Why no explanation from him. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?

This guy and I love each other for three years. We are separted because I moved to other states. He love over 20 poems about me. Three month ago he wrote this





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A Sun


Category: Writing and Poetry








If I could remember all at once





All the moments I'd rather forget





I'd probably think twice 'fore all





And sinking quickly behind the clouds





My sun would set.





But life is too short for mulling reservation





And most of those days have passed





So we are what we've done, both the good and the bad.





Riding bare as a sun hits its highest





Me and my fierce ambition have arrived





At last.





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I asked him about the poem. He did not to tell me. I thought he wanted to move on;therefore, I deleted him from my friendlist. He blocked me from his website.





In the past two months. I sent him an apology e-mail and explain what was going on. He did not reply my e-mail. However, he still post all the poems he wrote online. Why no explanation? What should I do?Why no explanation from him. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I think that what he is trying to say is that he used to always think about what happened in the relationship even though he didn't want to think about it anymore...he'd rather forget. And at the time he wrote this poem I think he finally decided it was time for him to move on (that's why he says those days have passed and that his ambition has arrived). It seems that he accepts what happened between you two and holds no resentments, he recognizes that what happened is what makes you both who you are today. I don't think he is replying because he realizes that sometimes you have to let go and remember the good things about a person and accept when it will not work or was not meant to be. It doesn't seem like a mean poem to me, more of a fond farewell.


Hope this gives you at least one other persepctive...it could mean something different to everybody.Why no explanation from him. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
he wants no contact from you,. he blocked you from his website, you should know by now. move on with your life.
Sounds like he found someone to love a little closer to him. Let him go and move on yourself.
Most likely he got his feelings hurt when you blocked him from your friendlist without him being able to give an explanation of what he felt. The reason for him not wanting to communicate could be because he could see you as someone who doesn't resolve their issues with upfront communication and he would like someone to come to him and be honest with their emotions. It didn't look good with you jumping the gun with not being his friend when you say you loved him. When you love someone you should love them faults and all. You should of asked him what the poem meant from his persepective and then you could of said something like...thank you because I thought it meant this and I am glad I asked you.....it is about communication. How would you have felt if the roles would have been reversed?
sounds 2 me like didn't know what he really wanted from what all had if he was so happy in the biggining and so miserable at the end wy didn't he think of all the reasons that made him happyto begin it also sounds like u didsomething really terrible to hurt him i ean is that the case b cause f not then he's a dillusional man andu should move onne ways if a man eversays he loves u that's forever ad always no matter what he obviously like i said doesn't ow what he's doing he must of had ano offense short tem lust 4 u that he realizd was not 4 him so ur best bet is to ve on if by u leaving him alone 4a while is the best u should try th and see what happens if he tries to cotact u listen to his reasons then and decide if they were good enough 4 how much he t u but don't leave ur heart widopen for rejection again take everything slow and c what happen and b careful hope i helped a little
why stress over this. maybe you thought he was really in love with you.and he was even writing poems to other girls behind your back and you weren't aware of. let it go. find someone who really deserves you. and stop emailing him, he will only think he still can have you whenever he wants.
the same as him ..sorry. move on .. good luck..
Forget about him because he is trying to forget about you and get you out of his life, but the poetry is still his intellectual property and he wants to be recognized for his works. I believe very few artists pull every poem, song, sculpture, or painting once their mood changes because they no longer feel like that. They keep that as part of what made them inspire what they felt at that time.
and what is your ambition ? Obviously not her!
I think you are reading into this to deeply, it doesn't matter at this point what the poem means, it sound like you guys are done, so let it go.
Did you tell him what you thought about the poem and what it meant to you? If he wrote the poem to you, then that's what he wants to hear from you. It's also possible he just wanted to put a delicate touch to the end of his relationship. Normally though people should try and be friends after a relationship. It was a bad idea to take him off your friends list imo.





Here's what I thought of the poem:


He doesn't want to forget all the bad moments. Then he talks about his sun setting behind the clouds, which could be you. So maybe he felt like you were leaving him beyound yonder. He doesn't want to waste time thinking about holding something back. Time will go on and everything good and bad wont matter because he feels strong and ambitious at last.





A poem is a test sometimes. Maybe he was testing you. My best advice is to move on. Find a better person.