This is really pissin me off....? 10 pts for best advice!!!?

ok...my boyfriend is a junior...well his freshman year, him and his best friend were pretty much man whores. they knew every single girl in the skool, and pretty much dated all the cheer leaders....ok his best friend (we'll call him ';bob';)...ok hes pretty much still the same now.....but my boyfriend changed i guess.....





ok well the whole thing is that there are girls still talkin about him...like i guess in a sexual way..talkin about how they miss him and talkin about his dick and everything.(and this is MY BOYFRIEND their talkin abt) and all of this is on myspace on ';bobs'; (again, my bf's best friend) myspace.....and im readin it thinkin WTF?!?!!.......





like what the hell am i suppose to do!?!?...i dont want to make this a big deal, but who would want to hear other gurls talk about their boyfriend in that way????





so what should i do??.....or think?!!?This is really pissin me off....? 10 pts for best advice!!!?
They are probably doing it on purpouse knowing that you will read it and that it will upset you. Hoping that you will jump on your boyfriend about it and cause you'all to get in a fight. Causing trouble in paradise hoping that you'all will break up and than they can console him. Most guys when they break up have sex with as many girls as they can to try and forget the other girl. So, they are hoping you'all will break up so they can get him back and than they will not be missing him anymore. But you are not going to let that happen, cuz you are smart and on to them. Be the better person and the smarter person. You are the one with the guy, you have what you want, now hold on to him and be happy. Nobody would want to hear that about their boyfriend don't get me wrong i totally understand how you feel. But, don't let them take your power away from you. They are trying to make you week and doubt your boyfriend. One of the most common things to end a relationship is listening to what somebody else thinks is going on in your relationship. The facts are that the relationship is between you and him and that is how you need to keep it. So, when you read these negative thoughts and you start having doubts, replace them with positive thoughts. You are the one that gets his dick everyday. You are the one that has the pleasure of his company. You are the one he thinks of and wants to be with. You are the one that has him as your lover, best friend, boyfriend, maybe even future fiance and future husband. They have nothing but their memories of what once was and will never be again. Always hold your head high and show them you are happy and he is yours and you don't have the time of day for their immature little games. They must not have much of a life if all they can talk about is some guys dick that they were with a long time ago. Truth is every guy has a dick, so, they need to go find one that is available, yours is taken. Try not to act mean or spitful to them you don't want them to make it their mission in life to try and break you'all up. Do you know anyone that can go on there annonymously and post something on there talking about some other hot guys dick maybe you can get them lusting after someone else's dick instead of your boybriend. Thats what you need to do try and find some other hot guy you can get them to like and leave your man alone. lol. well, the best of luck to you, i know you can do this. you just need to change the way you think and eventually you will believe it and change the circumstances and you will start thinking possitively and not give a flying f--k what they think cuz you got the prize. :)This is really pissin me off....? 10 pts for best advice!!!?
there isn't much you can do but maybe ask them to stop. As long as your boyfriend isn't fooling around with them, then you have nothing to worry about and will just have to put up with them annoying you.
Ignore it. Its the past and he probably changed.


Talk to him about it.
As much as you don't want to hear it, do nothing.





They miss him, they can't have him, he's yours now. Be the bigger woman and shrug it off.





Besides, if they're doing it just to jab at you, ignoring them will upset them more than retaliating.