself now... i want to be with her, but i dont want to hurt my friend...
in this situation, similar to yours the only rational thing to do is to talk to the ones in question (your current bf, and possible the other guy) and discuss how you feel. honestly, both of them seem to like you (exactly how much, is unknown by me), and if they truley do, they both will only want you to be happy. mainly, by just talking, you can learn alot about yourself and those you talk to. i know this may not solve the problem, but its the best thing you can do. you need to decide what you truley want. if possible, i know its hard, ignore those who try to shut you down, and do what makes you happy. just know that small things are not sufficant reason not to care for someone, though you like one thing, you may find something that you despise/dislike.
im very sorry for all the above confusion, but its all i can say right now, as i am talking from fresh pain/hurt and feel like im dying inside myself from all this.
i honestly hope that this does help you a little. i wish you nothing but the best of luck with this and all of your problems.
- T.J.R.
The liklihood of you ending up with either of these guys is slim.
You need to figure out why you feel more comfortable with each guy. Is one better looking than the other. Is one immature. Is one more shy.
Feelings change.
Have you told either of these guys about the other one?
Whether you say anything or not, there is a vibe you will give out if you have been cheating (even if nothing physical has happened). Relationships that start out this way, rarely end well. Generally if you are with someone else and you start seeing someone new, the someone new may think that it is okay to be with someone else at the same time as being with you, and not tell you about it.
My advice, which I doubt you will take, is to make a clean break from both the guys. Neither of them are right for you.
I have had this problem before, and I didn't end up marrying either of them, but that was a choice I made. First of all, you are only 15 so chances are that you will end up meeting other guys and probably forgetting about one or both of these guys. However, this new relationship will always seem great at first because it is new; so you should keep that in mind. There are other questions that arise though: Does this new guy know that you have a boyfriend?
I wouldn't care much about what your bf's friends think about, guys can say something bad about you one minute, then try and talk to you behind their homeboy's back the next.
You can keep seeing them both, but if they find out can u handle what will happen next? If not, you need to straight up and tell one or both of them what is going. Personally I would tell the new guy ';i have a boyfriend, but we can still be friends';
hey girl! I remeber when I was 15, you really need to play the field and try not to tie yourself down to one person. you are young, dating right now will help you determine what you want in a husband later. I have dated a lot of jerks, being with different types of guys helps you realize how you really want to be treated and what you really deserve. I say tell them both you dont want a commitment and date both! why not, you know! have fun there is no need to be commited to one guy at your age. good luck with everything girl! :)
Relax and know that you are not the first person to be in this situation. Many have been in your shoes and have made it out just fine. You are saying the right things, you are only 15. You have the rest of your life ahead of you. Things happen, people change. You may or may not be in love with both of these guys. You are the only one that can make the decision on what to do. I would recommend you pick one, not my choice but it sounds like the new guy and you click just a little more, and go with it. In life we do many things we regret, as long as you learn from them and do not make the same mistake twice you will be fine.
Best of Luck,
haha 15 is when it most likely WILL boggle you down this much, sounds to me tho like you just need to suck it up and make a choice and stick with it, if you leave your boyfriend for this other guy then it was time for that relationship to end anyway and if he finds someone else then you'll just have to move on and focus on this new guy, if it doesn't work out with him and you've lost your original boyfriend as well (because this outcome is possible in situations like this) then again you will just have to move on knowing that you took a risk that didn't turn out the way you wanted, you won't have to have any regrets
You still have a long way to go girl unless you wanted to get married as early as sixteen..and could be a more terrible/confusing thing..
Let me ask you this...what was those things that caused you to like him before giving him your ';Yes';? And what do you think are those beautiful things your boyfriend saw in you the time he is courting you? During those months being with him, is there mutual responses that created a bond?Is there any reason why you are not comfortable being with your BF in Public?Historical reason? Physical?Do you want to keep him?
If your answer to my last question is a big ';YES'; then find ways to create a spark again (if there was). What was those things you do enjoy mutually (aside from sex,if you did). Outdoors?Hiking?Some activities that will help you both know each other...deeply.
If not?Well that's is also acceptable answer. Answers can only be YES or NO. If you dont have that mutual feeling (anymore)..let go of yourselves. The experiences in the stage you are in now is just a preparation for a more mature discernment on things like these.
As you have said, you are freakin 15...this shouldn't boggle you down that much. There could be reasons why you are more comfortable with the GUY. Is he physically more attractive than your BF? You said you feel that there is somewhat a bonding whenever youre with him even without talking? Can you know him better that way? Do you find him more better to be with?Just a reminder..communication is indespensable..
Dont commit anything by now now to the Guy. Go back to my questions and answer to the last one. Dont tell the guy to wait but you can still be a friend to him.
Hope this help..
Honestly, I would take a break from your boyfriend and see where things go with the new guy. I wouldn't take this advice too seriously, I'm just basing it off what you wrote. I'm in a similar situation. I've liked a girl for years now, but since she's a little out of my league I haven't gotten the courage to ask her out. I know I should probably move on, but I'm sooo afraid of never knowing what might have been. It's a tough decision to make, but make sure you choose the one your most comfortable with, no matter where you are. Good Luck!
Make two lists one for you boyfriend now with positive and negative things about him, and one for the new guy with positive and negative things about him...Compare and contrast.... Make a list about yourself and the things you like and dont like about you..See which guy fits in there better...Sometimes its better to see things on paper rather than in ur head...It makes it more visual...Always trust your head and your heart...Take chances when it feels right...
You are right, you shouldn't let it bother you that much, but if you are with one guy and liking another, then maybe its time you take a break from the first one, you are still so young and you have so much more time to look for the right one, and trust me, you will know. I know its hard and this is probably not what you want to hear, but trust me. don't cheat on your boyfriend with this guy because you could ruin and hurt him so much more then a simple break up and at first, yeah it may be hard, but think of how much harder it will be to explain to him if he finds out you cheated on him. also if you break up with him and find out you don't like the other guy and you still have strong feelings for your first, its much easier to explain to your ex then it would be after you cheated on him. think of how you would feel in his place. just let your first know you are confused and you need a break and continue talking as friends to both guys, after you get to know them more you will know which one you share interests with the most and it will all be clearer. please don't stress over this too much, go out with friends and stuff, don't revolve your life over this. it could only cause much more severe symptoms.
good luck %26lt;3
I usually don't even answer stuff like this, but this sounds like a similar situation to my friend, so here goes:
As you are only 15 currently dating someone who is 18/19ish I can see where the public thing becomes awkward (it can be a little taboo for the older guy). As for his friends, they likely think that because you are 3 years younger that you aren't as mature as them, and in all likelihood it's true. You are still growing and learning. At your age you shouldn't be so concerned.
As for the other gentleman, you say you have a spiritual connection. Usually it takes a lot of time to develop such a close connection with someone, and I fear that it may be the excitement of someone new in your life who is closer to your age. As you said yourself, you're more comfortable with your BF in private than the other guy, and yet the other guy is better when in public.
It comes don to this: talk to your current BF and express how you feel in public. Try and find out WHY it is uncomfortable in public and address it. If you can work something out then great, problem solved, you have the best of both worlds. It's not too late to develop a connection with him.
If you cannot work out those issues then wait. Give it a little time, just in case the excitement of the new guy wears off and you're left without anyone at all. If you do TRULY have feeling for him then accept the risk that you will be leaving you current relationship for ever and never returning.
As you said, you're 15, and this is the least of your worries. It'll all be a learning experience.
Good luck.
HES 18 OR 19???????????????
this is a mess.
you're a mess.
1: Drop both of them by saying you just want to be friends.
2: A ten month anniversary? NOT EVEN NEWLY MARRIED COUPLES CELEBRATE 10 MONTH ANNIVERSARIES... WTF?
3: So, you want to date the new guy, but have your boyfriend as a backup in case it doesn't work out? NO COMMENT ON THAT ONE...
4: If you're not comfortable with your boyfriend in public what does that say?...
5: Hang out with friends and work out (running and whatnot). Maintain friendship with these two guys, but don't let them get in the way of your life.
You're 15. These things shouldn't be your main concerns. I know dating is fun and all in high school, but you'll realize high school relationships are completely pointless once your out of high school and into college.
I miss him falling for me... 10 pts for best advice?
i am now in a new grade and last year there was the really hot guy. he'd always talk to me, and say he wasnt cool and he wanted to be more like me. that brought a huge smile to my face because no one really says that to me. it was june and it was time for summer he never IMed me over the summer.. just like 6 months ago he said i was hot and that was aroung last year he wanted me to tell no one but my friend was over she told everyone and he said it was a joke to everyone. today at luch i sit at my lunch table i see him and he just keeps looking at me with a smile and couldnt keep his eyes of me. were in no classes this year but last year we had gym and CAD it was amazing last year i miss him ): give me guy advice and stuff that i need to do better to get him and how to impress him. I miss him falling for me... 10 pts for best advice?
if that's what he wants then play the game... just be yourself, hang around with your friends giving him little attention.. try to change your style, don't give any signs that you like him or showing motives that you miss him. avoid talking things about him. if he's there then act casually. try to hold your feelings for him. let him get confused about you.I miss him falling for me... 10 pts for best advice?
just try not to focus on him and hangout with your friends and laugh alot it just makes you look funner i guess lol and if you think he is the jealous type try talking to some guys when hes around like in the halls or at lunch. i don't think its that nice to do but hey if you really like him then give it a shot! good luck!
Honestly he is kinda acting immature. I think the best thing to do is act like you dont like him and that you are not interested in him and maybe it will get to him more and wisen him up. Boys in high school (im assuming your in high school) dont know there heads from there butts at that age. So go in with your heart gaurded and act like he doesnt even phase you
he probably doesn't want the whole school knowing his buisness. if he keeps smiling, just go up and talk to him. send him an IM.
maybe he dont want the school to know just talk to him call him IM him or sumthing :D
your question bites
ask him for his number somehow and text him.
or write him a note. he seems immatur thouhg, (:
ask him out when he is alone!
if that's what he wants then play the game... just be yourself, hang around with your friends giving him little attention.. try to change your style, don't give any signs that you like him or showing motives that you miss him. avoid talking things about him. if he's there then act casually. try to hold your feelings for him. let him get confused about you.I miss him falling for me... 10 pts for best advice?
just try not to focus on him and hangout with your friends and laugh alot it just makes you look funner i guess lol and if you think he is the jealous type try talking to some guys when hes around like in the halls or at lunch. i don't think its that nice to do but hey if you really like him then give it a shot! good luck!
Honestly he is kinda acting immature. I think the best thing to do is act like you dont like him and that you are not interested in him and maybe it will get to him more and wisen him up. Boys in high school (im assuming your in high school) dont know there heads from there butts at that age. So go in with your heart gaurded and act like he doesnt even phase you
he probably doesn't want the whole school knowing his buisness. if he keeps smiling, just go up and talk to him. send him an IM.
maybe he dont want the school to know just talk to him call him IM him or sumthing :D
your question bites
ask him for his number somehow and text him.
or write him a note. he seems immatur thouhg, (:
ask him out when he is alone!
Please help with my grammar. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I am applying for NGOs job. I would like to add this section on my resume. What do you think? Please advice. If you would please help with the format and grammar. English is my second language. Thank you very much!
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ACCOMPLISHMENTS
Assisted the Thai Minister/Deputy Chief of Mission plan and organize “A Taste of Thailand” Gala Dinner, a benefit for the post-tsunami support of schools and living facilities for the orphans in Thailand, summer 2005.
Organized and hosted “Women and Children in Japanese Society” Speech and Dinner, the guess speaker was First Secretary of the Consulate General of Japan in New York, fall 2005.
Served as the Vice President of the Asia Club at Edinboro University, organized educational trip to Harvard University and Massachusetts Institute of Technology, spring 2004.Please help with my grammar. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
make it ';organized A Taste of Thailand'; so you have all past tense
Capitalize ';Summer,'; ';Fall,'; and ';Spring';
change ';guess'; to ';guest';
other than those things, it looks finePlease help with my grammar. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I think it is a good start. I would definitly add some more things in there though.wow you have done a lot!
You have an impressive list of professional accomplishments, but you need to simplify. People looking at resumes generally spend 3 seconds looking at the paper. If they can't get everything they need in those 3 seconds, they don't call you back. I worked in Human Resources Hiring Department, so I do know what I'm talking about!
So, what you need to do is something like this:
At the very top, you want your name. Directly underneath that, you want your address and contact details (all on the same line. ) For example:
GRETA GARBO
12-34 56th Street• New York, New York 12345• (123) 456-7890•youremailaddress@yahoo.com
NEXT, you want to put the title of the job you're looking for, for example:
ADMINISTRATIVE ASSOCIATE
THEN, you want a bullet-pointed summary of your qualifications. For example:
SUMMARY OF QUALIFICATIONS:
• A highly organized and detail-oriented Administrative Associate with over 3 years of experience, providing support to senior executives.
• Dedicated and focused; able to prioritize and complete multiple tasks
• Motivated professional with excellent research skills.
•Computer skills include: MS Word, Excel, Outlook, PowerPoint, Quark, Publisher and Internet
• Languages: English, Spanish, Chinese, French
THEN, you write a short paragraph like this, titled
SEEKING: And you tell them VERY BRIEFLY what kind of a job you're looking for and why.
FINALLY, you list your professional experiences, like this:
PROFESSIONAL EXPERIENCE
Joe's Coffee Klatch, New York, NY
Administrative Associate, 07/2005 – present
• Provide overall administrative support
• Managed office communications• Maintain and format client database (daily)
• Maintained high level of customer service
Follow the same format with the next job and the next job.
I hope this helps you!
Explain what some of your duties were in these positions.
I was in charge of finding location's, catering, travel arrangments, lodging, security,etc. You need to add more detail, after all, your trying to ';sell'; yourself for this job. If they know that your capable of doing all this, it can only be a plus. Good luck!
Listen to margerat above. She is right on. Good luck
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ACCOMPLISHMENTS
Assisted the Thai Minister/Deputy Chief of Mission plan and organize “A Taste of Thailand” Gala Dinner, a benefit for the post-tsunami support of schools and living facilities for the orphans in Thailand, summer 2005.
Organized and hosted “Women and Children in Japanese Society” Speech and Dinner, the guess speaker was First Secretary of the Consulate General of Japan in New York, fall 2005.
Served as the Vice President of the Asia Club at Edinboro University, organized educational trip to Harvard University and Massachusetts Institute of Technology, spring 2004.Please help with my grammar. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
make it ';organized A Taste of Thailand'; so you have all past tense
Capitalize ';Summer,'; ';Fall,'; and ';Spring';
change ';guess'; to ';guest';
other than those things, it looks finePlease help with my grammar. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I think it is a good start. I would definitly add some more things in there though.wow you have done a lot!
You have an impressive list of professional accomplishments, but you need to simplify. People looking at resumes generally spend 3 seconds looking at the paper. If they can't get everything they need in those 3 seconds, they don't call you back. I worked in Human Resources Hiring Department, so I do know what I'm talking about!
So, what you need to do is something like this:
At the very top, you want your name. Directly underneath that, you want your address and contact details (all on the same line. ) For example:
GRETA GARBO
12-34 56th Street• New York, New York 12345• (123) 456-7890•youremailaddress@yahoo.com
NEXT, you want to put the title of the job you're looking for, for example:
ADMINISTRATIVE ASSOCIATE
THEN, you want a bullet-pointed summary of your qualifications. For example:
SUMMARY OF QUALIFICATIONS:
• A highly organized and detail-oriented Administrative Associate with over 3 years of experience, providing support to senior executives.
• Dedicated and focused; able to prioritize and complete multiple tasks
• Motivated professional with excellent research skills.
•Computer skills include: MS Word, Excel, Outlook, PowerPoint, Quark, Publisher and Internet
• Languages: English, Spanish, Chinese, French
THEN, you write a short paragraph like this, titled
SEEKING: And you tell them VERY BRIEFLY what kind of a job you're looking for and why.
FINALLY, you list your professional experiences, like this:
PROFESSIONAL EXPERIENCE
Joe's Coffee Klatch, New York, NY
Administrative Associate, 07/2005 – present
• Provide overall administrative support
• Managed office communications• Maintain and format client database (daily)
• Maintained high level of customer service
Follow the same format with the next job and the next job.
I hope this helps you!
Explain what some of your duties were in these positions.
I was in charge of finding location's, catering, travel arrangments, lodging, security,etc. You need to add more detail, after all, your trying to ';sell'; yourself for this job. If they know that your capable of doing all this, it can only be a plus. Good luck!
Listen to margerat above. She is right on. Good luck
Did I lose my chance? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I had an interview on Wednesday for an Administrative Assistant to the President position. She seems to like me. She asked for my references. I gave them to her, but I informed her that my ferences may not available because they are on summer vacation (college professors). She looked upset and told me she will interview more candidates and contact me later. Next day, I went to her office again and gave her 3 letters of recommedation and a Thank you letter. She met with me in person and got the letters.
I just saw they have extended their dateline of job application from June 30 to July 7. (It has happened to me before with another employers and they did not hire me--I was crushed)
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I am over qualified for this job. I have Master's degree. I am only 22 years old and speak English with an accent. I have been applied for many jobs in the past months and nothing. I just want to have any jobs. I am depressed and sad.Did I lose my chance? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Don't be discouraged.
Unfortunately, many people have their own unique likes %26amp; dislikes, and its possible that she decided, for whatever reason, to extend the job application deadline.
However, I do agree with you that it is not good when that happens, and I would say it's now unlikely that you are being considered.
Very likely its the Master's degree. Perhaps you may want to leave it out the next time you apply for a ';lower'; position. I have the same problem, and I leave out my highest degree from my resume when I am applying for jobs which do not require it.
Perhaps, as another poster suggested, try and do better on your grammar and writing. An AA needs to write well.Did I lose my chance? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
hey hun...
no she shouldnt be upset when you told her that ...and i dont know... search more and ask more and i hope u will find the job you need...
and by the way you have to improve your english as you have many grammer mistakes up there...';with all my respect';
good luck :)
well this is just life. stuff like this will always happen.
you shouldn't just give up! If you have a master's degree, and you just said you're over qualified for that job, then find a better one.
im sure you will.
good luck!
I just saw they have extended their dateline of job application from June 30 to July 7. (It has happened to me before with another employers and they did not hire me--I was crushed)
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I am over qualified for this job. I have Master's degree. I am only 22 years old and speak English with an accent. I have been applied for many jobs in the past months and nothing. I just want to have any jobs. I am depressed and sad.Did I lose my chance? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Don't be discouraged.
Unfortunately, many people have their own unique likes %26amp; dislikes, and its possible that she decided, for whatever reason, to extend the job application deadline.
However, I do agree with you that it is not good when that happens, and I would say it's now unlikely that you are being considered.
Very likely its the Master's degree. Perhaps you may want to leave it out the next time you apply for a ';lower'; position. I have the same problem, and I leave out my highest degree from my resume when I am applying for jobs which do not require it.
Perhaps, as another poster suggested, try and do better on your grammar and writing. An AA needs to write well.Did I lose my chance? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
hey hun...
no she shouldnt be upset when you told her that ...and i dont know... search more and ask more and i hope u will find the job you need...
and by the way you have to improve your english as you have many grammer mistakes up there...';with all my respect';
good luck :)
well this is just life. stuff like this will always happen.
you shouldn't just give up! If you have a master's degree, and you just said you're over qualified for that job, then find a better one.
im sure you will.
good luck!
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