Is this a good idea? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?

This guy and I love each other very much for three years. We went to the same college. Unfortunately, we have not had a change to date. We separated because I move to other states. He was waiting for me for over a year. We were talking online and keep in touch as friends. Recently, we are in an argument. It was my fault. He is upset and doesn't want to talk to me. It has been three months.





His birthday is on Thanksgiving day. I want to make a appreciated book for him. He used to wrote so many love poem about us. He still posted all the poems on his website. I want to print all those poems and put in a book for his birthday. What do you think? Please advice.





I love him very much. However, I don't think we can ever be together because I possibly move back to my home country in a few year.





Should I make something for him to show how much I appreciate his love for me. Or should I leave him alone so we can move on.





Please advice. Thank you.Is this a good idea? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
In these situations i would just leave him be and let him come around. Why? Because some men tend to have those i just dont wanna talk to her right now kinda feelings, kinda like what us women do when were upset and just wanna be alone.





whatever it is your fighting over just apologize and say you were stupid for asking such a thing or saying whatever you said.





As for making this book. it sounds like a complete idea although, if he is upset at you.. would making him read this book make him more upset? Or would he calm down and ignore the argument?





this is something only you can decide since you know how he acts and how he responds to such things. i think it is a wonderful idea. i sure as hell would love for my boyfriend to do that for me and especially if he writes, he might appreciate the little folder you made of the memories you guys shared. that will show him you care :D





Good Luck sweetheart! best wishes :DIs this a good idea? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
ah no, you can never move on until you fix your problems, that's like running away from your problems. you really need to talk things through with him, talk about the problem, first identify the problem and think of solutions instead of blaming each other. I think the the book thing is a great idea, it's really sweet.





good luck
He may be using the postings as a way of getting back at you. In the sense that, he's telling you, you can never have him. In situations like this, people often try to get their lovers back. They end up doing a lot of crazy stuff that they never would. It depends on whether you guys were really close, or if it was close for you and a fling for him. If you guys were close, then go for it! If you were the only close one, watch out! These things have a way of exculating to points of no return!
I think you should deffinately make him that book....it is a beautiful gesture...and he will appreciate that gift more than an email card ...it will show him that you cared about his love and his words....and that you still love him..and that it's not your fault you had to move away...you had no control over that..





It would also be good to write him a letter telling him how you feel...that way you can get it out of your system...and if you do end up moving away you will feel better about the whole situation.....


When men write you love letters, and poems..that comes straight from the heart.. by making him that book he will realized how much it meant to you..His writing and His Love....=)
I think you should send him an email birthday card - as a friend. If it's been three months since he's talked to you AND you think you'll be leaving the country, why attempt to rekindle the relationship only to have to end it again. I think the friendship may be worth trying to hold onto - good friends are difficult to come by.





On the other hand, sending acknowledgment of his birthday - could open the door again anyway. In that case, make your decisions as you go along.
sounds sweet. try it and if he still doesn't respond then move on....sorry
I say go for it. If anything so if and when you end of going back to your home country you dont leave the US with feelings of regret. There's nothing wrong with letting him know that you have feelings for him. Maybe he feels the same way but his stubborness stands in the way. For him to stay mad over something for three months shows he has trouble with letting go of the past. There's no way you'll be able to move on without finding some closure first. Telling him your true feelings doesnt seem like it can make the situation any worse. Just go for it and see where you are after everything is said and done. You may be suprised.