Pressure in life? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?

Are they differences between being 22 and being 27?





I am under so much pressure to be succeed. I am tired and burnt out. All my class mates and co-workers are a few years older than me. I am 22 years old. My friends are about 26-29 years old.





Even though we work or take classes together. Of course, they are difference between us. I am always depressed to see some friends have stable jobs, relationships, and family. On the other hand, I am still struggling and trying to build my status.











Please advice. Thank you.Pressure in life? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
you are measuring yourself against those who have already been there done that, and of course that is not fair to you. Why would you run such a ';head trip'; on yourself? There is a huge difference between where you are and where they are, and you know it.... stop the unrealistic comparisons and you will find yourself to be much happier. You have to decide for yourself what success is, you need to stop living by other people's yard sticks and devise your own measure for what is success. You would do well to develop friendships with those that have not gotten to where you are, younger people that could use a mentor, this helps them and reinforces all you have accomplished to this point, rather than focusing on those who are ahead of you in life. Truly, it isn't a race.Pressure in life? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Yes as a matter of fact there is. Scientific studies show that the adolecent mid matures commonly between 18-21 but this isnt always so. Also the human mind is at its all time high 25-30 so those colleages of yours are on the top of their game. Now either your brain hasnt fully developed or your just now getting ready to hit your peak! so nows definately not the time to be burnt out. Set the stage for something great. Because its on its way to you...





take care
My advice is to stop comparing yourself to your friends and just focus on your classes and your career. The are older than you and likely when they were your age they were still struggling and climbing the corporate ladder as well.
My sister just went to collage and she is only 16 when everyone else is 18 and up and she is way stressed out but i know that she can make it through. I don't think it really matters what age you are i think what reallly matters is your mentality, how old you act, and how well you can take things on. My sister doesn't act 16 she acts 19 so i think that going to collage is good for her, but if it were a person that acted like a normal sixteen year old i would think that it isn't such a good idea. I think that the more mature you are or act, the better you can take on a harder situation. So you know what it doesn't matter what all of them are doing just focus on you and get your work done. The more you focus on your work or school the better you'll do.As long as you keep an eye on every one else you will constantly be distracted and may not preform as well. Hope i helped.
Pressure is caused by trying to do something for money that you really don't like to do. There are two ways to suceed in life.


1.Competitive.... anything-for-a-buck mentality





2. Creative... find what you like to do and do it well.
I think you are experiencing JEALOUSY....I'm the same way. You just have to learn to accept the fact that your life is fine and that you are happy. Sure you'd like to have more, but who doesn't want more. Be content with what you have and with life.
There is no need to be depressed the only reason why you're friends have a stable job is that they probably have been at their job longer and that their family life is going good because they have more knowledge since they are older


Your life will get allot easier as you get older so just try you're best to stay happy and feel great about your life.
You need to back off and give yourself some breathing space. You will still succeed, but if you take it a little easier on yourself, maybe you will live to enjoy it. Life is not a competition with others. It's about being you and doing what makes you happy and being able to enjoy life. Maybe you won't get your stable job just yet or have a relationship til later. So what????? You are gonna be really miserable if you try to keep up with every one else. And no body will like you any less if you do things in your own time. Life is short my friend, take your time to enjoy it.
We all go thru trying times....you are definitely going thru one right now. Hang in there.





22 years old.... changing into a full blown adult. Very difficult. Not being a kid anymore and stepping up to adulthood isn't fun.





You'll do well. Stay in school and work hard. You are to be commended and respected. That is quite an accomplishment.
You are 22 years old and I don't know why you need to do so much so soon. Don't put too much on your plate or you will end up being unhappy but perhaps successful person. Take your time and work on one step at a time. Everything does not need to be accomplished at once. Stop and smell the roses and enjoy everyday.