Wednesday, November 23, 2011

What should I do about this guy? 10 points for best advice!?

Let me break the long story short-


I met this guy at a party, we exchanged numbers.


He invited me out once, we made out.


We've been talking for about 2 months afterwards but haven't met up because there's always been conflicts.


A week ago he asked me out but online, I said I'd love to but then I signed off right after because I had to leave.


I texted him saying sorry that I had to go but I'd like to see him.


I haven't heard from him since, he's probably given up and moved on, found someone else.


We get along really well and I think I like him........


I'm just wondering from an outside perspective if I should try talking to him or just leave it?What should I do about this guy? 10 points for best advice!?
Talk to him. I'm a guy and I do this kind of thing to get the girl thinking that I don't care and then when I do call her, she freaks out and falls in love with me. I'm kidding, but he is doing this to make you think he doesn't care about you. And it seems to be working.What should I do about this guy? 10 points for best advice!?
I think you answered your own question he probably is either mad or upset that you did sign out right away maybe he thinks you don't like him anymore. But he could have moved on and found someone else. My advice to you is to call or text him and ask him if he likes you like you like him and go from there. Good luck hun :)
He is not worth it,he sounds really loser-ish.Your right maybe he has meet someone else.Investigate and find out.Of course he may just be busy with other things and not girls.I say if he isn't that cute give him the boot.Tell him your concerns, and talk openly about it. He may understand and everything will work out.Think about it awile and you'll know what is right.Sorry I am not a very good advice giver.
It sounds like your either a busy person or just this relationship has bad timing. You have to ask yourself, do you have time for a relationship? And if you think you do and you want to give this guy a chance, give him a chance. Try to make dates on a day or time of day where you think will be less interrupted. Call him. It's better to talk on the phone than online, it's more personal and real. Let him know your interested. Some guys like a chase, but not for too long. If he's not worth giving up, call him, make a date and DONT cancel!


Good Luck!
Well he invited you out, but he doesn't seem as fussed as he should, if he really liked you he would try harder. Give it another try! If you like him, really do, and you get along, why not? But be careful in case he has moved on.. And maybe he didn't text back because he has no credit or something? :)
If you really like him, talk to him. Tell him about your situation and how you were busy, I'm sure if he really likes you he'll understand. Call him and meet him at a cafe to have some coffee or something. Try to spend some time even if it's doing something really simple like taking a walk. He might be busy too, which might be why he didn't call you ot text.
Hmm. sounds complicated. Sweety sometimes, it is better to leave it, Because then your liking for him could get even worst and at the end you might end up hurt. But i think you should confront him and ask him if he's already moved on. If not i bet you could give him a chance again and go on easy with him if the things turn out to be how exacly you expect them.:) Best of Lucks~
Just a thought but if your heart was really in it don't you think you would have contacted him long before this. Usually if someone creates a big enough spark you just go with it the fact you are asking others to make this choice might mean he really wasn't the 'one' after all.





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you did your part at trying to talk to him... if you are really wanting to meet up with him, then wait a bit and text him again saying ';so what about hanging out, did you still want to?'; or something like that.


If he doesn't answer-that is your answer-you should move on.


If he does-then you migth want to ask why he didn't answer your first text





good luck
It's not going to hurt to give it one more chance. But you don't want to over do it and come off as desperate or stalker-ish. Send him an email or a text and see if he wants to meet up for lunch or something like that, and see what he says. If he doesn't respond then I would leave it and just move on.
It think it is just a coincidence that he hasn't talked to you in a couple days. If he gave up and found someone else then hes really not the kind of guy your meant to be with. Besides if its difficult to see him now what makes you think youll hang out more in the future
i say CALL him and explain yourself why you had to go out of left field and u didnt want to leave him confused. If he understands that then you can arrange a 'chill session' and hang out. but dont go out yet - u guys gotta get to know each other. BUT if hes being a jerk and stil letting you chase after him or you get that vibe - honestly move on. Its just a crush.





Hope this helps xoxo ♥
Well you should possibly call him about it and if he's not interested just say ok cool and leave it at that. dont push it if hes moved on. its ok guys r just like that. just bring it up once and dont go back to it and be casual!
i think that he likes u to But i feel that he has someone in his life and hes stuck in the middle that hes confused. y dose he want to go out wit u? y not now a days people dont care that they have someone in there lives
I think that he should of talked to you because you did nothing wrong!!! If you really like him then you should e-mail him and say that you want to get together and go somewhere today!!! :) (i hope it works)
Why not try talking to him. Who knows, he may be the one and you missed out because it was inconvenient at the moment. Give it some effort before you give up.
you know wat keep texting him dun't give up


well acutally not to many times n da next time yu go online n yu see him yu kno he is online n say stuff to make him feel better n yu kno


brag about his body even if he doesn't have a nice body n make him feel like yu really love him plz plz plz plz plz plz make me the best answer i never been voted best answer
Don't text him--call him, ask if something's wrong, then if everything's good in the neighborhood, then go out. There doesn't seem to be much conflict between you two. Best wishes
He probably doesn't care. People randomly sign off on me and vice versa all the time. So just pretend nothings happened and call him sometime.
He's not serious. he wants to make out again or more. Don't worry about him. Don't kiss on the first date. He wants the obvious thing and probably has various options besides you./
easy


send him a text saying ';I'm still interested if you are';


if he is not he may have gotten back with his girlfriend or boyfriend or whatever
WELL IF YOU REALY LOVE HIM THEN CALL HIM OR TEXT DO SOMETHING TO GET HIM WITH YOU AND MAKE OUT AGIN AND HE WILL LOVE YOU MORE THEN HE DID!!!!!!!!!!!
I suggest you ditch this guy.I can't believe you made out wit him.Anyway,find some else.Don't waste your time looking for a weirdo like him,find someone else who deserves you.
I've been through this, and i haven't spoken to the guy since. this was about 3 years ago, I'd move on to some one not so petty
Keep trying every few days for a week or two. After that, when you happen to see him online or something, bring it up. After a month, I'd move on
I would definitely try talking to him. Just say something sweet and make-up . BUt if you don't really like him then don't . Maybe hes not good enough for you .
It don't look like it is working out between you, so I would leave it until you meet again in person.
if u really like him then u should try 2 get in touch with him so yall can talk more and get to know each other better cuz u never know it might lead to a very good relationship GOOD LUCK!!!:D
Try talking to him but don't be obsessive. It might creep him out a little.
You need to talk to him and explain the situation. :))
talk to him


if he's moved on, you'll figure it out at some point


don't worry about it

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