I think I found my true love. We love each other for 4 years. We are separated and have not seen each other for almost 2 years now. We kept in touch as friends. We have very a busy lifestyle. He is a Marine officer. I am working full-times. Moreover, we came from difference cultures and our personalities are so different.
Recently, we were in argument. He was upseted and asked me to leave him alone. I knew he did not mean to hurt my feelings. We still love each other alot.
Many people told me to move on. However, I believe (deep down in my heart and intuition) oneday he will try to pursue a relationship with me. He just waits for the right times--may be 2-5 years from now. Therefore, I should not move on with anybody. I should wait for him because he is my true love.
Please advice. Thank you.I still want to wait for him? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
If he is your true love, don't listen to your friends. The next thing to do is write him and apologize. Don't let this go another day without saying anything. Let him know how you feel and that you want to get back together. I'm sure he will be very glad to hear from you.I still want to wait for him? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Aww i love this question because i just got back with the guy that ive loved...so we separated due to his reasons but we still loved eachother. I tried to move on but it didnt work because i loved/love him and i knew he did too. So like a few months passed then he calls and says that he's missed me and we got back together..we've been together 2 years btw..
What im getting at is that if you two love eachother then time will bring you guys back together, or you can even call him and tell him how you feel about him because you never know if thats what he wants too. Just don't pretend like your over him if the reaction is different from his side because ive learned its easier trying to move on then trying to forget about that person. Good luck though, it will work out.
If you trully think that he is your true love WAIT. What if you moved on and a year from now he came after you, found out you had been with someone else and then decided that he didn't want anything to do with you anymore!!!!! You would lose him forever and that would hurt the rest of your life. I messed up when I was younger and lost my true love. I still regret it today and would give almost anything not to have been so stupid.
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
Why no explanation from him. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
This guy and I love each other for three years. We are separted because I moved to other states. He love over 20 poems about me. Three month ago he wrote this
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A Sun
Category: Writing and Poetry
If I could remember all at once
All the moments I'd rather forget
I'd probably think twice 'fore all
And sinking quickly behind the clouds
My sun would set.
But life is too short for mulling reservation
And most of those days have passed
So we are what we've done, both the good and the bad.
Riding bare as a sun hits its highest
Me and my fierce ambition have arrived
At last.
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I asked him about the poem. He did not to tell me. I thought he wanted to move on;therefore, I deleted him from my friendlist. He blocked me from his website.
In the past two months. I sent him an apology e-mail and explain what was going on. He did not reply my e-mail. However, he still post all the poems he wrote online. Why no explanation? What should I do?Why no explanation from him. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I think that what he is trying to say is that he used to always think about what happened in the relationship even though he didn't want to think about it anymore...he'd rather forget. And at the time he wrote this poem I think he finally decided it was time for him to move on (that's why he says those days have passed and that his ambition has arrived). It seems that he accepts what happened between you two and holds no resentments, he recognizes that what happened is what makes you both who you are today. I don't think he is replying because he realizes that sometimes you have to let go and remember the good things about a person and accept when it will not work or was not meant to be. It doesn't seem like a mean poem to me, more of a fond farewell.
Hope this gives you at least one other persepctive...it could mean something different to everybody.Why no explanation from him. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
he wants no contact from you,. he blocked you from his website, you should know by now. move on with your life.
Sounds like he found someone to love a little closer to him. Let him go and move on yourself.
Most likely he got his feelings hurt when you blocked him from your friendlist without him being able to give an explanation of what he felt. The reason for him not wanting to communicate could be because he could see you as someone who doesn't resolve their issues with upfront communication and he would like someone to come to him and be honest with their emotions. It didn't look good with you jumping the gun with not being his friend when you say you loved him. When you love someone you should love them faults and all. You should of asked him what the poem meant from his persepective and then you could of said something like...thank you because I thought it meant this and I am glad I asked you.....it is about communication. How would you have felt if the roles would have been reversed?
sounds 2 me like didn't know what he really wanted from what all had if he was so happy in the biggining and so miserable at the end wy didn't he think of all the reasons that made him happyto begin it also sounds like u didsomething really terrible to hurt him i ean is that the case b cause f not then he's a dillusional man andu should move onne ways if a man eversays he loves u that's forever ad always no matter what he obviously like i said doesn't ow what he's doing he must of had ano offense short tem lust 4 u that he realizd was not 4 him so ur best bet is to ve on if by u leaving him alone 4a while is the best u should try th and see what happens if he tries to cotact u listen to his reasons then and decide if they were good enough 4 how much he t u but don't leave ur heart widopen for rejection again take everything slow and c what happen and b careful hope i helped a little
why stress over this. maybe you thought he was really in love with you.and he was even writing poems to other girls behind your back and you weren't aware of. let it go. find someone who really deserves you. and stop emailing him, he will only think he still can have you whenever he wants.
the same as him ..sorry. move on .. good luck..
Forget about him because he is trying to forget about you and get you out of his life, but the poetry is still his intellectual property and he wants to be recognized for his works. I believe very few artists pull every poem, song, sculpture, or painting once their mood changes because they no longer feel like that. They keep that as part of what made them inspire what they felt at that time.
and what is your ambition ? Obviously not her!
I think you are reading into this to deeply, it doesn't matter at this point what the poem means, it sound like you guys are done, so let it go.
Did you tell him what you thought about the poem and what it meant to you? If he wrote the poem to you, then that's what he wants to hear from you. It's also possible he just wanted to put a delicate touch to the end of his relationship. Normally though people should try and be friends after a relationship. It was a bad idea to take him off your friends list imo.
Here's what I thought of the poem:
He doesn't want to forget all the bad moments. Then he talks about his sun setting behind the clouds, which could be you. So maybe he felt like you were leaving him beyound yonder. He doesn't want to waste time thinking about holding something back. Time will go on and everything good and bad wont matter because he feels strong and ambitious at last.
A poem is a test sometimes. Maybe he was testing you. My best advice is to move on. Find a better person.
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A Sun
Category: Writing and Poetry
If I could remember all at once
All the moments I'd rather forget
I'd probably think twice 'fore all
And sinking quickly behind the clouds
My sun would set.
But life is too short for mulling reservation
And most of those days have passed
So we are what we've done, both the good and the bad.
Riding bare as a sun hits its highest
Me and my fierce ambition have arrived
At last.
**
I asked him about the poem. He did not to tell me. I thought he wanted to move on;therefore, I deleted him from my friendlist. He blocked me from his website.
In the past two months. I sent him an apology e-mail and explain what was going on. He did not reply my e-mail. However, he still post all the poems he wrote online. Why no explanation? What should I do?Why no explanation from him. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I think that what he is trying to say is that he used to always think about what happened in the relationship even though he didn't want to think about it anymore...he'd rather forget. And at the time he wrote this poem I think he finally decided it was time for him to move on (that's why he says those days have passed and that his ambition has arrived). It seems that he accepts what happened between you two and holds no resentments, he recognizes that what happened is what makes you both who you are today. I don't think he is replying because he realizes that sometimes you have to let go and remember the good things about a person and accept when it will not work or was not meant to be. It doesn't seem like a mean poem to me, more of a fond farewell.
Hope this gives you at least one other persepctive...it could mean something different to everybody.Why no explanation from him. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
he wants no contact from you,. he blocked you from his website, you should know by now. move on with your life.
Sounds like he found someone to love a little closer to him. Let him go and move on yourself.
Most likely he got his feelings hurt when you blocked him from your friendlist without him being able to give an explanation of what he felt. The reason for him not wanting to communicate could be because he could see you as someone who doesn't resolve their issues with upfront communication and he would like someone to come to him and be honest with their emotions. It didn't look good with you jumping the gun with not being his friend when you say you loved him. When you love someone you should love them faults and all. You should of asked him what the poem meant from his persepective and then you could of said something like...thank you because I thought it meant this and I am glad I asked you.....it is about communication. How would you have felt if the roles would have been reversed?
sounds 2 me like didn't know what he really wanted from what all had if he was so happy in the biggining and so miserable at the end wy didn't he think of all the reasons that made him happyto begin it also sounds like u didsomething really terrible to hurt him i ean is that the case b cause f not then he's a dillusional man andu should move onne ways if a man eversays he loves u that's forever ad always no matter what he obviously like i said doesn't ow what he's doing he must of had ano offense short tem lust 4 u that he realizd was not 4 him so ur best bet is to ve on if by u leaving him alone 4a while is the best u should try th and see what happens if he tries to cotact u listen to his reasons then and decide if they were good enough 4 how much he t u but don't leave ur heart widopen for rejection again take everything slow and c what happen and b careful hope i helped a little
why stress over this. maybe you thought he was really in love with you.and he was even writing poems to other girls behind your back and you weren't aware of. let it go. find someone who really deserves you. and stop emailing him, he will only think he still can have you whenever he wants.
the same as him ..sorry. move on .. good luck..
Forget about him because he is trying to forget about you and get you out of his life, but the poetry is still his intellectual property and he wants to be recognized for his works. I believe very few artists pull every poem, song, sculpture, or painting once their mood changes because they no longer feel like that. They keep that as part of what made them inspire what they felt at that time.
and what is your ambition ? Obviously not her!
I think you are reading into this to deeply, it doesn't matter at this point what the poem means, it sound like you guys are done, so let it go.
Did you tell him what you thought about the poem and what it meant to you? If he wrote the poem to you, then that's what he wants to hear from you. It's also possible he just wanted to put a delicate touch to the end of his relationship. Normally though people should try and be friends after a relationship. It was a bad idea to take him off your friends list imo.
Here's what I thought of the poem:
He doesn't want to forget all the bad moments. Then he talks about his sun setting behind the clouds, which could be you. So maybe he felt like you were leaving him beyound yonder. He doesn't want to waste time thinking about holding something back. Time will go on and everything good and bad wont matter because he feels strong and ambitious at last.
A poem is a test sometimes. Maybe he was testing you. My best advice is to move on. Find a better person.
I'm 15, confused, depressed, and I need YOUR best advice. Help?
We've been together for fourteen months, but around the time we were celebrating our 10 month anniversary, I was getting closer to someone else and now I have seriously messed things up. I have confused myself and I don't know who I want more. I feel so ridiculous. I'm simply 15 but I will go crazy if I see either guy with someone else. What makes this so hard is that with the new guy I have somewhat of a bond with him and we are very close spiritually and emotionally, but with my boyfriend of over a year we can talk about anything, whereas with the new guy we don't have to talk; it's emotionally there.
I'm more comfortable in public with the new guy over my boyfriend.
In private, I'm more comfortable with my boyfriend. It's always been kind of weird to be with him in public...I feel horrible for saying that, but it's true.
The new guy is simply 1 1/2 years older than me, and my boyfriend is 3 1/2 years older...it's so hard on me. My boyfriend's friends seriously hate me because I seem ';immature'; to them, but that's a totally different story.
The point is, I'm afraid to start a new relationship because I might end up regretting what I gave up, but this new guy deserves at least a chance of us dating, but what if my boyfriend finds someone else?
I'm freakin 15...this shouldn't boggle me down this much...I'm 15, confused, depressed, and I need YOUR best advice. Help?
I was just in your situation at 16. It was my first relationship, and I really cared about my boyfriend. Here's my advice to you:
If you have feelings for the new guy, then you should break up with the boyfriend. Tell him things haven't been feeling quite right for you, and you want some time to sort things out. I know this really hurts and probably makes you feel really bad, but I promise it'll be okay. You're only fifteen and there will be so many more relationships in your lifetime.
After you break up, take some time to just be single and think about your feelings and what you want. It sounds to me like this new guy would be a better match for you, and you should give it a try once you take the time to move on from your relationship.
The truth is, if you're in a relationship and you start having serious feelings for someone else, then there's something missing in your current relationship and it's just not going to work out. This is your heart trying to tell you something, and you need to listen to it.
I tried hanging onto my boyfriend for months, instead of dating the new guy. My boyfriend and I eventually broke up anyways, because the truth is we just weren't right for each other. We're still good friends and hopefully it turns out just as happily for you. And the new guy? Well, I'm going to see him again this summer. I don't know how it's gonna go! Hopefully, whoever your new guy is, you're happy :)I'm 15, confused, depressed, and I need YOUR best advice. Help?
no it shouldn't but if you are serious about your boyfriend then the other guy needs to stay off your radar. you need to make up your mind and do it carefully think about it and donot do anything on impulse just slow down and think..growing up is hard work and never a easy path to take.. good luck
stay with your boyfriend. you've been together for this long, its normal to have feelings for other guys. the other guy could be anybody. thnk about it. you know more about your boyfriend than you do this other person. dont give up what you have. but hey thats my advice. do what you want.
ok so i was going to say something along the lines of your boyfriend sounds like a boyfriend and the other guy sounds like just a good friend
but wow 3 and a half years older... not such a big deal if you were older but wow.
go for the 16 yr old
Youre right,, youre 15. Odds are pretty good that youre not going to marry either of these guys. Dont take these things so seriously, youre just practicing for the real men girl. Just pick the one that makes you the happiest. Or hell keep them both lol
make a list of the pros and cons of each relationship or guy... look them over and consider everything... some one once told me, dont leave the one you love for the one you like cuz the one you like will leave you for the one they love!
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Just ask yourself if you still love your current boyfriend. that is the question. if you do, then you don't need to change a thing. If you don't then thats a different story.
You need to make a decision rather quickly because if eith one finds out, he might say something to the other one to start an argument. Then it will all be over-with both guys. Take my advice, hun Seriously
leaving a guy for anougher guy??
HORABLE
try to get more confertable with ur bf in public
go for another
i kinda have the same problem
but not exactly
Dear, u wud need to thnk wida clear head, study u problem 4m a neutral point of view, den u wud ve de answr, see u r on dat stage whr u nd 2 do wats rite ethically n nt de way u want it to be rite, u can nt leave ur boyfrnd alone in de midway, shud b thkful dat he treats u lyk a propah lady, dis new guy it seems only want physical stuff, which wud leave u damaged emotionally n physically, so my suggestion is u ve *** dis far, so bid de new guy gudbye n its absolutely wrng 4 u 2 cheat on ur boyfrnd, also how sure r u, dat even though u do decide 2 go ahead wid de new guy, n leave ur boyfrnd, dis new guy wud nt ditch u 4 anthr girl? so my vote goes 2 ur boyfrnd who has been devoted 2 u n wud neva hurt u emotionally.....
You are right...you shouldn't be bogged down. You have dated your current bf since you were 13 and a half? Where are your parents on this. You should just now be allowed to date and you have been dating since you were 13...no wonder all this confusion. I think at your age you should be dating all around..and not going exclusive with any one person...you are way to young for this commitment stuff. Free yourself up..and don't jump into another long term relationship. Keep yourself open.
Im going through a relationship problem like you now, so i understand what you are feeling (your 15, and im 14, so i do understand how you feel on this). the thing is with relationships you can never know whats going to work or not, but you dont want to risk what you already have. trust me i know how you feel, even though i may not be able to fully understand your true feelings; in my case... im basicly dating one of my best friends ex's who where very close, and the weird thing is, the girl and i both really like eachother (possibly even love). we are both really unsure since we both have mixed feelings because of my friend (who is unaware) and our friends who are pressuring us, some supportive some not.. but those who are not get to me more... i basicly hate myself now... i want to be with her, but i dont want to hurt my friend...
in this situation, similar to yours the only rational thing to do is to talk to the ones in question (your current bf, and possible the other guy) and discuss how you feel. honestly, both of them seem to like you (exactly how much, is unknown by me), and if they truley do, they both will only want you to be happy. mainly, by just talking, you can learn alot about yourself and those you talk to. i know this may not solve the problem, but its the best thing you can do. you need to decide what you truley want. if possible, i know its hard, ignore those who try to shut you down, and do what makes you happy. just know that small things are not sufficant reason not to care for someone, though you like one thing, you may find something that you despise/dislike.
im very sorry for all the above confusion, but its all i can say right now, as i am talking from fresh pain/hurt and feel like im dying inside myself from all this.
i honestly hope that this does help you a little. i wish you nothing but the best of luck with this and all of your problems.
- T.J.R.
The liklihood of you ending up with either of these guys is slim.
You need to figure out why you feel more comfortable with each guy. Is one better looking than the other. Is one immature. Is one more shy.
Feelings change.
Have you told either of these guys about the other one?
Whether you say anything or not, there is a vibe you will give out if you have been cheating (even if nothing physical has happened). Relationships that start out this way, rarely end well. Generally if you are with someone else and you start seeing someone new, the someone new may think that it is okay to be with someone else at the same time as being with you, and not tell you about it.
My advice, which I doubt you will take, is to make a clean break from both the guys. Neither of them are right for you.
I have had this problem before, and I didn't end up marrying either of them, but that was a choice I made. First of all, you are only 15 so chances are that you will end up meeting other guys and probably forgetting about one or both of these guys. However, this new relationship will always seem great at first because it is new; so you should keep that in mind. There are other questions that arise though: Does this new guy know that you have a boyfriend?
I wouldn't care much about what your bf's friends think about, guys can say something bad about you one minute, then try and talk to you behind their homeboy's back the next.
You can keep seeing them both, but if they find out can u handle what will happen next? If not, you need to straight up and tell one or both of them what is going. Personally I would tell the new guy ';i have a boyfriend, but we can still be friends';
hey girl! I remeber when I was 15, you really need to play the field and try not to tie yourself down to one person. you are young, dating right now will help you determine what you want in a husband later. I have dated a lot of jerks, being with different types of guys helps you realize how you really want to be treated and what you really deserve. I say tell them both you dont want a commitment and date both! why not, you know! have fun there is no need to be commited to one guy at your age. good luck with everything girl! :)
Relax and know that you are not the first person to be in this situation. Many have been in your shoes and have made it out just fine. You are saying the right things, you are only 15. You have the rest of your life ahead of you. Things happen, people change. You may or may not be in love with both of these guys. You are the only one that can make the decision on what to do. I would recommend you pick one, not my choice but it sounds like the new guy and you click just a little more, and go with it. In life we do many things we regret, as long as you learn from them and do not make the same mistake twice you will be fine.
Best of Luck,
haha 15 is when it most likely WILL boggle you down this much, sounds to me tho like you just need to suck it up and make a choice and stick with it, if you leave your boyfriend for this other guy then it was time for that relationship to end anyway and if he finds someone else then you'll just have to move on and focus on this new guy, if it doesn't work out with him and you've lost your original boyfriend as well (because this outcome is possible in situations like this) then again you will just have to move on knowing that you took a risk that didn't turn out the way you wanted, you won't have to have any regrets
You still have a long way to go girl unless you wanted to get married as early as sixteen..and could be a more terrible/confusing thing..
Let me ask you this...what was those things that caused you to like him before giving him your ';Yes';? And what do you think are those beautiful things your boyfriend saw in you the time he is courting you? During those months being with him, is there mutual responses that created a bond?Is there any reason why you are not comfortable being with your BF in Public?Historical reason? Physical?Do you want to keep him?
If your answer to my last question is a big ';YES'; then find ways to create a spark again (if there was). What was those things you do enjoy mutually (aside from sex,if you did). Outdoors?Hiking?Some activities that will help you both know each other...deeply.
If not?Well that's is also acceptable answer. Answers can only be YES or NO. If you dont have that mutual feeling (anymore)..let go of yourselves. The experiences in the stage you are in now is just a preparation for a more mature discernment on things like these.
As you have said, you are freakin 15...this shouldn't boggle you down that much. There could be reasons why you are more comfortable with the GUY. Is he physically more attractive than your BF? You said you feel that there is somewhat a bonding whenever youre with him even without talking? Can you know him better that way? Do you find him more better to be with?Just a reminder..communication is indespensable..
Dont commit anything by now now to the Guy. Go back to my questions and answer to the last one. Dont tell the guy to wait but you can still be a friend to him.
Hope this help..
Honestly, I would take a break from your boyfriend and see where things go with the new guy. I wouldn't take this advice too seriously, I'm just basing it off what you wrote. I'm in a similar situation. I've liked a girl for years now, but since she's a little out of my league I haven't gotten the courage to ask her out. I know I should probably move on, but I'm sooo afraid of never knowing what might have been. It's a tough decision to make, but make sure you choose the one your most comfortable with, no matter where you are. Good Luck!
Make two lists one for you boyfriend now with positive and negative things about him, and one for the new guy with positive and negative things about him...Compare and contrast.... Make a list about yourself and the things you like and dont like about you..See which guy fits in there better...Sometimes its better to see things on paper rather than in ur head...It makes it more visual...Always trust your head and your heart...Take chances when it feels right...
You are right, you shouldn't let it bother you that much, but if you are with one guy and liking another, then maybe its time you take a break from the first one, you are still so young and you have so much more time to look for the right one, and trust me, you will know. I know its hard and this is probably not what you want to hear, but trust me. don't cheat on your boyfriend with this guy because you could ruin and hurt him so much more then a simple break up and at first, yeah it may be hard, but think of how much harder it will be to explain to him if he finds out you cheated on him. also if you break up with him and find out you don't like the other guy and you still have strong feelings for your first, its much easier to explain to your ex then it would be after you cheated on him. think of how you would feel in his place. just let your first know you are confused and you need a break and continue talking as friends to both guys, after you get to know them more you will know which one you share interests with the most and it will all be clearer. please don't stress over this too much, go out with friends and stuff, don't revolve your life over this. it could only cause much more severe symptoms.
good luck %26lt;3
I usually don't even answer stuff like this, but this sounds like a similar situation to my friend, so here goes:
As you are only 15 currently dating someone who is 18/19ish I can see where the public thing becomes awkward (it can be a little taboo for the older guy). As for his friends, they likely think that because you are 3 years younger that you aren't as mature as them, and in all likelihood it's true. You are still growing and learning. At your age you shouldn't be so concerned.
As for the other gentleman, you say you have a spiritual connection. Usually it takes a lot of time to develop such a close connection with someone, and I fear that it may be the excitement of someone new in your life who is closer to your age. As you said yourself, you're more comfortable with your BF in private than the other guy, and yet the other guy is better when in public.
It comes don to this: talk to your current BF and express how you feel in public. Try and find out WHY it is uncomfortable in public and address it. If you can work something out then great, problem solved, you have the best of both worlds. It's not too late to develop a connection with him.
If you cannot work out those issues then wait. Give it a little time, just in case the excitement of the new guy wears off and you're left without anyone at all. If you do TRULY have feeling for him then accept the risk that you will be leaving you current relationship for ever and never returning.
As you said, you're 15, and this is the least of your worries. It'll all be a learning experience.
Good luck.
HES 18 OR 19???????????????
this is a mess.
you're a mess.
1: Drop both of them by saying you just want to be friends.
2: A ten month anniversary? NOT EVEN NEWLY MARRIED COUPLES CELEBRATE 10 MONTH ANNIVERSARIES... WTF?
3: So, you want to date the new guy, but have your boyfriend as a backup in case it doesn't work out? NO COMMENT ON THAT ONE...
4: If you're not comfortable with your boyfriend in public what does that say?...
5: Hang out with friends and work out (running and whatnot). Maintain friendship with these two guys, but don't let them get in the way of your life.
You're 15. These things shouldn't be your main concerns. I know dating is fun and all in high school, but you'll realize high school relationships are completely pointless once your out of high school and into college.
I'm more comfortable in public with the new guy over my boyfriend.
In private, I'm more comfortable with my boyfriend. It's always been kind of weird to be with him in public...I feel horrible for saying that, but it's true.
The new guy is simply 1 1/2 years older than me, and my boyfriend is 3 1/2 years older...it's so hard on me. My boyfriend's friends seriously hate me because I seem ';immature'; to them, but that's a totally different story.
The point is, I'm afraid to start a new relationship because I might end up regretting what I gave up, but this new guy deserves at least a chance of us dating, but what if my boyfriend finds someone else?
I'm freakin 15...this shouldn't boggle me down this much...I'm 15, confused, depressed, and I need YOUR best advice. Help?
I was just in your situation at 16. It was my first relationship, and I really cared about my boyfriend. Here's my advice to you:
If you have feelings for the new guy, then you should break up with the boyfriend. Tell him things haven't been feeling quite right for you, and you want some time to sort things out. I know this really hurts and probably makes you feel really bad, but I promise it'll be okay. You're only fifteen and there will be so many more relationships in your lifetime.
After you break up, take some time to just be single and think about your feelings and what you want. It sounds to me like this new guy would be a better match for you, and you should give it a try once you take the time to move on from your relationship.
The truth is, if you're in a relationship and you start having serious feelings for someone else, then there's something missing in your current relationship and it's just not going to work out. This is your heart trying to tell you something, and you need to listen to it.
I tried hanging onto my boyfriend for months, instead of dating the new guy. My boyfriend and I eventually broke up anyways, because the truth is we just weren't right for each other. We're still good friends and hopefully it turns out just as happily for you. And the new guy? Well, I'm going to see him again this summer. I don't know how it's gonna go! Hopefully, whoever your new guy is, you're happy :)I'm 15, confused, depressed, and I need YOUR best advice. Help?
no it shouldn't but if you are serious about your boyfriend then the other guy needs to stay off your radar. you need to make up your mind and do it carefully think about it and donot do anything on impulse just slow down and think..growing up is hard work and never a easy path to take.. good luck
stay with your boyfriend. you've been together for this long, its normal to have feelings for other guys. the other guy could be anybody. thnk about it. you know more about your boyfriend than you do this other person. dont give up what you have. but hey thats my advice. do what you want.
ok so i was going to say something along the lines of your boyfriend sounds like a boyfriend and the other guy sounds like just a good friend
but wow 3 and a half years older... not such a big deal if you were older but wow.
go for the 16 yr old
Youre right,, youre 15. Odds are pretty good that youre not going to marry either of these guys. Dont take these things so seriously, youre just practicing for the real men girl. Just pick the one that makes you the happiest. Or hell keep them both lol
make a list of the pros and cons of each relationship or guy... look them over and consider everything... some one once told me, dont leave the one you love for the one you like cuz the one you like will leave you for the one they love!
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Just ask yourself if you still love your current boyfriend. that is the question. if you do, then you don't need to change a thing. If you don't then thats a different story.
You need to make a decision rather quickly because if eith one finds out, he might say something to the other one to start an argument. Then it will all be over-with both guys. Take my advice, hun Seriously
leaving a guy for anougher guy??
HORABLE
try to get more confertable with ur bf in public
go for another
i kinda have the same problem
but not exactly
Dear, u wud need to thnk wida clear head, study u problem 4m a neutral point of view, den u wud ve de answr, see u r on dat stage whr u nd 2 do wats rite ethically n nt de way u want it to be rite, u can nt leave ur boyfrnd alone in de midway, shud b thkful dat he treats u lyk a propah lady, dis new guy it seems only want physical stuff, which wud leave u damaged emotionally n physically, so my suggestion is u ve *** dis far, so bid de new guy gudbye n its absolutely wrng 4 u 2 cheat on ur boyfrnd, also how sure r u, dat even though u do decide 2 go ahead wid de new guy, n leave ur boyfrnd, dis new guy wud nt ditch u 4 anthr girl? so my vote goes 2 ur boyfrnd who has been devoted 2 u n wud neva hurt u emotionally.....
You are right...you shouldn't be bogged down. You have dated your current bf since you were 13 and a half? Where are your parents on this. You should just now be allowed to date and you have been dating since you were 13...no wonder all this confusion. I think at your age you should be dating all around..and not going exclusive with any one person...you are way to young for this commitment stuff. Free yourself up..and don't jump into another long term relationship. Keep yourself open.
Im going through a relationship problem like you now, so i understand what you are feeling (your 15, and im 14, so i do understand how you feel on this). the thing is with relationships you can never know whats going to work or not, but you dont want to risk what you already have. trust me i know how you feel, even though i may not be able to fully understand your true feelings; in my case... im basicly dating one of my best friends ex's who where very close, and the weird thing is, the girl and i both really like eachother (possibly even love). we are both really unsure since we both have mixed feelings because of my friend (who is unaware) and our friends who are pressuring us, some supportive some not.. but those who are not get to me more... i basicly hate myself now... i want to be with her, but i dont want to hurt my friend...
in this situation, similar to yours the only rational thing to do is to talk to the ones in question (your current bf, and possible the other guy) and discuss how you feel. honestly, both of them seem to like you (exactly how much, is unknown by me), and if they truley do, they both will only want you to be happy. mainly, by just talking, you can learn alot about yourself and those you talk to. i know this may not solve the problem, but its the best thing you can do. you need to decide what you truley want. if possible, i know its hard, ignore those who try to shut you down, and do what makes you happy. just know that small things are not sufficant reason not to care for someone, though you like one thing, you may find something that you despise/dislike.
im very sorry for all the above confusion, but its all i can say right now, as i am talking from fresh pain/hurt and feel like im dying inside myself from all this.
i honestly hope that this does help you a little. i wish you nothing but the best of luck with this and all of your problems.
- T.J.R.
The liklihood of you ending up with either of these guys is slim.
You need to figure out why you feel more comfortable with each guy. Is one better looking than the other. Is one immature. Is one more shy.
Feelings change.
Have you told either of these guys about the other one?
Whether you say anything or not, there is a vibe you will give out if you have been cheating (even if nothing physical has happened). Relationships that start out this way, rarely end well. Generally if you are with someone else and you start seeing someone new, the someone new may think that it is okay to be with someone else at the same time as being with you, and not tell you about it.
My advice, which I doubt you will take, is to make a clean break from both the guys. Neither of them are right for you.
I have had this problem before, and I didn't end up marrying either of them, but that was a choice I made. First of all, you are only 15 so chances are that you will end up meeting other guys and probably forgetting about one or both of these guys. However, this new relationship will always seem great at first because it is new; so you should keep that in mind. There are other questions that arise though: Does this new guy know that you have a boyfriend?
I wouldn't care much about what your bf's friends think about, guys can say something bad about you one minute, then try and talk to you behind their homeboy's back the next.
You can keep seeing them both, but if they find out can u handle what will happen next? If not, you need to straight up and tell one or both of them what is going. Personally I would tell the new guy ';i have a boyfriend, but we can still be friends';
hey girl! I remeber when I was 15, you really need to play the field and try not to tie yourself down to one person. you are young, dating right now will help you determine what you want in a husband later. I have dated a lot of jerks, being with different types of guys helps you realize how you really want to be treated and what you really deserve. I say tell them both you dont want a commitment and date both! why not, you know! have fun there is no need to be commited to one guy at your age. good luck with everything girl! :)
Relax and know that you are not the first person to be in this situation. Many have been in your shoes and have made it out just fine. You are saying the right things, you are only 15. You have the rest of your life ahead of you. Things happen, people change. You may or may not be in love with both of these guys. You are the only one that can make the decision on what to do. I would recommend you pick one, not my choice but it sounds like the new guy and you click just a little more, and go with it. In life we do many things we regret, as long as you learn from them and do not make the same mistake twice you will be fine.
Best of Luck,
haha 15 is when it most likely WILL boggle you down this much, sounds to me tho like you just need to suck it up and make a choice and stick with it, if you leave your boyfriend for this other guy then it was time for that relationship to end anyway and if he finds someone else then you'll just have to move on and focus on this new guy, if it doesn't work out with him and you've lost your original boyfriend as well (because this outcome is possible in situations like this) then again you will just have to move on knowing that you took a risk that didn't turn out the way you wanted, you won't have to have any regrets
You still have a long way to go girl unless you wanted to get married as early as sixteen..and could be a more terrible/confusing thing..
Let me ask you this...what was those things that caused you to like him before giving him your ';Yes';? And what do you think are those beautiful things your boyfriend saw in you the time he is courting you? During those months being with him, is there mutual responses that created a bond?Is there any reason why you are not comfortable being with your BF in Public?Historical reason? Physical?Do you want to keep him?
If your answer to my last question is a big ';YES'; then find ways to create a spark again (if there was). What was those things you do enjoy mutually (aside from sex,if you did). Outdoors?Hiking?Some activities that will help you both know each other...deeply.
If not?Well that's is also acceptable answer. Answers can only be YES or NO. If you dont have that mutual feeling (anymore)..let go of yourselves. The experiences in the stage you are in now is just a preparation for a more mature discernment on things like these.
As you have said, you are freakin 15...this shouldn't boggle you down that much. There could be reasons why you are more comfortable with the GUY. Is he physically more attractive than your BF? You said you feel that there is somewhat a bonding whenever youre with him even without talking? Can you know him better that way? Do you find him more better to be with?Just a reminder..communication is indespensable..
Dont commit anything by now now to the Guy. Go back to my questions and answer to the last one. Dont tell the guy to wait but you can still be a friend to him.
Hope this help..
Honestly, I would take a break from your boyfriend and see where things go with the new guy. I wouldn't take this advice too seriously, I'm just basing it off what you wrote. I'm in a similar situation. I've liked a girl for years now, but since she's a little out of my league I haven't gotten the courage to ask her out. I know I should probably move on, but I'm sooo afraid of never knowing what might have been. It's a tough decision to make, but make sure you choose the one your most comfortable with, no matter where you are. Good Luck!
Make two lists one for you boyfriend now with positive and negative things about him, and one for the new guy with positive and negative things about him...Compare and contrast.... Make a list about yourself and the things you like and dont like about you..See which guy fits in there better...Sometimes its better to see things on paper rather than in ur head...It makes it more visual...Always trust your head and your heart...Take chances when it feels right...
You are right, you shouldn't let it bother you that much, but if you are with one guy and liking another, then maybe its time you take a break from the first one, you are still so young and you have so much more time to look for the right one, and trust me, you will know. I know its hard and this is probably not what you want to hear, but trust me. don't cheat on your boyfriend with this guy because you could ruin and hurt him so much more then a simple break up and at first, yeah it may be hard, but think of how much harder it will be to explain to him if he finds out you cheated on him. also if you break up with him and find out you don't like the other guy and you still have strong feelings for your first, its much easier to explain to your ex then it would be after you cheated on him. think of how you would feel in his place. just let your first know you are confused and you need a break and continue talking as friends to both guys, after you get to know them more you will know which one you share interests with the most and it will all be clearer. please don't stress over this too much, go out with friends and stuff, don't revolve your life over this. it could only cause much more severe symptoms.
good luck %26lt;3
I usually don't even answer stuff like this, but this sounds like a similar situation to my friend, so here goes:
As you are only 15 currently dating someone who is 18/19ish I can see where the public thing becomes awkward (it can be a little taboo for the older guy). As for his friends, they likely think that because you are 3 years younger that you aren't as mature as them, and in all likelihood it's true. You are still growing and learning. At your age you shouldn't be so concerned.
As for the other gentleman, you say you have a spiritual connection. Usually it takes a lot of time to develop such a close connection with someone, and I fear that it may be the excitement of someone new in your life who is closer to your age. As you said yourself, you're more comfortable with your BF in private than the other guy, and yet the other guy is better when in public.
It comes don to this: talk to your current BF and express how you feel in public. Try and find out WHY it is uncomfortable in public and address it. If you can work something out then great, problem solved, you have the best of both worlds. It's not too late to develop a connection with him.
If you cannot work out those issues then wait. Give it a little time, just in case the excitement of the new guy wears off and you're left without anyone at all. If you do TRULY have feeling for him then accept the risk that you will be leaving you current relationship for ever and never returning.
As you said, you're 15, and this is the least of your worries. It'll all be a learning experience.
Good luck.
HES 18 OR 19???????????????
this is a mess.
you're a mess.
1: Drop both of them by saying you just want to be friends.
2: A ten month anniversary? NOT EVEN NEWLY MARRIED COUPLES CELEBRATE 10 MONTH ANNIVERSARIES... WTF?
3: So, you want to date the new guy, but have your boyfriend as a backup in case it doesn't work out? NO COMMENT ON THAT ONE...
4: If you're not comfortable with your boyfriend in public what does that say?...
5: Hang out with friends and work out (running and whatnot). Maintain friendship with these two guys, but don't let them get in the way of your life.
You're 15. These things shouldn't be your main concerns. I know dating is fun and all in high school, but you'll realize high school relationships are completely pointless once your out of high school and into college.
I miss him falling for me... 10 pts for best advice?
i am now in a new grade and last year there was the really hot guy. he'd always talk to me, and say he wasnt cool and he wanted to be more like me. that brought a huge smile to my face because no one really says that to me. it was june and it was time for summer he never IMed me over the summer.. just like 6 months ago he said i was hot and that was aroung last year he wanted me to tell no one but my friend was over she told everyone and he said it was a joke to everyone. today at luch i sit at my lunch table i see him and he just keeps looking at me with a smile and couldnt keep his eyes of me. were in no classes this year but last year we had gym and CAD it was amazing last year i miss him ): give me guy advice and stuff that i need to do better to get him and how to impress him. I miss him falling for me... 10 pts for best advice?
if that's what he wants then play the game... just be yourself, hang around with your friends giving him little attention.. try to change your style, don't give any signs that you like him or showing motives that you miss him. avoid talking things about him. if he's there then act casually. try to hold your feelings for him. let him get confused about you.I miss him falling for me... 10 pts for best advice?
just try not to focus on him and hangout with your friends and laugh alot it just makes you look funner i guess lol and if you think he is the jealous type try talking to some guys when hes around like in the halls or at lunch. i don't think its that nice to do but hey if you really like him then give it a shot! good luck!
Honestly he is kinda acting immature. I think the best thing to do is act like you dont like him and that you are not interested in him and maybe it will get to him more and wisen him up. Boys in high school (im assuming your in high school) dont know there heads from there butts at that age. So go in with your heart gaurded and act like he doesnt even phase you
he probably doesn't want the whole school knowing his buisness. if he keeps smiling, just go up and talk to him. send him an IM.
maybe he dont want the school to know just talk to him call him IM him or sumthing :D
your question bites
ask him for his number somehow and text him.
or write him a note. he seems immatur thouhg, (:
ask him out when he is alone!
if that's what he wants then play the game... just be yourself, hang around with your friends giving him little attention.. try to change your style, don't give any signs that you like him or showing motives that you miss him. avoid talking things about him. if he's there then act casually. try to hold your feelings for him. let him get confused about you.I miss him falling for me... 10 pts for best advice?
just try not to focus on him and hangout with your friends and laugh alot it just makes you look funner i guess lol and if you think he is the jealous type try talking to some guys when hes around like in the halls or at lunch. i don't think its that nice to do but hey if you really like him then give it a shot! good luck!
Honestly he is kinda acting immature. I think the best thing to do is act like you dont like him and that you are not interested in him and maybe it will get to him more and wisen him up. Boys in high school (im assuming your in high school) dont know there heads from there butts at that age. So go in with your heart gaurded and act like he doesnt even phase you
he probably doesn't want the whole school knowing his buisness. if he keeps smiling, just go up and talk to him. send him an IM.
maybe he dont want the school to know just talk to him call him IM him or sumthing :D
your question bites
ask him for his number somehow and text him.
or write him a note. he seems immatur thouhg, (:
ask him out when he is alone!
Please help with my grammar. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I am applying for NGOs job. I would like to add this section on my resume. What do you think? Please advice. If you would please help with the format and grammar. English is my second language. Thank you very much!
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ACCOMPLISHMENTS
Assisted the Thai Minister/Deputy Chief of Mission plan and organize “A Taste of Thailand” Gala Dinner, a benefit for the post-tsunami support of schools and living facilities for the orphans in Thailand, summer 2005.
Organized and hosted “Women and Children in Japanese Society” Speech and Dinner, the guess speaker was First Secretary of the Consulate General of Japan in New York, fall 2005.
Served as the Vice President of the Asia Club at Edinboro University, organized educational trip to Harvard University and Massachusetts Institute of Technology, spring 2004.Please help with my grammar. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
make it ';organized A Taste of Thailand'; so you have all past tense
Capitalize ';Summer,'; ';Fall,'; and ';Spring';
change ';guess'; to ';guest';
other than those things, it looks finePlease help with my grammar. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I think it is a good start. I would definitly add some more things in there though.wow you have done a lot!
You have an impressive list of professional accomplishments, but you need to simplify. People looking at resumes generally spend 3 seconds looking at the paper. If they can't get everything they need in those 3 seconds, they don't call you back. I worked in Human Resources Hiring Department, so I do know what I'm talking about!
So, what you need to do is something like this:
At the very top, you want your name. Directly underneath that, you want your address and contact details (all on the same line. ) For example:
GRETA GARBO
12-34 56th Street• New York, New York 12345• (123) 456-7890•youremailaddress@yahoo.com
NEXT, you want to put the title of the job you're looking for, for example:
ADMINISTRATIVE ASSOCIATE
THEN, you want a bullet-pointed summary of your qualifications. For example:
SUMMARY OF QUALIFICATIONS:
• A highly organized and detail-oriented Administrative Associate with over 3 years of experience, providing support to senior executives.
• Dedicated and focused; able to prioritize and complete multiple tasks
• Motivated professional with excellent research skills.
•Computer skills include: MS Word, Excel, Outlook, PowerPoint, Quark, Publisher and Internet
• Languages: English, Spanish, Chinese, French
THEN, you write a short paragraph like this, titled
SEEKING: And you tell them VERY BRIEFLY what kind of a job you're looking for and why.
FINALLY, you list your professional experiences, like this:
PROFESSIONAL EXPERIENCE
Joe's Coffee Klatch, New York, NY
Administrative Associate, 07/2005 – present
• Provide overall administrative support
• Managed office communications• Maintain and format client database (daily)
• Maintained high level of customer service
Follow the same format with the next job and the next job.
I hope this helps you!
Explain what some of your duties were in these positions.
I was in charge of finding location's, catering, travel arrangments, lodging, security,etc. You need to add more detail, after all, your trying to ';sell'; yourself for this job. If they know that your capable of doing all this, it can only be a plus. Good luck!
Listen to margerat above. She is right on. Good luck
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ACCOMPLISHMENTS
Assisted the Thai Minister/Deputy Chief of Mission plan and organize “A Taste of Thailand” Gala Dinner, a benefit for the post-tsunami support of schools and living facilities for the orphans in Thailand, summer 2005.
Organized and hosted “Women and Children in Japanese Society” Speech and Dinner, the guess speaker was First Secretary of the Consulate General of Japan in New York, fall 2005.
Served as the Vice President of the Asia Club at Edinboro University, organized educational trip to Harvard University and Massachusetts Institute of Technology, spring 2004.Please help with my grammar. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
make it ';organized A Taste of Thailand'; so you have all past tense
Capitalize ';Summer,'; ';Fall,'; and ';Spring';
change ';guess'; to ';guest';
other than those things, it looks finePlease help with my grammar. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I think it is a good start. I would definitly add some more things in there though.wow you have done a lot!
You have an impressive list of professional accomplishments, but you need to simplify. People looking at resumes generally spend 3 seconds looking at the paper. If they can't get everything they need in those 3 seconds, they don't call you back. I worked in Human Resources Hiring Department, so I do know what I'm talking about!
So, what you need to do is something like this:
At the very top, you want your name. Directly underneath that, you want your address and contact details (all on the same line. ) For example:
GRETA GARBO
12-34 56th Street• New York, New York 12345• (123) 456-7890•youremailaddress@yahoo.com
NEXT, you want to put the title of the job you're looking for, for example:
ADMINISTRATIVE ASSOCIATE
THEN, you want a bullet-pointed summary of your qualifications. For example:
SUMMARY OF QUALIFICATIONS:
• A highly organized and detail-oriented Administrative Associate with over 3 years of experience, providing support to senior executives.
• Dedicated and focused; able to prioritize and complete multiple tasks
• Motivated professional with excellent research skills.
•Computer skills include: MS Word, Excel, Outlook, PowerPoint, Quark, Publisher and Internet
• Languages: English, Spanish, Chinese, French
THEN, you write a short paragraph like this, titled
SEEKING: And you tell them VERY BRIEFLY what kind of a job you're looking for and why.
FINALLY, you list your professional experiences, like this:
PROFESSIONAL EXPERIENCE
Joe's Coffee Klatch, New York, NY
Administrative Associate, 07/2005 – present
• Provide overall administrative support
• Managed office communications• Maintain and format client database (daily)
• Maintained high level of customer service
Follow the same format with the next job and the next job.
I hope this helps you!
Explain what some of your duties were in these positions.
I was in charge of finding location's, catering, travel arrangments, lodging, security,etc. You need to add more detail, after all, your trying to ';sell'; yourself for this job. If they know that your capable of doing all this, it can only be a plus. Good luck!
Listen to margerat above. She is right on. Good luck
Did I lose my chance? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I had an interview on Wednesday for an Administrative Assistant to the President position. She seems to like me. She asked for my references. I gave them to her, but I informed her that my ferences may not available because they are on summer vacation (college professors). She looked upset and told me she will interview more candidates and contact me later. Next day, I went to her office again and gave her 3 letters of recommedation and a Thank you letter. She met with me in person and got the letters.
I just saw they have extended their dateline of job application from June 30 to July 7. (It has happened to me before with another employers and they did not hire me--I was crushed)
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I am over qualified for this job. I have Master's degree. I am only 22 years old and speak English with an accent. I have been applied for many jobs in the past months and nothing. I just want to have any jobs. I am depressed and sad.Did I lose my chance? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Don't be discouraged.
Unfortunately, many people have their own unique likes %26amp; dislikes, and its possible that she decided, for whatever reason, to extend the job application deadline.
However, I do agree with you that it is not good when that happens, and I would say it's now unlikely that you are being considered.
Very likely its the Master's degree. Perhaps you may want to leave it out the next time you apply for a ';lower'; position. I have the same problem, and I leave out my highest degree from my resume when I am applying for jobs which do not require it.
Perhaps, as another poster suggested, try and do better on your grammar and writing. An AA needs to write well.Did I lose my chance? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
hey hun...
no she shouldnt be upset when you told her that ...and i dont know... search more and ask more and i hope u will find the job you need...
and by the way you have to improve your english as you have many grammer mistakes up there...';with all my respect';
good luck :)
well this is just life. stuff like this will always happen.
you shouldn't just give up! If you have a master's degree, and you just said you're over qualified for that job, then find a better one.
im sure you will.
good luck!
I just saw they have extended their dateline of job application from June 30 to July 7. (It has happened to me before with another employers and they did not hire me--I was crushed)
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I am over qualified for this job. I have Master's degree. I am only 22 years old and speak English with an accent. I have been applied for many jobs in the past months and nothing. I just want to have any jobs. I am depressed and sad.Did I lose my chance? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Don't be discouraged.
Unfortunately, many people have their own unique likes %26amp; dislikes, and its possible that she decided, for whatever reason, to extend the job application deadline.
However, I do agree with you that it is not good when that happens, and I would say it's now unlikely that you are being considered.
Very likely its the Master's degree. Perhaps you may want to leave it out the next time you apply for a ';lower'; position. I have the same problem, and I leave out my highest degree from my resume when I am applying for jobs which do not require it.
Perhaps, as another poster suggested, try and do better on your grammar and writing. An AA needs to write well.Did I lose my chance? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
hey hun...
no she shouldnt be upset when you told her that ...and i dont know... search more and ask more and i hope u will find the job you need...
and by the way you have to improve your english as you have many grammer mistakes up there...';with all my respect';
good luck :)
well this is just life. stuff like this will always happen.
you shouldn't just give up! If you have a master's degree, and you just said you're over qualified for that job, then find a better one.
im sure you will.
good luck!
Staying in LAX over night? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I am going back home (Foreign country). I have been living in the East coast for the past 7 years. I have never been to California. I would love to travel in the areas for a day or two days (one spend 1 night in the airport)
I plan to book a domestic ticket from DC to LAX. Then, I leave my 2 big suitcases in the airport. I travel in the areas during the day. Then, I come back to the airport at night to sit a little while. Next morning, I travel a little bit more. Then, I have to fly back out of the country. Is this a good idea? I don't want to spend money on hotel. I really want to save my money. The bad part is I cannot take a shower. Anyway, I would love your advice and suggestion. Where should I travel. How do I get there. Thank you very much :)Staying in LAX over night? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
There is no place to leave luggage at the airport. No lockers anymore. You would have to call a baggage storage company to come pick them up and deliver them when you need them. Go to a Travelers Aid Booth when you arrive and try and find an inexpensive hotel. Their Booths are located next to the baggage claim area in every terminal. Motel 6 have good rates among others. And they offer a free shuttle to and from the hotel. That way you can get a good nights sleep and take a shower and have some place to leave your luggage. Email me at: kingsleydr60@yahoo.com if you have anymore questions.Staying in LAX over night? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Here is my suggestion. From the airport arrival area, find the Flyaway shuttle station, and take the shuttle to UNION STATION. There are several Flyaway shuttles, so take the proper one. It will take you to Union Station, which is in downtown LA. There are many things to do there, and you can take the subway from downtown to Hollywood to see the tourist attractions there as well. Just make sure you allow enough time to get back to LAX.
Now, that's a long time to go without a shower. But here is how you can spend your time for only $10 in transportation cost.
From the lower level arrivals, get on the free shuttle bus to Aviation Metro Station.(just ask and they will show you the bus) Get a Metro day pass for $5. Take the Green Line to Imperial/Wilmington Station and change to the Blue line to 7th St / Metro Center. That's downtown. After sightseeing in downtown, get back to 7th st / Metro Station. Get on the Red Line to Hollywood / Vine. There you will find the Hollywood walk of fame. Walk from that station to the Mann Chinese and Kodak theater(home of the academy awards). Then walk back to Hollywood / Highland Station, get back on the Red line and get off at the Universal City Station. Walk up the hill to the Universal City Walk. There are lots to see there, restaurants, shops, activities, the Universal Studios, etc.
Click on each Metro line to see the map: http://www.socalthemeparks.com/la-county鈥?/a>
On the second day, repeat the process but from downtown, take the Gold line to Pasadena. Walk to Colorado blvd and Old Town Pasadena. Lots of shopping restaurants and a movie theater at Paseo.
FYI
Do not get out of the Imperial/Wilmington Station, this is the ghetto.
There are literally hundreds of things to do here in LA. Here is my top ten list:
Disneyland: The Happiest Place on Earth. Half a billion visitors can鈥檛 be wrong. (Sometimes it seems all at once)
Universal Studios: A theme park that grew out of a studio tour. And Universal City Walk is a fun place to hang out in the evening after your day inside the park.
Hollywood: Hollywood Boulevard is ready for its close-up, thanks to years of urban renewal and renovation. Enjoy the Walk of Fame, Entertainment Museum, Chinese Theatre and more. You can see a lot for free. The Hollywood %26amp; Highland complex has lots of shops and restaurants, and the Kodak Theater (home of the Academy Awards). I also like the El Capitan theater, because it has been restored to its former glory.
Rodeo Drive, 90210: Packed with exclusive shops, full of gawkers. They all came to enjoy the excess. Free, unless you intend to buy something.
Venice Beach: Los Angeles kitsch and over-the-top culture at its best. Here you'll find Muscle Beach, street performers and tacky shops galore. Fun, VERY interesting, but I avoid it after dark, when it gets a little TOO interesting for my taste. And it's a short bike ride from Santa Monica Pier.
Santa Monica Beach and Pier: Great beach scene and a classic seaside amusement park, complete with antique carousel that has been in a lot of TV and movies. (The Sting and ';Three's Company'; come immediately to mind). After visiting the pier, you can ride a bike south a couple miles to Venice Beach.
Santa Monica Third Street Promenade - Downtown Santa Monica's shopping promenade is often the scene of movie star-sightings. Just a short walk from the Santa Monica Pier.
Sunset Boulevard: Perhaps one of the world's most famous streets, it began as a route between the stars' posh neighborhoods and the Hollywood studios. It runs from downtown to the ocean, passing through the ';Sunset Strip'; on its way. It makes for a fun drive. Along the way, you see a lot of different neighborhoods: Hollywood, West Hollywood, Bel Air, and Pacific Palisades. When you get to the ocean, stop at Gladstone's for Fish.
Queen Mary: Once the largest ship afloat, she's been docked in Long Beach for longer than she sailed, and her elegance never fails to impress. Free to visit. You can actually stay on board, for a price.
Farmers Market and The Grove - A new shopping complex right next to a Los Angeles landmark, The Grove and Farmers Market coexist. Enjoy a movie or shopping, and then take the trolley to the Farmers Market for lunch or dinner. It is right next to CBS, so walk across the lot to see if they are taping ';The Price is Right';. You might even get in.
TAAB: The Americana at Brand- The newly opened TAAB, developed by the same group that gave us The Grove, breathes new life into Glendale, and gives all those hip people in Eagle Rock and the eastern half of LA a great place to go.
Griffith Park - Home of the Los Angeles Zoo, Griffith Park Observatory, Travel Town, the Greek Theatre, and Gene Autry Museum of Western Heritage.
Getty Museum - The Getty's architecture is so beautiful that it keeps me fascinated. No matter whether you like their art or architecture better (or maybe you'll just enjoy the view), the Getty is sure to please. Free.
Attend a TV taping - You can get free tickets at audiencesunlimited.com, tvtix.com, or see the booth at Universal City walk. It's very interesting to see a show being taped. The most popular, by far, is the Tonight show with Jay Leno. Check the NBC web site for all the details there.
Wicked at the Pantages Theater- Located in the heart of Hollywood, this is an excellent and long running production, the most POPULAR show in LA right now.
Places to eat:
In-N-Out Burger: Multiple locations, best burger in LA, ask anyone.
Pink鈥檚 Hot Dogs: 709 N. La Brea, just north of Melrose. You might even see a celebrity. Maybe.
Tommy鈥檚 Chili Burgers: Look for the shack, an LA tradition. The original location is at Beverly %26amp; Rampart, a couple miles west of downtown.
Canter鈥檚 Deli: 419 N. Fairfax, between Beverly %26amp; Melrose. Near CBS, you might spot a celebrity.
Phillippe鈥檚: 1001 N. Alameda. Great roast beef sandwiches. Near Union Station and Olvera Street. Watch the mustard, it鈥檚 hot.
The Pantry: Corner of Figueroa and 9th, downtown. Huge portions, they never close, GREAT steak and eggs.
Places to Shop:
Third Street Promenade, Santa Monica
The Grove, Los Angeles
Americana @ Brand, Glendale
Beverly Center, Los Angeles
Citadel Outlets, Commerce
Brea Mall, Brea
The Block at Orange, Orange
South Coast Plaza, Costa Mesa
Fashion Island, Newport Beach
Santee Alley, Los Angeles
To get to some of these places, take the flyaway bus to Union Station in downtown. From there, you can take the Red Line Subway to Universal Studios, Hollywood, and other places. At the airport, look for the green signs on the lower level.
I plan to book a domestic ticket from DC to LAX. Then, I leave my 2 big suitcases in the airport. I travel in the areas during the day. Then, I come back to the airport at night to sit a little while. Next morning, I travel a little bit more. Then, I have to fly back out of the country. Is this a good idea? I don't want to spend money on hotel. I really want to save my money. The bad part is I cannot take a shower. Anyway, I would love your advice and suggestion. Where should I travel. How do I get there. Thank you very much :)Staying in LAX over night? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
There is no place to leave luggage at the airport. No lockers anymore. You would have to call a baggage storage company to come pick them up and deliver them when you need them. Go to a Travelers Aid Booth when you arrive and try and find an inexpensive hotel. Their Booths are located next to the baggage claim area in every terminal. Motel 6 have good rates among others. And they offer a free shuttle to and from the hotel. That way you can get a good nights sleep and take a shower and have some place to leave your luggage. Email me at: kingsleydr60@yahoo.com if you have anymore questions.Staying in LAX over night? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Here is my suggestion. From the airport arrival area, find the Flyaway shuttle station, and take the shuttle to UNION STATION. There are several Flyaway shuttles, so take the proper one. It will take you to Union Station, which is in downtown LA. There are many things to do there, and you can take the subway from downtown to Hollywood to see the tourist attractions there as well. Just make sure you allow enough time to get back to LAX.
Now, that's a long time to go without a shower. But here is how you can spend your time for only $10 in transportation cost.
From the lower level arrivals, get on the free shuttle bus to Aviation Metro Station.(just ask and they will show you the bus) Get a Metro day pass for $5. Take the Green Line to Imperial/Wilmington Station and change to the Blue line to 7th St / Metro Center. That's downtown. After sightseeing in downtown, get back to 7th st / Metro Station. Get on the Red Line to Hollywood / Vine. There you will find the Hollywood walk of fame. Walk from that station to the Mann Chinese and Kodak theater(home of the academy awards). Then walk back to Hollywood / Highland Station, get back on the Red line and get off at the Universal City Station. Walk up the hill to the Universal City Walk. There are lots to see there, restaurants, shops, activities, the Universal Studios, etc.
Click on each Metro line to see the map: http://www.socalthemeparks.com/la-county鈥?/a>
On the second day, repeat the process but from downtown, take the Gold line to Pasadena. Walk to Colorado blvd and Old Town Pasadena. Lots of shopping restaurants and a movie theater at Paseo.
FYI
Do not get out of the Imperial/Wilmington Station, this is the ghetto.
There are literally hundreds of things to do here in LA. Here is my top ten list:
Disneyland: The Happiest Place on Earth. Half a billion visitors can鈥檛 be wrong. (Sometimes it seems all at once)
Universal Studios: A theme park that grew out of a studio tour. And Universal City Walk is a fun place to hang out in the evening after your day inside the park.
Hollywood: Hollywood Boulevard is ready for its close-up, thanks to years of urban renewal and renovation. Enjoy the Walk of Fame, Entertainment Museum, Chinese Theatre and more. You can see a lot for free. The Hollywood %26amp; Highland complex has lots of shops and restaurants, and the Kodak Theater (home of the Academy Awards). I also like the El Capitan theater, because it has been restored to its former glory.
Rodeo Drive, 90210: Packed with exclusive shops, full of gawkers. They all came to enjoy the excess. Free, unless you intend to buy something.
Venice Beach: Los Angeles kitsch and over-the-top culture at its best. Here you'll find Muscle Beach, street performers and tacky shops galore. Fun, VERY interesting, but I avoid it after dark, when it gets a little TOO interesting for my taste. And it's a short bike ride from Santa Monica Pier.
Santa Monica Beach and Pier: Great beach scene and a classic seaside amusement park, complete with antique carousel that has been in a lot of TV and movies. (The Sting and ';Three's Company'; come immediately to mind). After visiting the pier, you can ride a bike south a couple miles to Venice Beach.
Santa Monica Third Street Promenade - Downtown Santa Monica's shopping promenade is often the scene of movie star-sightings. Just a short walk from the Santa Monica Pier.
Sunset Boulevard: Perhaps one of the world's most famous streets, it began as a route between the stars' posh neighborhoods and the Hollywood studios. It runs from downtown to the ocean, passing through the ';Sunset Strip'; on its way. It makes for a fun drive. Along the way, you see a lot of different neighborhoods: Hollywood, West Hollywood, Bel Air, and Pacific Palisades. When you get to the ocean, stop at Gladstone's for Fish.
Queen Mary: Once the largest ship afloat, she's been docked in Long Beach for longer than she sailed, and her elegance never fails to impress. Free to visit. You can actually stay on board, for a price.
Farmers Market and The Grove - A new shopping complex right next to a Los Angeles landmark, The Grove and Farmers Market coexist. Enjoy a movie or shopping, and then take the trolley to the Farmers Market for lunch or dinner. It is right next to CBS, so walk across the lot to see if they are taping ';The Price is Right';. You might even get in.
TAAB: The Americana at Brand- The newly opened TAAB, developed by the same group that gave us The Grove, breathes new life into Glendale, and gives all those hip people in Eagle Rock and the eastern half of LA a great place to go.
Griffith Park - Home of the Los Angeles Zoo, Griffith Park Observatory, Travel Town, the Greek Theatre, and Gene Autry Museum of Western Heritage.
Getty Museum - The Getty's architecture is so beautiful that it keeps me fascinated. No matter whether you like their art or architecture better (or maybe you'll just enjoy the view), the Getty is sure to please. Free.
Attend a TV taping - You can get free tickets at audiencesunlimited.com, tvtix.com, or see the booth at Universal City walk. It's very interesting to see a show being taped. The most popular, by far, is the Tonight show with Jay Leno. Check the NBC web site for all the details there.
Wicked at the Pantages Theater- Located in the heart of Hollywood, this is an excellent and long running production, the most POPULAR show in LA right now.
Places to eat:
In-N-Out Burger: Multiple locations, best burger in LA, ask anyone.
Pink鈥檚 Hot Dogs: 709 N. La Brea, just north of Melrose. You might even see a celebrity. Maybe.
Tommy鈥檚 Chili Burgers: Look for the shack, an LA tradition. The original location is at Beverly %26amp; Rampart, a couple miles west of downtown.
Canter鈥檚 Deli: 419 N. Fairfax, between Beverly %26amp; Melrose. Near CBS, you might spot a celebrity.
Phillippe鈥檚: 1001 N. Alameda. Great roast beef sandwiches. Near Union Station and Olvera Street. Watch the mustard, it鈥檚 hot.
The Pantry: Corner of Figueroa and 9th, downtown. Huge portions, they never close, GREAT steak and eggs.
Places to Shop:
Third Street Promenade, Santa Monica
The Grove, Los Angeles
Americana @ Brand, Glendale
Beverly Center, Los Angeles
Citadel Outlets, Commerce
Brea Mall, Brea
The Block at Orange, Orange
South Coast Plaza, Costa Mesa
Fashion Island, Newport Beach
Santee Alley, Los Angeles
To get to some of these places, take the flyaway bus to Union Station in downtown. From there, you can take the Red Line Subway to Universal Studios, Hollywood, and other places. At the airport, look for the green signs on the lower level.
Need guy help for summer!!!!! easy 10 points to best advice!!?
2 summers ago i fell in luv with this guy in venezuela on vacation at my grandparents apartment, but then we couldnt go last year and he moved away and none of us have been able to contact him [he was friends wit my cuzin] how do i meet another guy like him ?? im going 2 venezuela for a wedding and then gonna spend a week in cancun this summer, so i want to meet someone special if i can ;] any advice on how?Need guy help for summer!!!!! easy 10 points to best advice!!?
my advice to you is to not go looking for a guy just like him, because you will never be able to replace him. My advice would be to just be yourself, which I know is a little over said, but that's only because it's true. If somebody you like shows any interest in you THEN and only then should you pursue him. Dont wear yourself out looking for a replacement long lost lover from a south american summer...best of luck;)Need guy help for summer!!!!! easy 10 points to best advice!!?
I think your criteria about your ideal guy will come into play. Be sure that you will at least lower your criteria to certain level that is acceptable. Next is you need to socialize ';A LOT'; because that is the best way you will know the person. After that, you need to find the chemistry.
You also need to make sure you are happy with your dating partner. I believe a girls charm will show when she excerts her inner self. Well there is a lot of opinions but just believe in yourself! I know you will find the right guy!
I don't know that you can force great relationships in to being...I'd say go there and enjoy yourself, have a great time. You'll radiate a joie de vivre that might attract a new man...
Don't push it - if you spend lots of time looking, chances are you'll end up disappointed.
Like I said, focus on having a great time. Things will fall into place at the right time...
All the best :)
Peace
You've got to be joking me. Honestly this is at least the 7th time I've answered a question like this... Anyway, Just try acting like youo did when you met the guy you lost. Then once you notice 'a guy liking you without saying anything' then try to 'warm up to him' eventually tell him you're interested in him(how you do that is up to you). Oh yeah, good luck with your next heartbreak when thaty guy moves too. If he does.
It's amazing how many people are in this world. Just when you think you're out of luck, someone new becomes very special to you. And everything happens for a reason, so that guy you miss will end up making you stronger for the next boy to come around ;)
it's always flattering when a girl walks up to guy with a smile and with a (i'm happy to be here) attitude so just try to approach someone your age unless your into older/younger as long as you approach them with good intentions and a smile your gonna go far :D
Just casually flirt and chill with a bunch of different guys. Get their phone numbers, e-mail, etc. It'll prob take a while to fall in love with another boy especially if you have not forgotten about the last one yet.
you can't meet a guy LIKE him, but you can meet a bunch of guys to see if you hit it off like you did with the other one. just be outgoing, thats my advice. please go to my page and answer my last question? thanks!
Just go out and have fun hunny!!! If the moments right, and the right person is there, you'll meet them! That sounds like such a fun vacation! Have a blast, and meet as many people as you can!
don't fall in love on vacation, just go out there and get some, fall in love with someone at home, or get the guy to come back to home with you before falling in love with him
Dress provacatively, smile unless you have crooked teeth, stuff your bra, wear fermone pleasing perfume, most importantly have confidence in yourself.
Hey, just go with the flow. What ever is suppost to happen will happen. Who knows, maby he is looking for you to. You just have to hope for the best ang get what god gives you.
You can';t just meet a guy like that he has to walk into your life and here has to be time to get to know he is the one . A WEEK WILL NEVER LET YOU KNOW WHO HE REALLY IS .
go to church, theres nice people there, i used to date someone from venezulea and there are nice people i hope u find someone special!! Good Luck
have fun this summer and maybe a guy will just walk right into you. and then BAM! there you go... have a good summer~!~
~V~~
Your 13 yrs ... you got your whole life ahead of you to enjoy boys ... take your time and enjoy just hanging out and being good friends ..before you decide you want a relationship.
you don't LEARN how to meet someone, it just happens. sorry but no advice to be given really
you should go out clubing and find some one and start talking to them.
don't be shy at the beach. introduce yourself to people. just have fun and hope for the best
Join e-harmony
;)
Go with the flow :)
just relax nd if u see ne one interesting chat it up with him
just relax....
da rite guy will come....
N u wuld noe wen he doez...
First of all, I want to say I am sorry for that. First loves are always the hardest to get off mind. One thing I will tell you, you dont want to find someone like him. All the things your new guy does will remind you of him, and it wouldnt be fair for him. And it will hurt you because you will have the thought in the back of your mind that he will never be back. Plus, you wouldnt be giving yourself the time to move on, nor the time to enjoy new experiences with someone else. I dont know how old you are, but I would say that you should concentrate on having fun above everything. Life is too short. But maybe you just feel lonely and want to share time with someone special. Be yourself, let others see how lovely you are internally, and dont be scared to find someone who you thought wasn't your prince charming. When I met my boyfriend, I didnt pay attention to him, I had just gotten out of a relationship (with my first love) and I wanted nothing to do with any other man. I ignored him, he was of a different race, I didnt think it would work out, and it has been the complete opposite. Never would anyone love me like he does. So I tell you, be open with people, dont search too much, and again, dont look for a chlone!makeup tips zits
my advice to you is to not go looking for a guy just like him, because you will never be able to replace him. My advice would be to just be yourself, which I know is a little over said, but that's only because it's true. If somebody you like shows any interest in you THEN and only then should you pursue him. Dont wear yourself out looking for a replacement long lost lover from a south american summer...best of luck;)Need guy help for summer!!!!! easy 10 points to best advice!!?
I think your criteria about your ideal guy will come into play. Be sure that you will at least lower your criteria to certain level that is acceptable. Next is you need to socialize ';A LOT'; because that is the best way you will know the person. After that, you need to find the chemistry.
You also need to make sure you are happy with your dating partner. I believe a girls charm will show when she excerts her inner self. Well there is a lot of opinions but just believe in yourself! I know you will find the right guy!
I don't know that you can force great relationships in to being...I'd say go there and enjoy yourself, have a great time. You'll radiate a joie de vivre that might attract a new man...
Don't push it - if you spend lots of time looking, chances are you'll end up disappointed.
Like I said, focus on having a great time. Things will fall into place at the right time...
All the best :)
Peace
You've got to be joking me. Honestly this is at least the 7th time I've answered a question like this... Anyway, Just try acting like youo did when you met the guy you lost. Then once you notice 'a guy liking you without saying anything' then try to 'warm up to him' eventually tell him you're interested in him(how you do that is up to you). Oh yeah, good luck with your next heartbreak when thaty guy moves too. If he does.
It's amazing how many people are in this world. Just when you think you're out of luck, someone new becomes very special to you. And everything happens for a reason, so that guy you miss will end up making you stronger for the next boy to come around ;)
it's always flattering when a girl walks up to guy with a smile and with a (i'm happy to be here) attitude so just try to approach someone your age unless your into older/younger as long as you approach them with good intentions and a smile your gonna go far :D
Just casually flirt and chill with a bunch of different guys. Get their phone numbers, e-mail, etc. It'll prob take a while to fall in love with another boy especially if you have not forgotten about the last one yet.
you can't meet a guy LIKE him, but you can meet a bunch of guys to see if you hit it off like you did with the other one. just be outgoing, thats my advice. please go to my page and answer my last question? thanks!
Just go out and have fun hunny!!! If the moments right, and the right person is there, you'll meet them! That sounds like such a fun vacation! Have a blast, and meet as many people as you can!
don't fall in love on vacation, just go out there and get some, fall in love with someone at home, or get the guy to come back to home with you before falling in love with him
Dress provacatively, smile unless you have crooked teeth, stuff your bra, wear fermone pleasing perfume, most importantly have confidence in yourself.
Hey, just go with the flow. What ever is suppost to happen will happen. Who knows, maby he is looking for you to. You just have to hope for the best ang get what god gives you.
You can';t just meet a guy like that he has to walk into your life and here has to be time to get to know he is the one . A WEEK WILL NEVER LET YOU KNOW WHO HE REALLY IS .
go to church, theres nice people there, i used to date someone from venezulea and there are nice people i hope u find someone special!! Good Luck
have fun this summer and maybe a guy will just walk right into you. and then BAM! there you go... have a good summer~!~
~V~~
Your 13 yrs ... you got your whole life ahead of you to enjoy boys ... take your time and enjoy just hanging out and being good friends ..before you decide you want a relationship.
you don't LEARN how to meet someone, it just happens. sorry but no advice to be given really
you should go out clubing and find some one and start talking to them.
don't be shy at the beach. introduce yourself to people. just have fun and hope for the best
Join e-harmony
;)
Go with the flow :)
just relax nd if u see ne one interesting chat it up with him
just relax....
da rite guy will come....
N u wuld noe wen he doez...
First of all, I want to say I am sorry for that. First loves are always the hardest to get off mind. One thing I will tell you, you dont want to find someone like him. All the things your new guy does will remind you of him, and it wouldnt be fair for him. And it will hurt you because you will have the thought in the back of your mind that he will never be back. Plus, you wouldnt be giving yourself the time to move on, nor the time to enjoy new experiences with someone else. I dont know how old you are, but I would say that you should concentrate on having fun above everything. Life is too short. But maybe you just feel lonely and want to share time with someone special. Be yourself, let others see how lovely you are internally, and dont be scared to find someone who you thought wasn't your prince charming. When I met my boyfriend, I didnt pay attention to him, I had just gotten out of a relationship (with my first love) and I wanted nothing to do with any other man. I ignored him, he was of a different race, I didnt think it would work out, and it has been the complete opposite. Never would anyone love me like he does. So I tell you, be open with people, dont search too much, and again, dont look for a chlone!
Why did he change all of a sudden?? Guy advice needed! Please Help ...10pts for best advice!?
I've been seeing this guy for a couple of weeks... We really get along and we like spending time together.
He invites me and my best friend (and the guy that she's been seeing) to a MMA fight for Friday night (which also happens to be my best friends bday) We agree and i look forward to it.
Friday comes around and he says that he got the days confused and the fight is on Sat not Friday. But he gets 2 tickets to a NFL preseason game... and offers to take me, i decline because its my best friends bday... and he offers to give the tickets to us...we tell him thats sweet but we decline... He goes with a friend and then calls me around 11 telling me how much he misses me, and can't wait to see me, and how wonderful i am.
Then Sat morning... He texts me ';Good Morning Beautiful';.... but when i call him at 2pm to confirm the plans for that night he doesn't respond... Finally an hour before we are supposed to meet he texts me ';I'm really feeling sick, i'm not going out tonight... what are you doing';
I'm super pissed and i didn't respond until about 12:30 yesterday and all i said was ';I hope you feel better'; and he didnt respond! So i called him to confirm our plans for today at about 7 last night... and he never responded!!!
I texted him this morning ';I guess i'm getting ditched again... I'll take the hint'; And he still hasn't responded!
How did he go from liking and missing me so much.... and less than 24hrs later hes ditching and not responding!!!
10pts for best advice!!Why did he change all of a sudden?? Guy advice needed! Please Help ...10pts for best advice!?
I think he feels you are being to controlling or clingy. Either that cheating or just wants space.Why did he change all of a sudden?? Guy advice needed! Please Help ...10pts for best advice!?
Maybe he is sick. In bed and throwing up and running to the bathroom every twenty minutes, with a fever and a horrible headache and chills and sweats.
Maybe he has actually turned his cell phone off, because he doesn't particularly want to get vomit and sick sweat all over it. Maybe he dropped his cell in the toilet and is too sick to traipse out and buy another one.
That is the most logical answer. Unless he somehow fell in love with someone else in between ';Good morning beautiful'; and 2PM the same day, he is probably sick. People do get sick, you know. They even die. And it doesn't have anything to do with you at all.
So before you dump this sweet guy who thinks you are wonderful and beautiful, perhaps you had better find out what is actually happening. Remember, people who are vomiting and shaking with fever aren't usually planning romantic get togethers.
He invites me and my best friend (and the guy that she's been seeing) to a MMA fight for Friday night (which also happens to be my best friends bday) We agree and i look forward to it.
Friday comes around and he says that he got the days confused and the fight is on Sat not Friday. But he gets 2 tickets to a NFL preseason game... and offers to take me, i decline because its my best friends bday... and he offers to give the tickets to us...we tell him thats sweet but we decline... He goes with a friend and then calls me around 11 telling me how much he misses me, and can't wait to see me, and how wonderful i am.
Then Sat morning... He texts me ';Good Morning Beautiful';.... but when i call him at 2pm to confirm the plans for that night he doesn't respond... Finally an hour before we are supposed to meet he texts me ';I'm really feeling sick, i'm not going out tonight... what are you doing';
I'm super pissed and i didn't respond until about 12:30 yesterday and all i said was ';I hope you feel better'; and he didnt respond! So i called him to confirm our plans for today at about 7 last night... and he never responded!!!
I texted him this morning ';I guess i'm getting ditched again... I'll take the hint'; And he still hasn't responded!
How did he go from liking and missing me so much.... and less than 24hrs later hes ditching and not responding!!!
10pts for best advice!!Why did he change all of a sudden?? Guy advice needed! Please Help ...10pts for best advice!?
I think he feels you are being to controlling or clingy. Either that cheating or just wants space.Why did he change all of a sudden?? Guy advice needed! Please Help ...10pts for best advice!?
Maybe he is sick. In bed and throwing up and running to the bathroom every twenty minutes, with a fever and a horrible headache and chills and sweats.
Maybe he has actually turned his cell phone off, because he doesn't particularly want to get vomit and sick sweat all over it. Maybe he dropped his cell in the toilet and is too sick to traipse out and buy another one.
That is the most logical answer. Unless he somehow fell in love with someone else in between ';Good morning beautiful'; and 2PM the same day, he is probably sick. People do get sick, you know. They even die. And it doesn't have anything to do with you at all.
So before you dump this sweet guy who thinks you are wonderful and beautiful, perhaps you had better find out what is actually happening. Remember, people who are vomiting and shaking with fever aren't usually planning romantic get togethers.
Is he my soul mate. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you very much?
4 years ago I met this guy in college. He adored me a lot; however, he scared to talk to me because I always acted like I don't care. We are also from different cultures. We secretly loved each other for 2 years. Before I graduated I told him that I am leaving. He looked very upset, but he told me good luck.
I moved to different states. I missed him everyday. I searched for him. I found his website. He wrote poetries about us. He claimed--he loves me. He does not know where I was or what to do, but he will wait for me. I contacted him. He was very happy. I was not ready for a relationship; therefore, I turned him down. He was hurted. Although, we kept in touch as friends for over 2 years. He wrote 22 poems about us. He has been supportive and respected my goals. He has never bother me about anything. On the other hand, I kept push him away and made him upset. He mad at me for 3 months. Luckily,he talked to me now. He said, he wants to be friends as always.
What do you thinkIs he my soul mate. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you very much?
wow! his guy sounds like he really loves you. have you asked yourself, why do you push him away?maybe his actions make you believe that he is your ';soul mate'; but deep down inside you're not in love with him, or it can also be that he makes you feel wanted, and in that case we never wanna let go of some one that make us feel beautiful, loved and wanted. you are not being fair to him cuz he will always have hope with you. good luck!!!Is he my soul mate. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you very much?
WELL IF YOU ASK ME I THINK THIS GUY IS TOTALY IN LOVE WITH YOU AND HE TRY NOT TO DO ANYTHINK WRONG TO RUINED YA RELATIONSHIP.....SO HE IZ UR TOTALY YOUR SOUL MATE 4SHOW!!!
your soul mate???
i think your nuts.
He cares about you. But you don't care about him. At least not in the way he does. You'd be nicer to let him move on and find someone who can treat him the way he wishes he could treat you. You both deserve better. Soul mates want to be together. Not push someone away.
Dear Friend. You are very lucky. Your b/f is indeed loves you. He is emotionally involved in you. He is not underplaying with you . He is your true lover. You are a lucky girl as you have found such a nice and true lover. Now he has done his duty it is now your duty to come forward and shake hands. Live togethr and also respect each other. Enjoy love. Good Luck
It seems that this guy really wants to be with you, but he has kept is distance from you for a very long time, so as not to pressure you into anything. I think he wants you to be ready to be with him, although now you keep pushing him away..you are sending him mixed signals about whether you want to be with him or not.
Considering he wrote all those poems for you he is sure for what he wants and yes he will wait for u from the looks of it.
Now that you have had a little falling out he has gone back to saying he wants to be friends which I dont think is true, I think he is hiding his true feelings so that you dont feel guilty about turning him down.
You have loved him before, If you say you have missed him everyday what is stopping you from being together?
I think you are being cruel and selfish to play him along like this!Either decide that you want him and do everything you can to make him happy, for he will do the same for you, OR decide that you do NOT want him and leave the poor man alone!
It is people like you who drive people like him to suicide, or murder.
It sounds like to me you dont know what you want. You are leading this poor guy on. One time you act like you want him, then when he shows interest you dont want anything to do with him. You are playing games.Grow up and quit messing with his head and his feelings. I think you just like the attention and knowing that you have him on a chain. You cant blame him for being mad. One time you show interest, then you turn him down. Leave this poor guy alone and quit playing head games with him.
He loves you very much. I find it very odd that a guy like this supports you 24/7. You are very lucky, and you've made me very jealous. The only problem thats holding you from being with him is you. You have too much insecurities, and learn how to make acceptions. There will never be another person as this, because there is only one in the world. So your call.
Being from different cultures, certain things may not be accepted in your culture as it might be accepted in his. You need to at least take the time to become better friends as he has definite feelings for you. Read those poems, and see what he is saying to you and him that lies beneath.
As far as soulmates, I would describe as two people who feel, hurt, love, and and just know how the other is without words being spoken, and to see hurt, love or any other emotion in the eyes of each other. And even if you lived in a tent, as long as you were together, it would be home! Honey, that's a soulmate.
no such thing as ';soul mates';
why are you pushing him away if you think you are soul mates?
What I see is the missing element. You haven't tried to open up to him. You are expecting the world but you aren't giving the same to him. If he is your soul mate then you would gladly give back to him. This is the only way your going to find out if he is the ';one.';
I moved to different states. I missed him everyday. I searched for him. I found his website. He wrote poetries about us. He claimed--he loves me. He does not know where I was or what to do, but he will wait for me. I contacted him. He was very happy. I was not ready for a relationship; therefore, I turned him down. He was hurted. Although, we kept in touch as friends for over 2 years. He wrote 22 poems about us. He has been supportive and respected my goals. He has never bother me about anything. On the other hand, I kept push him away and made him upset. He mad at me for 3 months. Luckily,he talked to me now. He said, he wants to be friends as always.
What do you thinkIs he my soul mate. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you very much?
wow! his guy sounds like he really loves you. have you asked yourself, why do you push him away?maybe his actions make you believe that he is your ';soul mate'; but deep down inside you're not in love with him, or it can also be that he makes you feel wanted, and in that case we never wanna let go of some one that make us feel beautiful, loved and wanted. you are not being fair to him cuz he will always have hope with you. good luck!!!Is he my soul mate. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you very much?
WELL IF YOU ASK ME I THINK THIS GUY IS TOTALY IN LOVE WITH YOU AND HE TRY NOT TO DO ANYTHINK WRONG TO RUINED YA RELATIONSHIP.....SO HE IZ UR TOTALY YOUR SOUL MATE 4SHOW!!!
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your soul mate???
i think your nuts.
He cares about you. But you don't care about him. At least not in the way he does. You'd be nicer to let him move on and find someone who can treat him the way he wishes he could treat you. You both deserve better. Soul mates want to be together. Not push someone away.
Dear Friend. You are very lucky. Your b/f is indeed loves you. He is emotionally involved in you. He is not underplaying with you . He is your true lover. You are a lucky girl as you have found such a nice and true lover. Now he has done his duty it is now your duty to come forward and shake hands. Live togethr and also respect each other. Enjoy love. Good Luck
It seems that this guy really wants to be with you, but he has kept is distance from you for a very long time, so as not to pressure you into anything. I think he wants you to be ready to be with him, although now you keep pushing him away..you are sending him mixed signals about whether you want to be with him or not.
Considering he wrote all those poems for you he is sure for what he wants and yes he will wait for u from the looks of it.
Now that you have had a little falling out he has gone back to saying he wants to be friends which I dont think is true, I think he is hiding his true feelings so that you dont feel guilty about turning him down.
You have loved him before, If you say you have missed him everyday what is stopping you from being together?
I think you are being cruel and selfish to play him along like this!Either decide that you want him and do everything you can to make him happy, for he will do the same for you, OR decide that you do NOT want him and leave the poor man alone!
It is people like you who drive people like him to suicide, or murder.
It sounds like to me you dont know what you want. You are leading this poor guy on. One time you act like you want him, then when he shows interest you dont want anything to do with him. You are playing games.Grow up and quit messing with his head and his feelings. I think you just like the attention and knowing that you have him on a chain. You cant blame him for being mad. One time you show interest, then you turn him down. Leave this poor guy alone and quit playing head games with him.
He loves you very much. I find it very odd that a guy like this supports you 24/7. You are very lucky, and you've made me very jealous. The only problem thats holding you from being with him is you. You have too much insecurities, and learn how to make acceptions. There will never be another person as this, because there is only one in the world. So your call.
Being from different cultures, certain things may not be accepted in your culture as it might be accepted in his. You need to at least take the time to become better friends as he has definite feelings for you. Read those poems, and see what he is saying to you and him that lies beneath.
As far as soulmates, I would describe as two people who feel, hurt, love, and and just know how the other is without words being spoken, and to see hurt, love or any other emotion in the eyes of each other. And even if you lived in a tent, as long as you were together, it would be home! Honey, that's a soulmate.
no such thing as ';soul mates';
why are you pushing him away if you think you are soul mates?
What I see is the missing element. You haven't tried to open up to him. You are expecting the world but you aren't giving the same to him. If he is your soul mate then you would gladly give back to him. This is the only way your going to find out if he is the ';one.';
Mental Health Issues/Suicidal Thought. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
This person has a mental problem since 2000. He claimed he has OCD, depression, and suicidal thought. He has been consulting with many doctors. The following is some medicine he has been taken. He claimed he is not medical resistance
Flux, Cipram, Camcolit, Clomfranil, Xanax, Librax, Feverin, Pramcit, Resparidol, Stelazine, Rivotril, Reline,Zoloft, anf Fluanxol.
From the description, I would like to know how bad is he. Thank you so much.Mental Health Issues/Suicidal Thought. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I think he should take an x -ray. So he should know how bad is it and taking the right prescription. I think he should go outside with someone to the park and relax finding something he likes to do. I learned in school that going to the park makes a person who have bad health cause the problem health to alleviateMental Health Issues/Suicidal Thought. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Some of those drugs are very powerful some of them that I know are used for the symptoms you have described. I'd look at getting him in some therapy to look at some of his issues. . Relying on the drugs alone is a big mistake.
Without seeing him I couldn't say how bad he is. With any Mental Illness it depends on how willing he is to get help to how long it will take to get stabilized
well if he's still alive up to now then he's really just having intrusive thoughts........give this person your full support..he shouldn't suffer from these mental condition for the rest of his life......he can go to a mental institute if he really want to treat his mental problems or if he prefers to battle the problem alone then give him your full support and find some ways to treat his OCD, Depression.......that's all I got.......hope I helped
naming 100 different drugs does not account the severe disability of his mental status, if anything side affects from drugs can make you worse, he might have a much deeper underlying problem or he just simply needs to chill/but talk to him allow him to open up to you
i think he is taking way too many medications. The side effects alone are enough to make someone sick. There are better ways to help overcome depression such as exercise.
Flux, Cipram, Camcolit, Clomfranil, Xanax, Librax, Feverin, Pramcit, Resparidol, Stelazine, Rivotril, Reline,Zoloft, anf Fluanxol.
From the description, I would like to know how bad is he. Thank you so much.Mental Health Issues/Suicidal Thought. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I think he should take an x -ray. So he should know how bad is it and taking the right prescription. I think he should go outside with someone to the park and relax finding something he likes to do. I learned in school that going to the park makes a person who have bad health cause the problem health to alleviateMental Health Issues/Suicidal Thought. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Some of those drugs are very powerful some of them that I know are used for the symptoms you have described. I'd look at getting him in some therapy to look at some of his issues. . Relying on the drugs alone is a big mistake.
Without seeing him I couldn't say how bad he is. With any Mental Illness it depends on how willing he is to get help to how long it will take to get stabilized
well if he's still alive up to now then he's really just having intrusive thoughts........give this person your full support..he shouldn't suffer from these mental condition for the rest of his life......he can go to a mental institute if he really want to treat his mental problems or if he prefers to battle the problem alone then give him your full support and find some ways to treat his OCD, Depression.......that's all I got.......hope I helped
naming 100 different drugs does not account the severe disability of his mental status, if anything side affects from drugs can make you worse, he might have a much deeper underlying problem or he just simply needs to chill/but talk to him allow him to open up to you
i think he is taking way too many medications. The side effects alone are enough to make someone sick. There are better ways to help overcome depression such as exercise.
Help!! 10 points for whoever can give me the best advice..?
Okay so a while ago i told this friend of mine that i think i might like him as more than a friend, and his response was weird so i let it go and tried to move on. He was kind of skeptical becuase he had just broken up with this other girl. So a few days ago he told me that he felt the same way and he felt for me. So things were perfect ever since then, we still havent done anything physical but we talk everyday and we can literally talk to each other about everything. However today my friend came up to me and told me that a few people asked her if i liked him. I know its not so bad, but like it kind of bothered me that other people know. And i think he told people that i liked him, but i guess he never said anything about himself so i think he was bragging... i dont even know... and i dont know what to do either. Also today i saw him at lunch with the biggest boy-stealer-slut in my school and i dont know what to do...Help!! 10 points for whoever can give me the best advice..?
I think he wants to sound ';manly'; to his friends so he's playing it off like he's not interested in you to his other friends. But if he really cared about you, why would he hide it? He sounds immature. And remember, not all relationships have to have ';labels'; like boyfriend/girlfriend. However, its a great way to keep your man on a leash if you feel like this girl is going to steal him. Try asking him, ';So what are we?'; Don't push the bf/gf title on him, but if he really cares about you he will want to make if official. If you can talk about anything, you should be able to talk about this. And if it really becomes a problem, about this other girl.Help!! 10 points for whoever can give me the best advice..?
Your Both single right? So you cant be mad at him for being around another girl, but about the other stuff... you need to find out how he really feels, something like this happen to me before except I was the boy in the situation. But I didn't like the girl as much as she liked me so I gave her as much attention, I liked someone else more. So yeah. Find out how he really feels...
You ';might'; like him or you ';do'; like him?
Well if you do like him, fight for your man! It sounds like you have a good relationship with him and about that ';man stealing slut';, I'd take that as a compliment! She wants what you have!
Best of luck!
I would first talk to him about going public as a couple and then i wouldn't worry about the slut too much if you do he might think your already protective and that might scare him off
Just ask him if he's serious, and if he seems sincere kiss him already.
If i were you then i would tell him how i feel and what the other girls have said to me. Just be honest aobut everything.
wow... its just drama your making up... dont worry about it... just chillax and take it easy... if he likes you and you go out people are going to find out... its NOT a big deal.
If you want to be with him, and you both like each other then make a move and start a relationship with him. If you hesitate too bad, he wont think you're interested in him at all.
Don't put so much stock into what the idiots at your school think. It really doesn't make the slightest bit of difference. In the long run, the only thing that matters is fulfilling your own needs, finding love and being a happy healthy person.
People are jealous that things have been going great for you guys, the slut-bf-stealer more than all else. The fact you haven't gotten physical is great too because he likes you for you. He probably cares too much to do anything to you. The fact you talk all the time is great and even if you saw him with the slut at school doesn't mean he digs her. Talking regularly with your guy is a sure sign things are going smooth. As long as things haven't gotten awkward or different you are probably fine. You have a keeper.
I think he wants to sound ';manly'; to his friends so he's playing it off like he's not interested in you to his other friends. But if he really cared about you, why would he hide it? He sounds immature. And remember, not all relationships have to have ';labels'; like boyfriend/girlfriend. However, its a great way to keep your man on a leash if you feel like this girl is going to steal him. Try asking him, ';So what are we?'; Don't push the bf/gf title on him, but if he really cares about you he will want to make if official. If you can talk about anything, you should be able to talk about this. And if it really becomes a problem, about this other girl.Help!! 10 points for whoever can give me the best advice..?
Your Both single right? So you cant be mad at him for being around another girl, but about the other stuff... you need to find out how he really feels, something like this happen to me before except I was the boy in the situation. But I didn't like the girl as much as she liked me so I gave her as much attention, I liked someone else more. So yeah. Find out how he really feels...
You ';might'; like him or you ';do'; like him?
Well if you do like him, fight for your man! It sounds like you have a good relationship with him and about that ';man stealing slut';, I'd take that as a compliment! She wants what you have!
Best of luck!
I would first talk to him about going public as a couple and then i wouldn't worry about the slut too much if you do he might think your already protective and that might scare him off
Just ask him if he's serious, and if he seems sincere kiss him already.
If i were you then i would tell him how i feel and what the other girls have said to me. Just be honest aobut everything.
wow... its just drama your making up... dont worry about it... just chillax and take it easy... if he likes you and you go out people are going to find out... its NOT a big deal.
If you want to be with him, and you both like each other then make a move and start a relationship with him. If you hesitate too bad, he wont think you're interested in him at all.
Don't put so much stock into what the idiots at your school think. It really doesn't make the slightest bit of difference. In the long run, the only thing that matters is fulfilling your own needs, finding love and being a happy healthy person.
People are jealous that things have been going great for you guys, the slut-bf-stealer more than all else. The fact you haven't gotten physical is great too because he likes you for you. He probably cares too much to do anything to you. The fact you talk all the time is great and even if you saw him with the slut at school doesn't mean he digs her. Talking regularly with your guy is a sure sign things are going smooth. As long as things haven't gotten awkward or different you are probably fine. You have a keeper.
Me and my Best Friend are going to Europe in 09- Any advice?
We are looking for lists from any one with an experience in regards to this.
Lists for Clothing required
Best Places to go
Places not to bother with
Things to look out for (shops, dodgy deals)
Anything you think that would make our trip easy :):)
Me and my Best Friend are going to Europe in 09- Any advice?
Go to the next bookstore or your local library and check out their travel section. Get one for Europe out of the following series: Let's Go, Lonely Planet, Rough Guide or Rick Steves.
This will tell you all you need to know. Considering that the LP Western Europe is the size and the weight of a small baby hippo I have no desire to write it all down here.
As for clothes, temps will be in the range of 15 C with wind and rain and 35 C with unrelenting sunshine. Pack accordingly. You can find good packing lists here:
http://www.ricksteves.com/plan/tips/wome鈥?/a>
http://www.travelite.org/category/packin鈥?/a>
I like to travel with 3-5 sets of clothing, ie 3 bottoms plus the one I am wearing and 4 tops plus the one I am wearing. Bottoms can be skirt, shorts, jeans, lightweight pants and I like to mix and match. Tops should equally be in the range of shoulder free strappy top to long-sleeved sweatshirt.Me and my Best Friend are going to Europe in 09- Any advice?
when are you going? i was in prague recently and loved it! i would recommend good walking shoes (sneakers) especially if you are traveling somewhere with cobblestone streets! also, if you are staying in a hotel, most of them have laundry facilities. this can help you limit your packing. hope this helps some.
I know this doesn't really answer your question, but I am going backpacking through Europe in 2010. If you look up backpacking through europe (even though you may not be) It gives you great stuff to bring and places to go.
Lists for Clothing required
Best Places to go
Places not to bother with
Things to look out for (shops, dodgy deals)
Anything you think that would make our trip easy :):)
Me and my Best Friend are going to Europe in 09- Any advice?
Go to the next bookstore or your local library and check out their travel section. Get one for Europe out of the following series: Let's Go, Lonely Planet, Rough Guide or Rick Steves.
This will tell you all you need to know. Considering that the LP Western Europe is the size and the weight of a small baby hippo I have no desire to write it all down here.
As for clothes, temps will be in the range of 15 C with wind and rain and 35 C with unrelenting sunshine. Pack accordingly. You can find good packing lists here:
http://www.ricksteves.com/plan/tips/wome鈥?/a>
http://www.travelite.org/category/packin鈥?/a>
I like to travel with 3-5 sets of clothing, ie 3 bottoms plus the one I am wearing and 4 tops plus the one I am wearing. Bottoms can be skirt, shorts, jeans, lightweight pants and I like to mix and match. Tops should equally be in the range of shoulder free strappy top to long-sleeved sweatshirt.Me and my Best Friend are going to Europe in 09- Any advice?
when are you going? i was in prague recently and loved it! i would recommend good walking shoes (sneakers) especially if you are traveling somewhere with cobblestone streets! also, if you are staying in a hotel, most of them have laundry facilities. this can help you limit your packing. hope this helps some.
I know this doesn't really answer your question, but I am going backpacking through Europe in 2010. If you look up backpacking through europe (even though you may not be) It gives you great stuff to bring and places to go.
Girlz please read and try to give me ur best advice ..jus be honest thanks a bunch ...?
Ok so basicaly ive hung out before with this girl but it was at new years party and now ive jus wanted to hang out with her again but not as in a date maybe something with her friends like goin to the mall or goin downtown or jus chilling someplace.
I do like her but i dont wanna rush it by askin her out cuz i dont know if she likes me so i do not wanna ruin a friendship..cuz ive known her for about two months and wer pretty tight...
So how should i ask her so that i wont sound annoying or anything and also there might be a party comin up soon but its one of her friedns sweet 16 and id like to go but its a friend that i dont know that well but this girl is most likely goin to it and i wanted to go to to chill with her but i dont wanna show up randomly cuz ill look like im stalkin her and since i dont know the girl thats havin the party..then itl look really bad.... ..so what should i do for both situatiions...thanks a bunch ..:D:D:D:D %26lt;3Girlz please read and try to give me ur best advice ..jus be honest thanks a bunch ...?
ask her to the movies, its VERY casual, and could be either a date or a time for friends to just hangout. these arn't big steps, but if you star with this, she'll get more comfortable hanging out with you, instead of ';wanna go on a date with me?'; and putting pressure on her, say something like ';hey, wanna go see that movie with me this weekend.'; If your just looking to be a better friend with her, invite her to your house to play guitar hero or something, this will invite her to be more comfortable around you in a fun unstressful enviroment.
dont go if your not invited... unless the girl brings you as her date. you could like ask the girl if she wante'd to go for pizza before or after her friends party. or invite her to go as your date to a dance or something.makeup tips zits
I do like her but i dont wanna rush it by askin her out cuz i dont know if she likes me so i do not wanna ruin a friendship..cuz ive known her for about two months and wer pretty tight...
So how should i ask her so that i wont sound annoying or anything and also there might be a party comin up soon but its one of her friedns sweet 16 and id like to go but its a friend that i dont know that well but this girl is most likely goin to it and i wanted to go to to chill with her but i dont wanna show up randomly cuz ill look like im stalkin her and since i dont know the girl thats havin the party..then itl look really bad.... ..so what should i do for both situatiions...thanks a bunch ..:D:D:D:D %26lt;3Girlz please read and try to give me ur best advice ..jus be honest thanks a bunch ...?
ask her to the movies, its VERY casual, and could be either a date or a time for friends to just hangout. these arn't big steps, but if you star with this, she'll get more comfortable hanging out with you, instead of ';wanna go on a date with me?'; and putting pressure on her, say something like ';hey, wanna go see that movie with me this weekend.'; If your just looking to be a better friend with her, invite her to your house to play guitar hero or something, this will invite her to be more comfortable around you in a fun unstressful enviroment.
dont go if your not invited... unless the girl brings you as her date. you could like ask the girl if she wante'd to go for pizza before or after her friends party. or invite her to go as your date to a dance or something.
I have Buying Issues Help me solve this problem.Best advice and answer 10 Points.?
I am a 15 years old girl who has a problem.Whenever i go to the malls my MOM REALLY WANTS TO BUY CLOTHES FOR ME.I am a Tomboy but sometimes i wear Girly Girl clothes and the thing is i refuse because of the price.I don't want my Mom to spend to much Money for my clothes because i don't feel i deserve it plus i am scared it wont look good on me like other girls or actresses like Miley and Ashley.I worry about Money more than my mother.I don't know what is wrong with me.Do i have any disorder.Most teenage girls of my age aren't concerned about the money their parents spend on their clothes and i want to be carefree and careless too so what can i do.Why do i worry about money so much.I haven't bought any clothes in 2 months and now school is going to start and i haven't bought anything to wear.I like to buy things below 20 dollar.I know i ma weird and uncool.Please help me.I have Buying Issues Help me solve this problem.Best advice and answer 10 Points.?
yuoor not weird
its jus u like ur mum to spend her stuff that u know u wud be graitfull for
it dosnt matter if you dont like new clothes
im like u in sum ways i hate buying clothes becasue there to expensive
y dont u try charity shops
its cheap and sum good clothes in there
aswell you can wash the clothes befor you wear them
its kool
:)I have Buying Issues Help me solve this problem.Best advice and answer 10 Points.?
it normal to worry about money, sometimes when y parents buy me expensive stuff i feel guilty
if you want store thta sell cheap clothing tryy
SIRENS
urban behaviour http://www.urbanbehavior.com/
bluenotes http://www.blnts.com/store.cfm?%26amp;ckey=CA%26amp;鈥?/a>
(the clothes on the inetrent are kinda ugly but in square one they are soooo cute)
garage- http://www.garage.ca/
all cute stores with cheap prices
good luck.
PS you can make your own style liek you can buy a boring white top and make it cool by adding neclaces or belts. thats what miley and selena do.
LOL, you don't have a disorder.
You just like to handle your money carefully.
If you don't want your mom to buy things for you that much, maybe you should tell her.
But, if she really wants to buy something for you and you like it too, let her buy it for you sometimes.
An occasional slpurge doesn't hurt once in a while.
Besides, school's gonna start.
Need new clothes, right? (:
weird.
there is nothing wrong with you at all i promise just let your mom know exactly how you feel and go from there have fun enjoy
JUST slow down. i worry a little bit too because money is tight.trust me you don't have a disorder...try doing a little research and you just might find something:)
yuoor not weird
its jus u like ur mum to spend her stuff that u know u wud be graitfull for
it dosnt matter if you dont like new clothes
im like u in sum ways i hate buying clothes becasue there to expensive
y dont u try charity shops
its cheap and sum good clothes in there
aswell you can wash the clothes befor you wear them
its kool
:)I have Buying Issues Help me solve this problem.Best advice and answer 10 Points.?
it normal to worry about money, sometimes when y parents buy me expensive stuff i feel guilty
if you want store thta sell cheap clothing tryy
SIRENS
urban behaviour http://www.urbanbehavior.com/
bluenotes http://www.blnts.com/store.cfm?%26amp;ckey=CA%26amp;鈥?/a>
(the clothes on the inetrent are kinda ugly but in square one they are soooo cute)
garage- http://www.garage.ca/
all cute stores with cheap prices
good luck.
PS you can make your own style liek you can buy a boring white top and make it cool by adding neclaces or belts. thats what miley and selena do.
LOL, you don't have a disorder.
You just like to handle your money carefully.
If you don't want your mom to buy things for you that much, maybe you should tell her.
But, if she really wants to buy something for you and you like it too, let her buy it for you sometimes.
An occasional slpurge doesn't hurt once in a while.
Besides, school's gonna start.
Need new clothes, right? (:
weird.
there is nothing wrong with you at all i promise just let your mom know exactly how you feel and go from there have fun enjoy
JUST slow down. i worry a little bit too because money is tight.trust me you don't have a disorder...try doing a little research and you just might find something:)
To the true Christians out there, what is the best advice for crippling anxiety/worry?
I am a Christian, although I have always struggled with my faith. I recently made some major lifestyle changes, in hopes of having a better life then the one I was living (drugs,drug dealer boyfriend etc etc.Things have been going much better, but lately there has been some things happening in my workplace.
I enjoy my job very much, but lately the stressors at work are completely overwhelming for me. I made some errors and also have a conflict with a co worker (he has been taking advantage of me and I finally said enough is enough so we are having a meeting with our supervisor) I am sooo anxious about will transpire in my workplace. I have very low self esteem, and everytime there is something negative to deal with in my life (especially work) I run away instead of facing things.I feel overwhelmed and unable to cope.I analysis and obsess over everything, imagining worse possible outcomes.
This behaviour pattern of mine has led me to move from one job to the next to avoid feeling the uncomfortable pain associated with conflict and/or rejection. It has even made me apologize to people and try and smooth things over (even when i feel I'm right) just so they still ';like me'; and I don't feel shunned or disliked.
Anyone have this struggle? Reccommend any good Bible versus? What should do?? I am in tears....I just hate living like this and can't fathom living this way for the rest of my life.To the true Christians out there, what is the best advice for crippling anxiety/worry?
Matthew 11:28-30
Philippines 4:6-8
i have struggled with severe depression, and anxiety, please understand when Jehovah says ';do not be anxious over any thing'; he still takes into account when we may have something like anxiety, or obsessing, and knows what the whole deal is. its a scripture to keep in mind , memorize it, when you face your fears, you might (i have) experience the peace of god that ex cells all thoughts
i have dealt with depression all my life, the truth saved my life literally. i have prayed and prayed for some relief, i do not blame jehovah for not removing the boulder that crushes me. how ever ,i have come to terms that it will be a thorn in my side most likely until the end of this system.
Jehovah uses me as a broken vessel,
im not saying to continue on the way you are now, you may need medical help. i cant recommend that to you, only you and jehovah knows (he knows more than you!) what is happening.
i haven't even been able to struggle , but i pray soon to have these dry bones revived.
keep in mind these things our brothers and sisters are suffering all over the world. and we are all praying for each other.
one more scripture that is simple that jehovah gave to me is
Nenemiah 4:14 says in part (from daily txt)
DO NOT BE AFRAID... JEHOVAH THE GREAT AND FEAR INSPIRING ONE... KEEP IN YOUR MIND
at the time i felt, i could not bear strong counsel, i was going to read the bible, but it was so heavy and big, so i picked up the days text and that was the scripture! so i know jehovah provides, even when we might feel we are doing all we can, like being courageous and things like that.
KEEP ON PRAYING it will be heard, keep on asking it will be given, keep on knocking and it will be opened.
go to the psalms... david prayed, and begged over and over!!!To the true Christians out there, what is the best advice for crippling anxiety/worry?
You should first talk to your doctor who can help you calm down while you deal with these issues. As you deal with the issues, you will gradually gain more self confidence but you need to talk to a professional first.
Xanex and yes I'm a Christian, but anxiety when it takes over is not a pleasant place to be.
Talk to the doctor if it is really crippling anxiety and worry.
Best of Luck!!!
Carrie =)
A prayer can often calm the nerves and sharpen your wits in an uneasy moment
Pray for guidance.
Go see your doctor, he can help. Remember God says we are not to worry, when we worry we sin. To worry about things we cannot change is just a waist of our time. Please, you cannot change things that are out of your control. You can change things that are in your control. I have been sick for 4 years now, there are some things that I could change but most of it I could not. Please go see your Doctor, I did and it helped. I no longer obsess over things I cannot change.
You are not alone and Jehovah God knows how you feel. He is a compassionate God and He does care for you. He had several things written in His book about how He feels toward people in your situation.
Look at Psalms 51:17...This says that He does not despise a person that is feeling down but rather considers your distress as a sacrifice to Him
Psalms55:22 tells us that we need to pray to Jehovah, asking Him for strength and then He will help us.
I Peter 5:6,7 also confirms this, that we need to rely on Jehovah for help, and He does care for us
Just remember that there are a lot of people that care for you and will help you when you need it, the most important one of those is Almighty God Himself...Pray to Him and ask for strength...
Hello Amy!
I'm sorry for what you've experienced. One greatest thing is you can avoid the drug things in your life. That's quite difficult to be honest.
Now, you're expanding to a braver experience. You should work and in the world of work there are so many kinds of people, good and bad. Please make sure that what you are trying to achieve is a good one and can make the company grows. If you have, then you have to struggle for it. Tell your supervisor and boss (if you have the case to meet) about your insight, ideas about how to make things better. Do not force-just consistently try to promote your thought. If they don't follow and at the end or someday they find your ideas are better they will remember you as the person who has tried the best.
Keep faith. God loves you!
God is the cure, but faith is the first step. Faith, by definition, is believing beyond the shadow of a doubt that God WILL help you with your problem, no matter what it is. There is a huge difference between thinking He can and knowing He WILL. Just praying while thinking, ';Well, God, I THINK you can help me with this,'; or '; I hope you can,'; is not the same as thinking, ';I just prayed, so this problem WILL be taken care of, and I have no need to worry.'; And then immediately following that, you breathe a sigh of relief, and forget that problem ever existed. If you find yourself praying over and over about the same problem, you have proven to both God and yourself that you're not sure if it got answered the first time. This is where the doubt comes in. Don't allow it to. Just trust in God with every problem, and envision each one as though you are jumping off of a bridge, and God has to catch you. Don't be hesitant, just leap off, and wait for the loving hands of God to be there before you reach the ground. I will pray for you myself. God bless.
I'd recommend praying the rosary for peace in your heart:
http://www.medjugorje.org/rosary.htm
The fifteen promises of Mary to Christians who recite the rosary:
1. Whoever shall faithfully serve me by the recitation of the Rosary shall receive signal graces.
2. I promise my special protection and the greatest graces to all those who shall recite the Rosary.
3. The Rosary shall be a powerful armor against Hell, it will destroy vice, decrease sin, and defeat heresies.
4. It will cause virtue and good works to flourish; it will obtain for souls the abundant mercy of God; it will withdraw the hearts of men from the love of the world and its vanities and will lift them to the desire of eternal things. Oh, that souls would sanctify themselves by this means.
5. The soul which recommends itself to me by the recitation of the Rosary, shall not perish.
6. Whoever shall recite the Rosary devoutly, applying himself to the consideration of its sacred mysteries, shall never be conquered by misfortune. God will not chastise him in His justice, he shall not perish by an unprovided death; if he be just, he shall remain in the grace of God and become worthy of eternal life.
7. Whoever shall have a true devotion for the Rosary shall not die without the Sacraments of the Church.
8. Those who are faithful to recite the Rosary shall have during their life and at their death the light of God and the plenitude of His graces; at the moment of death, they shall participate in the merits of the saints in Paradise.
9. I shall deliver from Purgatory those who have been devoted to the Rosary.
10. The faithful children of the Rosary shall merit a high degree of glory in Heaven.
11. You shall obtain all you ask of me by the recitation of the Rosary.
12. All those who propagate the Holy Rosary shall be aided by me in their necessities.
13. I have obtained from my Divine Son that all the advocates of the Rosary shall have for intercessors the entire Celestial Court during their life and at the hour of death.
14. All who recite the Rosary are my sons, and brothers of my only Son, Jesus Christ.
15. Devotion to my Rosary is a great sign of predestination.
Our Lady has 117 titles. She selected this title at Fatima: ';I am the Lady of the Rosary.';
St. Francis de Sales said the greatest method of praying IS- Pray the Rosary.
St. Thomas Aquinas preached 40 straight days in Rome, Italy on just the Hail Mary.
St. John Vianney, patron of priests, was seldom seen without a rosary in his hand.
';The rosary is the scourge of the devil'; -- Pope Adrian VI
';The rosary is a treasure of graces'; -- Pope Paul V
Padre Pio, the stigmatic priest, said: ';The Rosary is THE WEAPON';
Pope Leo XIII wrote 9 encyclicals on the rosary.
Pope John XXIII spoke 38 times about Our Lady and the Rosary. He prayed 15 decades daily.
St. Louis Marie Grignion de Montfort wrote: ';The rosary is the most powerful weapon to touch the Heart of Jesus, Our Redeemer, who so loves His Mother.';
Pope Pius XII: “There is no surer means of calling down God’s blessings upon the family…than the daily recitation of the Rosary.”
Pope Pius XII: “The Rosary is the compendium of the entire Gospel.”
God bless!
Dave
prayer. worship music, like somebody else said, is often calming and helps generate confidence in god. go to the adoration chapel, if there is one near you. it's nice to sit in silence with god. try to live in the moment and don't OBSESS over the future. it's unhealthy. yesterday is history; tomorrow is a mystery; today is a gift. that's why it's called the present!! :)
-remember, the bible says to give thanks in ALL circumstances, not only the good.
im having a really rough time with school and home life. recent relatinoship breakoffs and everything has been really rough for me. im sorry that you are going through this and i know God is smiling down that you have made those changes in your life and im glad you have. ill pray for you to have stregnth.
but what i do when im having a really bad day is maybe go to an extra service in church. or usually what i do is i get some of my favorite worship music (god of this city, indescribable, how great is our god,we fall down, here i am to worship) and just listen to that in my dark room and just pray and praise god. take my mind off of everythign and focus on just God and what he did. even just running through what jesus' life may have been like. all of the things in the bible. the crusifiction, the miracles, the temptations in the desert, all of those things.
i end up feeling alot better about myself and much more clearheaded about things that im goign to be doing and things i should do. good luck and God bless
';Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.'; - Matthew 11:28-30
In our lives there are always times that come to us when we are fed up and feel the weight of the world on our shoulders. We feel that everything is going wrong and things get so bad that you cannot see any light at the end of the dark tunnel. We become weary and burdened, and at this time it is easy to feel miserable.
However, what did Christ tell us? What words must we turn to in these times? Jesus tells us that He will give us rest - this is His promise to us. But what must we do to allow this promise to come true? We must come to Jesus!
Jesus Christ tells us to come to Him. What does this mean? We must know Christ and accept Him as our saviour.
Jesus tells us that He is gentle and has a humble in heart, and in his heart we will be able to find rest for our souls.
You really have to give your problems to Jesus, in other words let go and give them to Him to handle. Or as they say ';let go and let God.'; If you are still worrying after doing this, then you really haven't given your problems to God after all. Try again, give it all to God...like the Carrie Underwood song, let Jesus take the wheel...give Him the authority to run your life. Just ask him in, and let go, and let Him.
...God Bless.
I enjoy my job very much, but lately the stressors at work are completely overwhelming for me. I made some errors and also have a conflict with a co worker (he has been taking advantage of me and I finally said enough is enough so we are having a meeting with our supervisor) I am sooo anxious about will transpire in my workplace. I have very low self esteem, and everytime there is something negative to deal with in my life (especially work) I run away instead of facing things.I feel overwhelmed and unable to cope.I analysis and obsess over everything, imagining worse possible outcomes.
This behaviour pattern of mine has led me to move from one job to the next to avoid feeling the uncomfortable pain associated with conflict and/or rejection. It has even made me apologize to people and try and smooth things over (even when i feel I'm right) just so they still ';like me'; and I don't feel shunned or disliked.
Anyone have this struggle? Reccommend any good Bible versus? What should do?? I am in tears....I just hate living like this and can't fathom living this way for the rest of my life.To the true Christians out there, what is the best advice for crippling anxiety/worry?
Matthew 11:28-30
Philippines 4:6-8
i have struggled with severe depression, and anxiety, please understand when Jehovah says ';do not be anxious over any thing'; he still takes into account when we may have something like anxiety, or obsessing, and knows what the whole deal is. its a scripture to keep in mind , memorize it, when you face your fears, you might (i have) experience the peace of god that ex cells all thoughts
i have dealt with depression all my life, the truth saved my life literally. i have prayed and prayed for some relief, i do not blame jehovah for not removing the boulder that crushes me. how ever ,i have come to terms that it will be a thorn in my side most likely until the end of this system.
Jehovah uses me as a broken vessel,
im not saying to continue on the way you are now, you may need medical help. i cant recommend that to you, only you and jehovah knows (he knows more than you!) what is happening.
i haven't even been able to struggle , but i pray soon to have these dry bones revived.
keep in mind these things our brothers and sisters are suffering all over the world. and we are all praying for each other.
one more scripture that is simple that jehovah gave to me is
Nenemiah 4:14 says in part (from daily txt)
DO NOT BE AFRAID... JEHOVAH THE GREAT AND FEAR INSPIRING ONE... KEEP IN YOUR MIND
at the time i felt, i could not bear strong counsel, i was going to read the bible, but it was so heavy and big, so i picked up the days text and that was the scripture! so i know jehovah provides, even when we might feel we are doing all we can, like being courageous and things like that.
KEEP ON PRAYING it will be heard, keep on asking it will be given, keep on knocking and it will be opened.
go to the psalms... david prayed, and begged over and over!!!To the true Christians out there, what is the best advice for crippling anxiety/worry?
You should first talk to your doctor who can help you calm down while you deal with these issues. As you deal with the issues, you will gradually gain more self confidence but you need to talk to a professional first.
Xanex and yes I'm a Christian, but anxiety when it takes over is not a pleasant place to be.
Talk to the doctor if it is really crippling anxiety and worry.
Best of Luck!!!
Carrie =)
A prayer can often calm the nerves and sharpen your wits in an uneasy moment
Pray for guidance.
Go see your doctor, he can help. Remember God says we are not to worry, when we worry we sin. To worry about things we cannot change is just a waist of our time. Please, you cannot change things that are out of your control. You can change things that are in your control. I have been sick for 4 years now, there are some things that I could change but most of it I could not. Please go see your Doctor, I did and it helped. I no longer obsess over things I cannot change.
You are not alone and Jehovah God knows how you feel. He is a compassionate God and He does care for you. He had several things written in His book about how He feels toward people in your situation.
Look at Psalms 51:17...This says that He does not despise a person that is feeling down but rather considers your distress as a sacrifice to Him
Psalms55:22 tells us that we need to pray to Jehovah, asking Him for strength and then He will help us.
I Peter 5:6,7 also confirms this, that we need to rely on Jehovah for help, and He does care for us
Just remember that there are a lot of people that care for you and will help you when you need it, the most important one of those is Almighty God Himself...Pray to Him and ask for strength...
Hello Amy!
I'm sorry for what you've experienced. One greatest thing is you can avoid the drug things in your life. That's quite difficult to be honest.
Now, you're expanding to a braver experience. You should work and in the world of work there are so many kinds of people, good and bad. Please make sure that what you are trying to achieve is a good one and can make the company grows. If you have, then you have to struggle for it. Tell your supervisor and boss (if you have the case to meet) about your insight, ideas about how to make things better. Do not force-just consistently try to promote your thought. If they don't follow and at the end or someday they find your ideas are better they will remember you as the person who has tried the best.
Keep faith. God loves you!
God is the cure, but faith is the first step. Faith, by definition, is believing beyond the shadow of a doubt that God WILL help you with your problem, no matter what it is. There is a huge difference between thinking He can and knowing He WILL. Just praying while thinking, ';Well, God, I THINK you can help me with this,'; or '; I hope you can,'; is not the same as thinking, ';I just prayed, so this problem WILL be taken care of, and I have no need to worry.'; And then immediately following that, you breathe a sigh of relief, and forget that problem ever existed. If you find yourself praying over and over about the same problem, you have proven to both God and yourself that you're not sure if it got answered the first time. This is where the doubt comes in. Don't allow it to. Just trust in God with every problem, and envision each one as though you are jumping off of a bridge, and God has to catch you. Don't be hesitant, just leap off, and wait for the loving hands of God to be there before you reach the ground. I will pray for you myself. God bless.
I'd recommend praying the rosary for peace in your heart:
http://www.medjugorje.org/rosary.htm
The fifteen promises of Mary to Christians who recite the rosary:
1. Whoever shall faithfully serve me by the recitation of the Rosary shall receive signal graces.
2. I promise my special protection and the greatest graces to all those who shall recite the Rosary.
3. The Rosary shall be a powerful armor against Hell, it will destroy vice, decrease sin, and defeat heresies.
4. It will cause virtue and good works to flourish; it will obtain for souls the abundant mercy of God; it will withdraw the hearts of men from the love of the world and its vanities and will lift them to the desire of eternal things. Oh, that souls would sanctify themselves by this means.
5. The soul which recommends itself to me by the recitation of the Rosary, shall not perish.
6. Whoever shall recite the Rosary devoutly, applying himself to the consideration of its sacred mysteries, shall never be conquered by misfortune. God will not chastise him in His justice, he shall not perish by an unprovided death; if he be just, he shall remain in the grace of God and become worthy of eternal life.
7. Whoever shall have a true devotion for the Rosary shall not die without the Sacraments of the Church.
8. Those who are faithful to recite the Rosary shall have during their life and at their death the light of God and the plenitude of His graces; at the moment of death, they shall participate in the merits of the saints in Paradise.
9. I shall deliver from Purgatory those who have been devoted to the Rosary.
10. The faithful children of the Rosary shall merit a high degree of glory in Heaven.
11. You shall obtain all you ask of me by the recitation of the Rosary.
12. All those who propagate the Holy Rosary shall be aided by me in their necessities.
13. I have obtained from my Divine Son that all the advocates of the Rosary shall have for intercessors the entire Celestial Court during their life and at the hour of death.
14. All who recite the Rosary are my sons, and brothers of my only Son, Jesus Christ.
15. Devotion to my Rosary is a great sign of predestination.
Our Lady has 117 titles. She selected this title at Fatima: ';I am the Lady of the Rosary.';
St. Francis de Sales said the greatest method of praying IS- Pray the Rosary.
St. Thomas Aquinas preached 40 straight days in Rome, Italy on just the Hail Mary.
St. John Vianney, patron of priests, was seldom seen without a rosary in his hand.
';The rosary is the scourge of the devil'; -- Pope Adrian VI
';The rosary is a treasure of graces'; -- Pope Paul V
Padre Pio, the stigmatic priest, said: ';The Rosary is THE WEAPON';
Pope Leo XIII wrote 9 encyclicals on the rosary.
Pope John XXIII spoke 38 times about Our Lady and the Rosary. He prayed 15 decades daily.
St. Louis Marie Grignion de Montfort wrote: ';The rosary is the most powerful weapon to touch the Heart of Jesus, Our Redeemer, who so loves His Mother.';
Pope Pius XII: “There is no surer means of calling down God’s blessings upon the family…than the daily recitation of the Rosary.”
Pope Pius XII: “The Rosary is the compendium of the entire Gospel.”
God bless!
Dave
prayer. worship music, like somebody else said, is often calming and helps generate confidence in god. go to the adoration chapel, if there is one near you. it's nice to sit in silence with god. try to live in the moment and don't OBSESS over the future. it's unhealthy. yesterday is history; tomorrow is a mystery; today is a gift. that's why it's called the present!! :)
-remember, the bible says to give thanks in ALL circumstances, not only the good.
im having a really rough time with school and home life. recent relatinoship breakoffs and everything has been really rough for me. im sorry that you are going through this and i know God is smiling down that you have made those changes in your life and im glad you have. ill pray for you to have stregnth.
but what i do when im having a really bad day is maybe go to an extra service in church. or usually what i do is i get some of my favorite worship music (god of this city, indescribable, how great is our god,we fall down, here i am to worship) and just listen to that in my dark room and just pray and praise god. take my mind off of everythign and focus on just God and what he did. even just running through what jesus' life may have been like. all of the things in the bible. the crusifiction, the miracles, the temptations in the desert, all of those things.
i end up feeling alot better about myself and much more clearheaded about things that im goign to be doing and things i should do. good luck and God bless
';Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.'; - Matthew 11:28-30
In our lives there are always times that come to us when we are fed up and feel the weight of the world on our shoulders. We feel that everything is going wrong and things get so bad that you cannot see any light at the end of the dark tunnel. We become weary and burdened, and at this time it is easy to feel miserable.
However, what did Christ tell us? What words must we turn to in these times? Jesus tells us that He will give us rest - this is His promise to us. But what must we do to allow this promise to come true? We must come to Jesus!
Jesus Christ tells us to come to Him. What does this mean? We must know Christ and accept Him as our saviour.
Jesus tells us that He is gentle and has a humble in heart, and in his heart we will be able to find rest for our souls.
You really have to give your problems to Jesus, in other words let go and give them to Him to handle. Or as they say ';let go and let God.'; If you are still worrying after doing this, then you really haven't given your problems to God after all. Try again, give it all to God...like the Carrie Underwood song, let Jesus take the wheel...give Him the authority to run your life. Just ask him in, and let go, and let Him.
...God Bless.
A consequence of different cultures. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I am Asian. I am born and raise in Asian. I came to America when I was 16 years old. However, I am still a very traditional Asian woman.
Anyway..
When in come to dating. In my cultures, we expect men to make a first move. Women should be not show an desperate attitude and allow men to chase us a little bit--to show his love and sincerity.
I do that, but most of my American friends think I am playing games, teasing and very cold to a man who love me...
***
P.S.
I have never watched Asian movies that the best actresses are willing to make love with the best actors before marriage. It is very rare for the media to show those types of behavior.A consequence of different cultures. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
well if you like a guy then just be normal. you're not in asia any more so throw all the old rules out of the door.A consequence of different cultures. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I was in that same situation...I liked a guy and he liked me, but was too shy to talk to me. I didn't make the first move because I thought he was the man and should have known what to do. He never came around so I just quit on him...I didn't want to seem deperate and look where that got me. Lol, just go for a guy if you like them... trust me guys aren't going to come find you unless you are that attractive.
I am American by birth, but I never made the first move with guys, preferring for them to pursue me. I always considered myself ';old fashioned.'; It's interesting to know that this is also traditionally, Asian. I have to say, though, that when I met my husband, he didn't even notice me. I was so frustrated because I knew he was a great person and for the first time in my life, I changed my tactics and pursued him! It was scary, but I made myself do it because I knew it was the only way. 14 years later we are very happy. So if you meet someone, and he doesn't notice you, don't be afraid to make the first move.
I am like you too. do not worry you will attract the kind of man that youneed!
Anyway..
When in come to dating. In my cultures, we expect men to make a first move. Women should be not show an desperate attitude and allow men to chase us a little bit--to show his love and sincerity.
I do that, but most of my American friends think I am playing games, teasing and very cold to a man who love me...
***
P.S.
I have never watched Asian movies that the best actresses are willing to make love with the best actors before marriage. It is very rare for the media to show those types of behavior.A consequence of different cultures. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
well if you like a guy then just be normal. you're not in asia any more so throw all the old rules out of the door.A consequence of different cultures. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I was in that same situation...I liked a guy and he liked me, but was too shy to talk to me. I didn't make the first move because I thought he was the man and should have known what to do. He never came around so I just quit on him...I didn't want to seem deperate and look where that got me. Lol, just go for a guy if you like them... trust me guys aren't going to come find you unless you are that attractive.
I am American by birth, but I never made the first move with guys, preferring for them to pursue me. I always considered myself ';old fashioned.'; It's interesting to know that this is also traditionally, Asian. I have to say, though, that when I met my husband, he didn't even notice me. I was so frustrated because I knew he was a great person and for the first time in my life, I changed my tactics and pursued him! It was scary, but I made myself do it because I knew it was the only way. 14 years later we are very happy. So if you meet someone, and he doesn't notice you, don't be afraid to make the first move.
I am like you too. do not worry you will attract the kind of man that youneed!
Tell him? Bottle it up (10 points for the best advice)?
Previously, I liked this guy called Ryan.
I told him that I liked him and he has not said anything,
I have managed to forget him and how I felt however,
I now like this other guy called George.
I got hurt really badly when Ryan ignored me, It was he way of rejecting me and making me feel unwanted.
The question is...
Should I tell George that I like him?
I don't want him to reject me too, because I like him more than I EVER liked ryan %26amp; Im just scared of that same hurt again.
I mis-read the signs with Ryan, I thought he liked me because:
-He moved closer to me,
-he stared at me,
-he poked me and let me poke him back.
I am worried that I may mis-read the signs with George too he:
-stares at me,
-smiles at me,
-takes the mick out of my mates to try and make me laugh. (he doesn't mean it in a mean way, hes just joking)
Should I tell George?
...卢_卢Tell him? Bottle it up (10 points for the best advice)?
Well guys like to know when a girl likes them but.. Some times they will take advantage of u OK.. So wait to see if he likes u first OK.. then u can show him how much u like him.. but wait to see what he does or says to you.. u dont want to look easy to him ok...guys dont like to date easy girks for a lonf term.. they will just want sex and then dunp u..xxTell him? Bottle it up (10 points for the best advice)?
If you really like him, go for it, as you may regret it if you don't. he probably feels the same way about you. Good luck!!!
Why not get some more signs first. Because i have a friend who is like George and i'm not sure if he likes me. So maybe just wait until he does something that is a sure sign.
I think you should be mates with George but go some places alone like the cinema or something. See if you can be around him alone more so you can suss out a bit better if he's interested or not.
If you still think the same after a few places you've been alone together, then tell him. You can't live in fear of the past as you'll never get anywhere.
i dont know how to help you with that but try puuting all of your questions in the polls and surveys section because more people get on there and will answer your question.
I told him that I liked him and he has not said anything,
I have managed to forget him and how I felt however,
I now like this other guy called George.
I got hurt really badly when Ryan ignored me, It was he way of rejecting me and making me feel unwanted.
The question is...
Should I tell George that I like him?
I don't want him to reject me too, because I like him more than I EVER liked ryan %26amp; Im just scared of that same hurt again.
I mis-read the signs with Ryan, I thought he liked me because:
-He moved closer to me,
-he stared at me,
-he poked me and let me poke him back.
I am worried that I may mis-read the signs with George too he:
-stares at me,
-smiles at me,
-takes the mick out of my mates to try and make me laugh. (he doesn't mean it in a mean way, hes just joking)
Should I tell George?
...卢_卢Tell him? Bottle it up (10 points for the best advice)?
Well guys like to know when a girl likes them but.. Some times they will take advantage of u OK.. So wait to see if he likes u first OK.. then u can show him how much u like him.. but wait to see what he does or says to you.. u dont want to look easy to him ok...guys dont like to date easy girks for a lonf term.. they will just want sex and then dunp u..xxTell him? Bottle it up (10 points for the best advice)?
If you really like him, go for it, as you may regret it if you don't. he probably feels the same way about you. Good luck!!!
Why not get some more signs first. Because i have a friend who is like George and i'm not sure if he likes me. So maybe just wait until he does something that is a sure sign.
I think you should be mates with George but go some places alone like the cinema or something. See if you can be around him alone more so you can suss out a bit better if he's interested or not.
If you still think the same after a few places you've been alone together, then tell him. You can't live in fear of the past as you'll never get anywhere.
i dont know how to help you with that but try puuting all of your questions in the polls and surveys section because more people get on there and will answer your question.
What is this song mean? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
';Where are you Now';
Calling out your name
Your face is everywhere
I'm reaching out to you
To find that you're not there
I wake up every night
To see the state I'm in
It's like an endless fight
I never seem to win
I can't go on as long as I believe
Can't let go when I keep wondering
[CHORUS:]
Where are you now, what have you found
Where is your heart, when I'm not around
Where are you now, you gotta let me know
Oh baby, so I can let you go
I can hear your voice
The ring of yesterday
It seems so close to me
But yet so far away
I should let it out
To save what's left of me
And close the doors of doubt
Revive my dignity
But, I can't go on as long as I believe
Can't let go when I keep wondering
[Repeat CHORUS]
I should let it out, it's time to let you go
Oh baby, I just want to know
***
I just want to make sure :) Thank you very much!!What is this song mean? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
It sounds like two people have parted ways and one can't seem to get over it and move on.Everywhere he looks...every thing he does..every thought he has reminds him of the person who's gone.And he says that as long as he believes in her she may come back and can't help wondering if she ever will.He also needs her to tell him what she's doing now...who she's with and if she still has any feelings left for him so he can let go once and for all.What is this song mean? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
he and his girlfriend or wife are always fighting. He regrets it when she leaves and misses her but can't help fighting when something happens.
It's about someone (let's say a her) who really loved a guy deep down, but he just pretended to like her, then made a huge, public breakup and is either with someone else, or is somewhere where she'll never see him again. What's interesting is that the singer says he's far away. Does that mean he's miles away, or just that she feels so far away, when he's still at her school, or in her neighborhood or whatever? Something to think about...
I think it means about a girl or a guy that they broke up and they can't let the person go because they see there face every where they go could mean memories of places they went and so on and they wake up and the other person isnt there anymore like they used to be. That person cant let go of the other person because they still love them and they really dont want it to be over unless they see for them selfs that it is over. Hope I made a lil since lol
I'll look at coming from a man. His girl went somewhere, but he doesn't know where and he's got it bad for her. He can't find peace until he knows where she's gone. She left with no word. In his mind he keeps hearing the things they have talked about. He is so torn up and needs to confess something in their relationship. He is tormented because he just let go because everywhere he is reminded of her. It also sounds like someone is overly obsessive and stifling. He never says he loves her, strange.
i think its about someone who has lost someone they loved possible to a death and there looking for a sign thats its ok to move on with there life.
It is a state of mind I know all to well. It is the last step before parting of the ways. It is the realization that it will not work. All you have left is wishing and hoping. You know its done. All you have to do is ask, did I do everything I could to save this marriage. Now your hurting yourself just to make the guilt go away. The die is cast, you must do what is best for you now.
God be with you. Remember you have friends and family.
Calling out your name
Your face is everywhere
I'm reaching out to you
To find that you're not there
I wake up every night
To see the state I'm in
It's like an endless fight
I never seem to win
I can't go on as long as I believe
Can't let go when I keep wondering
[CHORUS:]
Where are you now, what have you found
Where is your heart, when I'm not around
Where are you now, you gotta let me know
Oh baby, so I can let you go
I can hear your voice
The ring of yesterday
It seems so close to me
But yet so far away
I should let it out
To save what's left of me
And close the doors of doubt
Revive my dignity
But, I can't go on as long as I believe
Can't let go when I keep wondering
[Repeat CHORUS]
I should let it out, it's time to let you go
Oh baby, I just want to know
***
I just want to make sure :) Thank you very much!!What is this song mean? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
It sounds like two people have parted ways and one can't seem to get over it and move on.Everywhere he looks...every thing he does..every thought he has reminds him of the person who's gone.And he says that as long as he believes in her she may come back and can't help wondering if she ever will.He also needs her to tell him what she's doing now...who she's with and if she still has any feelings left for him so he can let go once and for all.What is this song mean? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
he and his girlfriend or wife are always fighting. He regrets it when she leaves and misses her but can't help fighting when something happens.
It's about someone (let's say a her) who really loved a guy deep down, but he just pretended to like her, then made a huge, public breakup and is either with someone else, or is somewhere where she'll never see him again. What's interesting is that the singer says he's far away. Does that mean he's miles away, or just that she feels so far away, when he's still at her school, or in her neighborhood or whatever? Something to think about...
I think it means about a girl or a guy that they broke up and they can't let the person go because they see there face every where they go could mean memories of places they went and so on and they wake up and the other person isnt there anymore like they used to be. That person cant let go of the other person because they still love them and they really dont want it to be over unless they see for them selfs that it is over. Hope I made a lil since lol
I'll look at coming from a man. His girl went somewhere, but he doesn't know where and he's got it bad for her. He can't find peace until he knows where she's gone. She left with no word. In his mind he keeps hearing the things they have talked about. He is so torn up and needs to confess something in their relationship. He is tormented because he just let go because everywhere he is reminded of her. It also sounds like someone is overly obsessive and stifling. He never says he loves her, strange.
i think its about someone who has lost someone they loved possible to a death and there looking for a sign thats its ok to move on with there life.
It is a state of mind I know all to well. It is the last step before parting of the ways. It is the realization that it will not work. All you have left is wishing and hoping. You know its done. All you have to do is ask, did I do everything I could to save this marriage. Now your hurting yourself just to make the guilt go away. The die is cast, you must do what is best for you now.
God be with you. Remember you have friends and family.
Does he like me or not 10 points to best advice?
itold his brother that i liked his brother and his brother told me that Lance said i was cute and when he fount out he was at his friends house that lives right by me he was like ***** i heard you been talking about me he was kidding and he was pushing me and kidding and he was trying to trip me off my skateboard with his foot and he was throwing footballs at me. Then the next day his frined wasn't home and he saw me outside and he came over and my cousin James was there and we all talked a lot and he asked if i thought he was hot i didn't answer. He goes to the ball park with his friend and when he was up there i had my friends with me and there really loud and they were like are you stalking him and he said i heard that and then when i slapped her he said cat fight i was really embarrassed and when my brother tackled me he helped me out and tackled my brother. He likes to talk to my mom and he was selling raffle tickets for his game and he asked her if she would go to his game and my mom did and i went and i don't know if he saw me there and he looked at where i was like 5 times but i don't know if he saw me. At the end of the game this one girl kept going up to him and talking and i don;t know if he likes her ?_?.. i seen him today while i was taking in groceries and he took his shirt off right in front of me and then when he rode by he was laughing really loud. I seen him2 days ago and i went up to a tribulation house cause he was in it and cause i wanted to go and i went with my friend and i was really scared cause its like a prevew of what the rapture will be like and he happened to be in a scary scence and i was really scared and i grapped own to my friends hand and he was doing a play with his friend and his friend was like homos and when we went out of that scene he was done and it was like 12 and he couldn't find his brother and he went t where i was and tapped me on my arm and asked me if i knew where his brother was :D and then the next day he asked me if i was gay cause i was holding a girls hand and he was like lesbian n i don't know if he likes me or notDoes he like me or not 10 points to best advice?
wrong sectionDoes he like me or not 10 points to best advice?
i think he likes you
ask him if he likes u ask him out if not..... there will be many other guys down the road
ahh.. its too long.. haha I didn't red .. dont worry he loves you
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wrong sectionDoes he like me or not 10 points to best advice?
i think he likes you
ask him if he likes u ask him out if not..... there will be many other guys down the road
ahh.. its too long.. haha I didn't red .. dont worry he loves you
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