I have been applied for jobs in the past 4 months. I have been to many interviews with outstanding organizations such as the Asia Fundation, the Funds for Global Human Rights, the Smithsonian Institution. two major universities (Offer Free Phd tuitions), and other great companies.
Sadly, I missed all those chances because I did not do well in the interviews compare to other candidates. I suppose I am still young, lack of experiences, and don't have great communication skills.
Looking back I am sad and depressed because those are dream come true jobs. Unfortunately, I missed it. It hurt to see someone took your dream jobs from you. How do I deal with this? What is wrong with me? T_TLooking back and feeling depressed? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
there's nothing wrong with you and please dont see this as a problem.
once i heard a quote but i cant remember how it was exactly... but it was something on an inventor who was trying to make his invention function and after 100times of trying he finally succeeded.
when people asked him about the 100 times he ';FAILED'; he simply answered that for him wasn't about failing, but were 100 ways of learning how it is not meant to work and from them he learnt the right way.
so what i want you to realise is that our mistakes arent there so we can say ';oh, why me?!'; no one is perfect... and we learn through our mistakes in EVERY situation we live.
doing interviews by time will increase in you the confidence you need. analyze your mistakes you are doing and work on them. relax during an interview, and make person believe what you want him to believe ;)
and remember - Fear is your own enemy!Looking back and feeling depressed? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
That sucks, but yeah you said it yourself, you're young. Don't get discouraged. These are all great jobs, but there are more out there. Work on your interviewing skills and go back out and keep trying, don't let these jobs get you down or you'll never find the one you WILL get.
Work on your skills, feel confident, and give it a new try. :)
One thing that I would advise is to just go out and about, travel. You'll learn all about yourself. By traveling you will also pickup knowledge as well as life experience. Secondly, don't worry, you're young, you'll eventually get that break. Unfortuately you'll just have to wait a little while.
';In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life: it goes on.';
90 % of success is showing up. Just keep going....
Hope please do not be upset, I know things are hard right now but keep your hopes up. I wish we were friends so I could talk to you and cheer you up life is so short try to be simple, thank god each morning when you wake up that you are on the planet another day because truley anything can happen and usualy does. As bad as our problems seem to us ';in the moment';, it's just that ';a moment in time'; and time changes all things. Ever watch a sun set, or the rain fall or a child laugh? beuty can be found all around you do not isolate yourself to one area of happyness. Many many times people have quit grate jobs because they were unhappy. Don't let this temporary problem get you down ok? smile Hope........
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
I believe men and women are equal, who agrees?? Best advice get 10 points!!!?
I'm fifteen years old and my GF is 19 years old, meaning she can drive and I won't even be able to get a permit till April 2008.
Whenever we go out, I always go through somekind of roast over the phone where she burns me about not being manly and not picking her up and driving her around.
I know she's kidding, but the only thing I can say is men and women are equal, and she responds, ';How so?'; and I have nothing to defend myself.
Can anyone give me advice?I believe men and women are equal, who agrees?? Best advice get 10 points!!!?
Tell her: ';Age is an illusion'; and say something fancy about that....
If she doesn't fall for that crap then just forget about the whole equality thing and say yep you're right [gfs name] men and women AREN'T equal... and then you can go on and say how weak women are and be a little cocky about it... just watch out how you say it so you won't offend her that much.. anyway so when she starts getting riled up about how sexist you are... then tell her... well i DOO make you weak in the knees right? [wink, wink at her] now both of you will have a kick at it :)
worked on me w/ my bf%26lt;333 lol.I believe men and women are equal, who agrees?? Best advice get 10 points!!!?
turn something negative into something positive :) [and hilarious]
and the both of you will be refreshingly happy.
Firstly, men and women are not equal. Never have been, never will be. Neither is 'better', but they will never be equal in all areas of society.
Second, you must be pretty manly if you bagged a 19 year old when you're 15. Good work.
i think that men should be doing most of that, but not all of it.
but in your case, you cant so its not really your fault.
but yes, it is more romantic and nice when men drive and pick you up, etc.
equal ?Legal your not she is%26gt;Jail bait%26gt;
men and women are equal in that they equally respect eachother. tell her that and see what she says. good luck!
15yrs old huh; well when you're older you can
better understand as now you are still in puberty.
At this point you really can't because you're still a kid. Let her go before she goes to jail for statutory rape. Just be kid and get a girlfriend your own age. there's plenty of time later for older women in your life.
THINK ABOUT IT. MOST WOMEN HAVE THE QUALITIES WE DONT POSSESS. WE GIVE THEM OUR QUALITIES IN RETURN. ITS THE SAME WITH ALL THE BAD STUFF WE BOTH ARE GUILTY OF. SO HAS SHE TAUGHT YOU ANYTHING IN THE BEDROOM YOU LUCKY GUY?
Men and Woman should be equal. There are things men can do and have, that women can't do and have, and vice-versa. There's not a time when one gender is better than the other, sometimes it's just misunderstood in a way or another.
Have to side with the girlfriend on this one. Men and women are not equal. There are examples all around you.
A woman may be able to run for president, but how many have been elected? A guy is supposed to open a door for women. What? She can't open it herself? Keep digging, I'm sure you can find more.
Regards,
Brandon
You should get a new gf that wouldn't jocking ly harrass you like that. Men and women are equal, but older women and men have more privlages
Guess she should have thought about that before she decided to pick someone so young to go out with. Tell her when you are old enough to drive she can ride lmao
Being manly has nothing to do with being equal
UGH! There is SUCH a HUGE age difference. 19 and 15 are worlds apart. Just imagine dating a girl who is 11...gross right??!! She shouldn't have started dating you in the first place. You need to break up, she has waaayyy more on her plate than you can understand. Or at least you won't understand it for a few years. Just break up find a girl who goes to your high school! Good Luck****
Unfortunately men and women are inherently unequal, that does not mean that one genders any better than the other however. You just have to except the fact there are massive differences between women and men that are not social constructs.
Whenever we go out, I always go through somekind of roast over the phone where she burns me about not being manly and not picking her up and driving her around.
I know she's kidding, but the only thing I can say is men and women are equal, and she responds, ';How so?'; and I have nothing to defend myself.
Can anyone give me advice?I believe men and women are equal, who agrees?? Best advice get 10 points!!!?
Tell her: ';Age is an illusion'; and say something fancy about that....
If she doesn't fall for that crap then just forget about the whole equality thing and say yep you're right [gfs name] men and women AREN'T equal... and then you can go on and say how weak women are and be a little cocky about it... just watch out how you say it so you won't offend her that much.. anyway so when she starts getting riled up about how sexist you are... then tell her... well i DOO make you weak in the knees right? [wink, wink at her] now both of you will have a kick at it :)
worked on me w/ my bf%26lt;333 lol.I believe men and women are equal, who agrees?? Best advice get 10 points!!!?
turn something negative into something positive :) [and hilarious]
and the both of you will be refreshingly happy.
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Firstly, men and women are not equal. Never have been, never will be. Neither is 'better', but they will never be equal in all areas of society.
Second, you must be pretty manly if you bagged a 19 year old when you're 15. Good work.
i think that men should be doing most of that, but not all of it.
but in your case, you cant so its not really your fault.
but yes, it is more romantic and nice when men drive and pick you up, etc.
equal ?Legal your not she is%26gt;Jail bait%26gt;
men and women are equal in that they equally respect eachother. tell her that and see what she says. good luck!
15yrs old huh; well when you're older you can
better understand as now you are still in puberty.
At this point you really can't because you're still a kid. Let her go before she goes to jail for statutory rape. Just be kid and get a girlfriend your own age. there's plenty of time later for older women in your life.
THINK ABOUT IT. MOST WOMEN HAVE THE QUALITIES WE DONT POSSESS. WE GIVE THEM OUR QUALITIES IN RETURN. ITS THE SAME WITH ALL THE BAD STUFF WE BOTH ARE GUILTY OF. SO HAS SHE TAUGHT YOU ANYTHING IN THE BEDROOM YOU LUCKY GUY?
Men and Woman should be equal. There are things men can do and have, that women can't do and have, and vice-versa. There's not a time when one gender is better than the other, sometimes it's just misunderstood in a way or another.
Have to side with the girlfriend on this one. Men and women are not equal. There are examples all around you.
A woman may be able to run for president, but how many have been elected? A guy is supposed to open a door for women. What? She can't open it herself? Keep digging, I'm sure you can find more.
Regards,
Brandon
You should get a new gf that wouldn't jocking ly harrass you like that. Men and women are equal, but older women and men have more privlages
Guess she should have thought about that before she decided to pick someone so young to go out with. Tell her when you are old enough to drive she can ride lmao
Being manly has nothing to do with being equal
UGH! There is SUCH a HUGE age difference. 19 and 15 are worlds apart. Just imagine dating a girl who is 11...gross right??!! She shouldn't have started dating you in the first place. You need to break up, she has waaayyy more on her plate than you can understand. Or at least you won't understand it for a few years. Just break up find a girl who goes to your high school! Good Luck****
Unfortunately men and women are inherently unequal, that does not mean that one genders any better than the other however. You just have to except the fact there are massive differences between women and men that are not social constructs.
What should I do today? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Our organization went through some changes last year. My boss ended someone contract and promote me to do her job. One of a finance officer who much older than me does not like me so she always insulting me by asking questions:
1.) Do you think you can do the job?
2.) While the person was still there--she said, when you are gone--Maybe I will go too. She asked her what will you do now since you will be jobless. (She just said that to annoy me and starting a flight b/w me and former co-workers who was terminated).
Etc..
I decided to avoid her since she is not helpful and always insulting me. Moreover. she caught finance miss transfer my salary about 300 USD. I told the finance and she said, she will give the money (the rest of my salary) to me next month.
Well, people noticed the finance officer and I are not talking (not get along very well) so they told my boss who always in foreign country about the tension.
Yesterday, the finance officer and her assistant come to work late which they always do so I told them--they should let supervisor know if they will come to work late not just like coming late. We argued so one of employee reported to my boss about our argument.
Today my boss asked me and finance officers to have lunch with him to talk about situation. What should I do?What should I do today? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Tell your side of the story. Answer all questions truthfully and honestly. Then let him/her figure out the rest of the details and piece the truth out of it all. If it ends in your favor, be happy, if it does not, find a new job.What should I do today? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Walk the dog and then watch some telly.
1.) Do you think you can do the job?
2.) While the person was still there--she said, when you are gone--Maybe I will go too. She asked her what will you do now since you will be jobless. (She just said that to annoy me and starting a flight b/w me and former co-workers who was terminated).
Etc..
I decided to avoid her since she is not helpful and always insulting me. Moreover. she caught finance miss transfer my salary about 300 USD. I told the finance and she said, she will give the money (the rest of my salary) to me next month.
Well, people noticed the finance officer and I are not talking (not get along very well) so they told my boss who always in foreign country about the tension.
Yesterday, the finance officer and her assistant come to work late which they always do so I told them--they should let supervisor know if they will come to work late not just like coming late. We argued so one of employee reported to my boss about our argument.
Today my boss asked me and finance officers to have lunch with him to talk about situation. What should I do?What should I do today? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Tell your side of the story. Answer all questions truthfully and honestly. Then let him/her figure out the rest of the details and piece the truth out of it all. If it ends in your favor, be happy, if it does not, find a new job.What should I do today? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Walk the dog and then watch some telly.
Why do I always nervous? 10 points for the best advice. ?
I meet a college alumni in Asia. He claims he will help me get a job. He has been replied my e-mail for months. We met for the first time for dinner on Thursday. I gave him my resume. He told me to come to his office. He forgets his business card. He said, he will e-mail me his office address. He has not e-mail me yet. I called him last night he still wants me to come to his office. He said, ';please come to a second interview at 2 PM on monday';
He holds a high position for an NGO in Asia. However, I am still nervous. What should I do?Why do I always nervous? 10 points for the best advice. ?
Go with your intuition. It's not that you seem as if you have lack of confident, you seem to be questioning his intention. It sounds as if he likes you and if you feel his intentions are other than giving you the job you want start questioning his intentions. Ask him why do you need a second interview when he has your resume. It sounds as if he wants to be a friend with benefits if you know what I mean. He may want to get you in the sack and stalling the hiring to see how far he will get with you. After you question his intention and you still don't feel comfortable, get away and look for another job without him.
Believe me, girls have exceptional intuition. Good luck....I would love for you to email me the outcome if you don't mind. Why do I always nervous? 10 points for the best advice. ?
I don't understand your question. Are you questioning whether he truly holds the position he says he does and if so, why does he not have a business card on him? Are you questioning whether he is still interested in you working for him, which in this case, he offered you a 2 p.m. appointment and you need to make sure his office is not some strip club or brothel.
u r actually worry once he email it 2 u
u ll fell relieve n da main reason of nervous is that u r not prepare
but if u r, there is nothing 2 b nervous
dont let ur selg b too tight %26gt;%26lt;
Calm down be confident, Show them that you are the person for this job.makeup tips zits
He holds a high position for an NGO in Asia. However, I am still nervous. What should I do?Why do I always nervous? 10 points for the best advice. ?
Go with your intuition. It's not that you seem as if you have lack of confident, you seem to be questioning his intention. It sounds as if he likes you and if you feel his intentions are other than giving you the job you want start questioning his intentions. Ask him why do you need a second interview when he has your resume. It sounds as if he wants to be a friend with benefits if you know what I mean. He may want to get you in the sack and stalling the hiring to see how far he will get with you. After you question his intention and you still don't feel comfortable, get away and look for another job without him.
Believe me, girls have exceptional intuition. Good luck....I would love for you to email me the outcome if you don't mind. Why do I always nervous? 10 points for the best advice. ?
I don't understand your question. Are you questioning whether he truly holds the position he says he does and if so, why does he not have a business card on him? Are you questioning whether he is still interested in you working for him, which in this case, he offered you a 2 p.m. appointment and you need to make sure his office is not some strip club or brothel.
u r actually worry once he email it 2 u
u ll fell relieve n da main reason of nervous is that u r not prepare
but if u r, there is nothing 2 b nervous
dont let ur selg b too tight %26gt;%26lt;
Calm down be confident, Show them that you are the person for this job.
This is really pissin me off....? 10 pts for best advice!!!?
ok...my boyfriend is a junior...well his freshman year, him and his best friend were pretty much man whores. they knew every single girl in the skool, and pretty much dated all the cheer leaders....ok his best friend (we'll call him ';bob';)...ok hes pretty much still the same now.....but my boyfriend changed i guess.....
ok well the whole thing is that there are girls still talkin about him...like i guess in a sexual way..talkin about how they miss him and talkin about his dick and everything.(and this is MY BOYFRIEND their talkin abt) and all of this is on myspace on ';bobs'; (again, my bf's best friend) myspace.....and im readin it thinkin WTF?!?!!.......
like what the hell am i suppose to do!?!?...i dont want to make this a big deal, but who would want to hear other gurls talk about their boyfriend in that way????
so what should i do??.....or think?!!?This is really pissin me off....? 10 pts for best advice!!!?
They are probably doing it on purpouse knowing that you will read it and that it will upset you. Hoping that you will jump on your boyfriend about it and cause you'all to get in a fight. Causing trouble in paradise hoping that you'all will break up and than they can console him. Most guys when they break up have sex with as many girls as they can to try and forget the other girl. So, they are hoping you'all will break up so they can get him back and than they will not be missing him anymore. But you are not going to let that happen, cuz you are smart and on to them. Be the better person and the smarter person. You are the one with the guy, you have what you want, now hold on to him and be happy. Nobody would want to hear that about their boyfriend don't get me wrong i totally understand how you feel. But, don't let them take your power away from you. They are trying to make you week and doubt your boyfriend. One of the most common things to end a relationship is listening to what somebody else thinks is going on in your relationship. The facts are that the relationship is between you and him and that is how you need to keep it. So, when you read these negative thoughts and you start having doubts, replace them with positive thoughts. You are the one that gets his dick everyday. You are the one that has the pleasure of his company. You are the one he thinks of and wants to be with. You are the one that has him as your lover, best friend, boyfriend, maybe even future fiance and future husband. They have nothing but their memories of what once was and will never be again. Always hold your head high and show them you are happy and he is yours and you don't have the time of day for their immature little games. They must not have much of a life if all they can talk about is some guys dick that they were with a long time ago. Truth is every guy has a dick, so, they need to go find one that is available, yours is taken. Try not to act mean or spitful to them you don't want them to make it their mission in life to try and break you'all up. Do you know anyone that can go on there annonymously and post something on there talking about some other hot guys dick maybe you can get them lusting after someone else's dick instead of your boybriend. Thats what you need to do try and find some other hot guy you can get them to like and leave your man alone. lol. well, the best of luck to you, i know you can do this. you just need to change the way you think and eventually you will believe it and change the circumstances and you will start thinking possitively and not give a flying f--k what they think cuz you got the prize. :)This is really pissin me off....? 10 pts for best advice!!!?
there isn't much you can do but maybe ask them to stop. As long as your boyfriend isn't fooling around with them, then you have nothing to worry about and will just have to put up with them annoying you.
Ignore it. Its the past and he probably changed.
Talk to him about it.
As much as you don't want to hear it, do nothing.
They miss him, they can't have him, he's yours now. Be the bigger woman and shrug it off.
Besides, if they're doing it just to jab at you, ignoring them will upset them more than retaliating.
ok well the whole thing is that there are girls still talkin about him...like i guess in a sexual way..talkin about how they miss him and talkin about his dick and everything.(and this is MY BOYFRIEND their talkin abt) and all of this is on myspace on ';bobs'; (again, my bf's best friend) myspace.....and im readin it thinkin WTF?!?!!.......
like what the hell am i suppose to do!?!?...i dont want to make this a big deal, but who would want to hear other gurls talk about their boyfriend in that way????
so what should i do??.....or think?!!?This is really pissin me off....? 10 pts for best advice!!!?
They are probably doing it on purpouse knowing that you will read it and that it will upset you. Hoping that you will jump on your boyfriend about it and cause you'all to get in a fight. Causing trouble in paradise hoping that you'all will break up and than they can console him. Most guys when they break up have sex with as many girls as they can to try and forget the other girl. So, they are hoping you'all will break up so they can get him back and than they will not be missing him anymore. But you are not going to let that happen, cuz you are smart and on to them. Be the better person and the smarter person. You are the one with the guy, you have what you want, now hold on to him and be happy. Nobody would want to hear that about their boyfriend don't get me wrong i totally understand how you feel. But, don't let them take your power away from you. They are trying to make you week and doubt your boyfriend. One of the most common things to end a relationship is listening to what somebody else thinks is going on in your relationship. The facts are that the relationship is between you and him and that is how you need to keep it. So, when you read these negative thoughts and you start having doubts, replace them with positive thoughts. You are the one that gets his dick everyday. You are the one that has the pleasure of his company. You are the one he thinks of and wants to be with. You are the one that has him as your lover, best friend, boyfriend, maybe even future fiance and future husband. They have nothing but their memories of what once was and will never be again. Always hold your head high and show them you are happy and he is yours and you don't have the time of day for their immature little games. They must not have much of a life if all they can talk about is some guys dick that they were with a long time ago. Truth is every guy has a dick, so, they need to go find one that is available, yours is taken. Try not to act mean or spitful to them you don't want them to make it their mission in life to try and break you'all up. Do you know anyone that can go on there annonymously and post something on there talking about some other hot guys dick maybe you can get them lusting after someone else's dick instead of your boybriend. Thats what you need to do try and find some other hot guy you can get them to like and leave your man alone. lol. well, the best of luck to you, i know you can do this. you just need to change the way you think and eventually you will believe it and change the circumstances and you will start thinking possitively and not give a flying f--k what they think cuz you got the prize. :)This is really pissin me off....? 10 pts for best advice!!!?
there isn't much you can do but maybe ask them to stop. As long as your boyfriend isn't fooling around with them, then you have nothing to worry about and will just have to put up with them annoying you.
Ignore it. Its the past and he probably changed.
Talk to him about it.
As much as you don't want to hear it, do nothing.
They miss him, they can't have him, he's yours now. Be the bigger woman and shrug it off.
Besides, if they're doing it just to jab at you, ignoring them will upset them more than retaliating.
Please help with this sentence? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
English is my second language.
I am an Asian. Last year my story and picture were chosen to be in the Bowie State University (History Black College/University) viewbook and website and as ';Hero Story'; because of my academic background. I would like to put this on my resume, but I am not sure how to say it..
Here is what I want to say what do you think..
Featured in the Bowie State University (HBCU) viewbook and website in “Spotlight” section.
P.S. I don't want to say ';Hero'; because of the race differences. On the website called it as ';Spotlight';Please help with this sentence? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Hope - don't change it at all.
It's perfect the way it is.Please help with this sentence? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Due to my academic achievements, I was featured in the ';Spotlight'; section of the Bowie State University (HBCU) view book and website.
The sentence structure is fine. I would suggest including the link to the site as you would with any web-based reference.
Featured in the Bowie State University (HBCU) viewbook and website, in ';Spotlight'; section for my academic achievement.
I think you had everything fine, but I would add the academic achievement so that they know why you were in the ';spotlight';....nice and congrats! :)
I wrote an article and it was chosen to be in the Bowie State University viewbook and website. Article enclosed or can be viewed at...... blah blah. or if interested I can produce the article for your pursual.
well just don't call it spotlight. it's actualy better to say hero that is a million times better than spotlight.
You said it. Featured....... That's fine. Not too condescending.
Here is the way I would put it on my Resume
';Wrote an Article that was featured in Bowie State University';
Don't go with website, Stoplight section and all that...
In your interview all that can be talked about...
So good luck in your job hunting...
I see no reason you can't put ';Hero';, and there should be no differentiation based on race. Try this:
Featured 'Hero Story' was written and published in the Bowie State University (HBCU) viewbook and website in “Spotlight” section.
Yes thats perfect definlty say that.
i think what you have there sounds good! Great idea not putting in hero! Spotlight does sound better! Good Luck!
I am an Asian. Last year my story and picture were chosen to be in the Bowie State University (History Black College/University) viewbook and website and as ';Hero Story'; because of my academic background. I would like to put this on my resume, but I am not sure how to say it..
Here is what I want to say what do you think..
Featured in the Bowie State University (HBCU) viewbook and website in “Spotlight” section.
P.S. I don't want to say ';Hero'; because of the race differences. On the website called it as ';Spotlight';Please help with this sentence? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Hope - don't change it at all.
It's perfect the way it is.Please help with this sentence? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Due to my academic achievements, I was featured in the ';Spotlight'; section of the Bowie State University (HBCU) view book and website.
The sentence structure is fine. I would suggest including the link to the site as you would with any web-based reference.
Featured in the Bowie State University (HBCU) viewbook and website, in ';Spotlight'; section for my academic achievement.
I think you had everything fine, but I would add the academic achievement so that they know why you were in the ';spotlight';....nice and congrats! :)
I wrote an article and it was chosen to be in the Bowie State University viewbook and website. Article enclosed or can be viewed at...... blah blah. or if interested I can produce the article for your pursual.
well just don't call it spotlight. it's actualy better to say hero that is a million times better than spotlight.
You said it. Featured....... That's fine. Not too condescending.
Here is the way I would put it on my Resume
';Wrote an Article that was featured in Bowie State University';
Don't go with website, Stoplight section and all that...
In your interview all that can be talked about...
So good luck in your job hunting...
I see no reason you can't put ';Hero';, and there should be no differentiation based on race. Try this:
Featured 'Hero Story' was written and published in the Bowie State University (HBCU) viewbook and website in “Spotlight” section.
Yes thats perfect definlty say that.
i think what you have there sounds good! Great idea not putting in hero! Spotlight does sound better! Good Luck!
HELP MEE PLEASE HELP ME NOT LOVE THIS GIRL best advice gets 12 points please help i want the pain to end?
This is how much i love her i dont want to love he anymore its to pain fill help me not love
Ok this girl is every thing to me i would give my life
for hers if she had HIV or STDs and wanted to
have sex I would I don't care if I get HIVs or STDs aslong as shes happy if she came to my house preg and broke I would take her in and take care of the baby as my own I don't care what she looks like but she is very butefull I love her for who she is I can careless if she looks like a dog I would never stop loving her she loves me to but she wont date me cuz how I look I know thats F ed up but I still love her and I always will if I like it or not why cant she see past what i look like and see who i realy am why cant any girl see who i realy am .HELP MEE PLEASE HELP ME NOT LOVE THIS GIRL best advice gets 12 points please help i want the pain to end?
You are 15 and you have a long life a head of you. I know your in love with this person but if she really loved you your appearance wouldn't matter. Keep looking I bet there is someone out there looking at you hoping you will notice her!HELP MEE PLEASE HELP ME NOT LOVE THIS GIRL best advice gets 12 points please help i want the pain to end?
She doesn't see who you think you are Because you are impractical and irresponsible and smothering her with your way over board feelings.
Set your life up to avoid seeing her
Get involved with activities
Act and talk as if you so not care for her (the heart often follows what we vow with our voice).
No girl is ever going to see who you really are because you don't even know who you really are.. You need to give up girls for a while and really do some serious soul searching.. being willing to take care and love someone is impossible until you learn to love yourself and care for you.. you are looking for someone else to make you happy.. aint' gonna happen.. no ones gonna love you until you grow some self confidence and start thinking about you a bit..
You always have feelings for someone you care about, but you will find someone who fills that void. Someone who you love even more, and who returns that love. So, you might be stuck on her for a while. But write down how you feel every day. Then look back on how you felt and use that to make you stronger.
THIS IS JUST ONE OF THOSE CASES THAT YOU ARE HELPLESSLY IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE WHO ISN'T WITH YOU. SOMETIMES YOU JUST CAN'T DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT. YOU JUST HAVE TO LET IT BURN. AS FOR YOUR LOOKS, HONEY EVERYONE IS UGLY TO SOMEONE. EVERYBODY SH*T. DON'T EVEN TRIP OFF THAT. I KNOW IT'S NOT EASY TO 4 GET HER BUT IF SHE DON'T WANT YOU THEN DON'T TRY 2 MAKE HER BECAUSE THEN YOU WILL LOOK FOOLISH AND SHE WILL SEE THAT. JUST LET HER BE. YOUR YOUNG AND SHE WILL NOT BE THE ONLY ONE YOU WILL LOVE OR LIKE, UNFORTUNATELY GROWING UP MEANS HEART BREAK. WE ALL GO THROUGH IT I DON'T GIVE A DAME WHO IT IS, WE ALL GO THROUGH IT.
shes not worth your time because she doens't like you back so that is it. find someone new theres nothing you can do to make her like you
Ok this girl is every thing to me i would give my life
for hers if she had HIV or STDs and wanted to
have sex I would I don't care if I get HIVs or STDs aslong as shes happy if she came to my house preg and broke I would take her in and take care of the baby as my own I don't care what she looks like but she is very butefull I love her for who she is I can careless if she looks like a dog I would never stop loving her she loves me to but she wont date me cuz how I look I know thats F ed up but I still love her and I always will if I like it or not why cant she see past what i look like and see who i realy am why cant any girl see who i realy am .HELP MEE PLEASE HELP ME NOT LOVE THIS GIRL best advice gets 12 points please help i want the pain to end?
You are 15 and you have a long life a head of you. I know your in love with this person but if she really loved you your appearance wouldn't matter. Keep looking I bet there is someone out there looking at you hoping you will notice her!HELP MEE PLEASE HELP ME NOT LOVE THIS GIRL best advice gets 12 points please help i want the pain to end?
She doesn't see who you think you are Because you are impractical and irresponsible and smothering her with your way over board feelings.
Set your life up to avoid seeing her
Get involved with activities
Act and talk as if you so not care for her (the heart often follows what we vow with our voice).
No girl is ever going to see who you really are because you don't even know who you really are.. You need to give up girls for a while and really do some serious soul searching.. being willing to take care and love someone is impossible until you learn to love yourself and care for you.. you are looking for someone else to make you happy.. aint' gonna happen.. no ones gonna love you until you grow some self confidence and start thinking about you a bit..
You always have feelings for someone you care about, but you will find someone who fills that void. Someone who you love even more, and who returns that love. So, you might be stuck on her for a while. But write down how you feel every day. Then look back on how you felt and use that to make you stronger.
THIS IS JUST ONE OF THOSE CASES THAT YOU ARE HELPLESSLY IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE WHO ISN'T WITH YOU. SOMETIMES YOU JUST CAN'T DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT. YOU JUST HAVE TO LET IT BURN. AS FOR YOUR LOOKS, HONEY EVERYONE IS UGLY TO SOMEONE. EVERYBODY SH*T. DON'T EVEN TRIP OFF THAT. I KNOW IT'S NOT EASY TO 4 GET HER BUT IF SHE DON'T WANT YOU THEN DON'T TRY 2 MAKE HER BECAUSE THEN YOU WILL LOOK FOOLISH AND SHE WILL SEE THAT. JUST LET HER BE. YOUR YOUNG AND SHE WILL NOT BE THE ONLY ONE YOU WILL LOVE OR LIKE, UNFORTUNATELY GROWING UP MEANS HEART BREAK. WE ALL GO THROUGH IT I DON'T GIVE A DAME WHO IT IS, WE ALL GO THROUGH IT.
shes not worth your time because she doens't like you back so that is it. find someone new theres nothing you can do to make her like you
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