Girlfriend acting different around me, weird? (free five star to best advice...?

recently she hasn't wanted to really hang out like last week and today at school i heard she was trying to avoid hanging out with me this weekend, but she still talks to me on the phone every night and talks to me at school and still even kisses me and says she still likes me, shes says shes confused about us, and recently she doesn't really wanna talk about the confusion so i thought i should give her space mentally like stop asking so many questions and just talk and be happy with her, but IDK this is really bothering me that i hear she didn't twanna n hang out this weekend i dont wanna approach her if its not true, maybe i should wait a couple weeks and see if it goes away , at the begging of our relationship it was all ok and she even told me she could see us being together for a long time but recently she has acted really weird, she has her guard up and is being uncomfortable around me, yet she still gives me a hug and a kiss... does anyone have any idea whats going on, with Christmas soon i just want this all to be over with so she can fully appreciate what i got her fro Christmas i pout alot of thought into it and i truly do love this person i just want to help, but she says its osmething she has tohandle herselfGirlfriend acting different around me, weird? (free five star to best advice...?
This might not be the case for her, but I am speaking generally... but generally, when girls have their ';gaurd up'; as you said, it's because they're afraid of getting hurt. Maybe (and this is just an example) she heard that you like someone else or that you cheated on her, or something ridiculous like that, and that's why she is trying to distance herself from you, because she's afraid that if she keeps acting ';normal'; with you that she will get hurt. Like I said, it's just an example, but there is usually a good reason (whether it's truw or not) why a girl would try to distance herself. Maybe her parents don't want her dating, or mayber her friends don't like you for some reason? Maybe she was ';avoiding'; hanging out with you this weekend because she has other plans with like her family or something.


It's a good possibility that this is all in your head, too! If she still kisses and hugs you, then obviously nothing can be THAT wrong. Maybe the whole thing about her not wanting to hang out with you is just a stupid rumor that someone started for no reason, and now you feel like things are different, even though they really aren't.


I know you wanna give her space, but if its bothering you, you should talk to her about it. Just say ';is anything bothering you?'; make it out to be all about HER and her feelings so she won't feel like you just care about you or something. hopefully things work out, good luck!Girlfriend acting different around me, weird? (free five star to best advice...?
every girl goes through a phase with her current boyfriend. We tend to question whether or not our life is what we want it to be. it is most likely that for her. best advice is to show her you are worth spending a life with. don't suffocate her either. you have to be ready to let her go if that's what she wants. do not confront her about the whole weekend thing because it could be untrue and will cause an un-needed argument that may result badly.