Still missing an ex? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?

We known each other for almost 5 years. I have not seen him for 2 years because I moved to different states. We tried to be together, but things did not work out. He goes to law school and serves as a marine in PA. I work and go to graduate school in DC. Moreover, I plan to go back home in foreign country soon. We are not sure about the relationship.





Although we have gone through good and bad. Sometimes, he made me mad and very upset. I still love him and miss him everyday. I think he still loves me too. He does not have any girlfriend. He still draw pictures and writes poems about me.





The sad thing is we just cannot be together. Life is just not easy for us right now. I don't want to give him fault hope and sad because of me. We have different goals in life also... :(Still missing an ex? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
If you have different goals, you may not end up together. That is sad to hear. I have an ex where it hurts to hear from him, because he can say destructive things. With you it seems he is nice to you, but he may remind you that you cannot be together, and that is what hurts.





If your relationship apart helps you, keep on seeing him. If it only hurts you, the relationship may be self-destructive. Try to find someone else in your life that is right there for you. It may take time to find that good person, but you may want to try at least.Still missing an ex? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
then i suggest you stop having any contact with him, no matter how hard it will be at first it is the only thing that will let you break free of the emotional tie you have with him. and start seeing new people and dating new guys... it'll help you to forget him.





But it will be hard and you will still think about him for a while, until 1 day you'll realise you havent thought about him in ages, thats when you'll know your over him.
I am afraid you either make a commitment to him and move to be with him or you have to move on. You cannot continue in two separate bubbles......
Forget it! You have history but that is just not enough! You will never forget your first love but will always remember your last!
If you're heart is telling you that you want to be with him after all this time then you HAVE to be with him if he wants to be with you. It's that simple. Going on about having different goals in life etc to me is just wrong. If you really, really love someone you'd rather be with that person living in a slum that without them in a palace. EVERYTHING else in life is secondary to being them. How will you make this work? If you love each other then the answer is simple,... You'll make it work as best you can. This is well summed up in the song Midnight Train To Georgia (If you ever heard it),.... ';I'd rather live in his world than live without him in mine';. Think about it.
u gootta get out and meet other women