Would this be good to do? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?

I am 22 years old. I have been focusing on school and work. I think I am good with that because I have been a good employee and almost finish a Master Degree. On the other hand, I never have been in a relationship. I am still a virgin.





Well, I am okay with it and I actually don't want a relationship now. I want to wait for a couple of years. However, my host mom and my big sisters often told me that I will become too independence. It will be harder for me to find a boyfriend...





What do you think? Please advice. Thank you!Would this be good to do? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Right now in your life you have the opportunity to grab the world by the tail and run with it. This ambition will allow you to run in a better quality of life circles. You will have so many chances in the future but right now you are also frustrated. Take a cold shower. You do not need to be in a relationship to validate you as a female and a person. Listen to your heart.Would this be good to do? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
That's fine if you don't want to be in a relationship right now, but you do need to make sure you are at least giving yourself some time for fun. Do you go out with friends? Do you take time out for things you enjoy? Or do you spend 24/7 focused on work and school? If you don't take time to have fun, two years down the road you will be socially inapt for a relationship. It will be a lot harder for you to find a boyfriend.
Who's life do you want to live? Theirs or yours?





Bottom line, your life, your choices and so long as you are HAPPY then let it be.





One day you may stumble into a relationship and by then you will know who you are and what you want and that is a GOOD thing in my opinion. When the RIGHT person comes along you wont need to agonize over thoughts like this. It will just FLOW along and be a wonderful adventure.





If you are content where you are then just ENJOY what you have and what you are doing. Don't FEAR that you are running out of time, life is to be lived THE WAY YOU CHOOSE IT. Not for other peoples expectations.





Good luck.
i think you are on the right path. you know yourself and that is the best way to do what you want in life. your host mom and big sisters mean well but they should keep their opinions to themselves... i believe you can define yourself and do not need a boyfriend to define yourself. when you are ready to become involved with a love interest, it will happen, it will feel right, and a good man respects a woman's independence....i never let a man define my life or sense of self. i waited until i got my education and career. keep going on your path and know that only you really knows what is right for you...
I don't need your 10 points, thank you very much. But, do what you want to do. Not what someone else wants you to do.
A good strong man wants a good strong independent woman.Use your strength and Independence to say ';I will continue on my path not yours but thanks for your interest.'; Being a virgin is a bit lonely (I was one until the age of 21)but sex confuses the mind and body.Complete your life ,become the woman you were meant to be.When the time is right the strong man that you are looking for will find you,and appreciate you for exactly who you are.Good luck! :)
You seem to be a bold girl. your boldness has made them say that u will become independent. Also u might have made a insecure feeling in your family. So u have to give ur family a secure feeling. That will do good.
It's actually a good thing that you don't want to be in a relationship right now. I say, you should finish school and get your Master Degree. Then you could start dating. But don't just go off and get in bed with someone, it's a very good thing that you're still a virgin. You should fall in love with someone you want to be with for the rest of your life before actually having a child.
I think being a 22 yr. old virgin is so cool. It shows alot of self controll and discipline. You'd be an asset to any company or any man looking for a good wife. Keep up the good work.
u are still young, maybe u are not ready yet that doesn't mean is hard to find a guy , because u seem to be successful , when the time is right than u will meet your guy, not right now, now just continue your goal, and it okey if u choose not to be with a guy, be patient and it will happen at the right time.
focus on becoming who you want to be rather than what other people think you should be and don't focus on sex it will happen when the time is right for you. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin it is not anyones business but yours and definitely not something you need to advertise or discuss unless it is your choice to do so.
If you don't want a boyfriend right now then don't have sex. Once you start having sex you are going to need it and it might become a priority in your life over work and school. You are so focused on your future and that is what it takes to get you ahead. When you get a job making the big bucks then get into a relationship.
Take your time, there is no rush, just let it come to you naturally, if it aint broke don't fix it. You sound like you are doin just fine and you wouldn't believe how hard it is to find a woman with such strong morals it is a refreshing change. Stay faithful to yourself and life has a strange way of panning out in its own little ways.
If you are not ready for a relationship, then don't be in one. Some people want to be in a relationship earlier than others. I was not in a ';real'; relationship until I was 18 and in college. But my first realationship to last was with my husband, we met when I was 20. And little did we know that 4 years later we would be married, 7 years later we would have our first set of twins and 10 years later we would have our second set of twins.