Is love means forgive and forget? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?

We ';loved'; each other for 4 years. We had on and off long distance relationship for 2 years. I moved to different states.





I was so frustrated with the relationship. I forced him to make a decision--I kind of ask him to move to where I live. I am not sure whether I did hurt his big ego somehow.


But he responded me with..





He does not want to have a relationship with me. He wants me to leave him alone with no any types of contacts. He even said, he will get a law enforcement involved.





To be honest, it was the most hurtful things that someone (I love or know) say to me. I cried many times when think about it.





He is now regretting and asking for forgiveness.





Is love mean forgive and forget? Or Should I tell him to move on?





Thank you.Is love means forgive and forget? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
sorry to hear that. why r u interested in knowing if he should move on?. what he does is not ur biz. take care of ur own life. 4 years n he doesnt make a comitment n when u ask him to do so, he badly hurts u? that is not love. there's why I tell u: YOU take care of ur own life YOU move on. forget about him. make a deep analisys of ur self to know what opportunity areas u can develop to become a better person, work on them n go out to the world to get a great man! loosing him hurts? ofcourse it does, u r human. give u a time to live the pain, resolve it n start being happy again.


oh, btw, if I am wrong (not too probably but just to cover all possiblities) n he is really sorry n a great man n ur real love: with more reason u should do what I am telling u to do. re invent ur self, get out, attract the attention of other men: u'll drive him crazy, u'll have him beggin u to come back with u. n u know what? he will have to make many many things to deserve u again. is not being mean. is being intelligent. it will even be good for him. resolving his own issues, fighting for ';his lady';, getting to really appreciate u (changing the way he perceives u) will make him a real man n prepare him for a really commited, respect based relationship. oh...n if he doesnt show up again? great! u'll know then with no doudt that he didnt deserve u. u'll find the ';right one'; and end of the story.


but start working on urself girl! u have many things to fix. dont waste any minute!Is love means forgive and forget? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Forgive him for your sake, you may even want to forget it. Do it if you can, but don't get back with him. Like the 1st respondent said ';Love does not hurt'; and its not suppose to be terribly complicated. So if your experience with this man has been both hurtful and complicated then his love for you isn't good enough. Move on and find someone who can love you for real.
Love my dear, should not hurt. Nor should it be difficult.
Forgive him, because carrying this baggage can hurt you. Forget him and find someone that supports you and care about your feelings. Forgive and Forget
I dont understand why he would get mad at you and say he would get the law involved. That is the part that bothers me the most about this. I would talk to him more about this, but aman should not hurt you that much if he loves you.
Tell him to move on and you need to forget that love.
No, dear, love means sharing, truthfulness, caring. He made you feel like a creep. Apparently, the person he dumped you for in the first place has now dumped him. Tell him to take a long walk off a very short pier.
it sounds like that maybe you have been just worrying about yourself and you should try to worry about what he is thinking.
I think the two of you are hurting from the distance and giving an ultimatum while the two of you are going through such a rough patch is something that hurts and hinders the progress of the relationship. Love is all about forgiving and compromising. What he did was out of response to you because he felt so hurt and betrayed that you are forcing his hand at the moment. If you two love each other, no matter how far you two are apart, you will find a way to make the love work. I believe you should do what is in your heart and whether or not you want the relationship continue. That is for you to decide and noone else.
You probibly hurt him when you forced him into a desision to move to where you live, or else. What he did was most likely in response to that.
Maybe you should both forgive each other leave off trying to force the other to do something their not sure they want to do and try and be friends again and see what happens
love is very complicated. There is always your goods and your bads. love hurts. you can forgive but you will never forget. You should give it another try. But dont put your hopes and efforts so high.
When you feel that strongly for someone it can make you do crazy things. I was so in love with someone once that i started hating them for it and treating them really badly cos id never felt like that and i didnt know what to do about it





i think youve just got to trust your insticts.


Id like to think if you still care about someone that much and they do to that should be enough. cos it doesnt happen too often.





work out whats best for you


would getting hurt again outway the great times you could have with him until that point came, (if it ever did)?
He said that to you out of anger. If you love him, want to be with him and he wants to move to be with you forgive and forget.
If he has proven to you that he knows he has something good with you, then by all means open your arm to him while still keeping your ground. If not, let him go. Love mean that you should have the ability to forgive, but dont be stupid now. Nothing is worth your happiness. Love hurts, and it is difficult. If anyone tells you other wise then they know only the fantasy of love, not the reality.
1 more chance wont hurt but dont get soo into the relationship so if he messes up again it would be easy to let him go.
Look I went through something similar to this. If she would just open up and say it was a mistake I would completely forget what happened.


That is the hardest part of a relationship. Learning to forgive and forget. If you can't then move on.