heres my story
ok im gonna start from the beginning...
My friend curtis and i started liking eachother about a month ago but he was going with my cousin tayler and i told him that was my cousin but he never could see my cousin so he started hitting on me a was all over me and it was like we were going out but not...and my cousin dont even know i know him!! but he broke up with my cousin and he still liked me so then everyone was tring to hook us up so i was on facebook talking about how everyone was wanting us to go out and stuff and then i was like well idk all i know is that i have been wanting a boyfriend.then he was like ask out the person u like the most and i said no cause im am afraid 2 and he said just try and i said ok and i asked him out and he did not think it would be him and he said not me!!!! and i said u told me 2!!! and then he didnt reply and like a hour later he called me and said we need 2 talk and i said ok then talk and he said i just dont want a gf right now cause i dont wanna deal with all the drama
during the summer and i said ok then we just was talking and randomly he said i cant like be all over u anymore cause its killing me inside and i said what r u talking about?and he said well i just met someone else i said omg i thought u didnt want a gf he was like i dont want on yet! i said y didnt u tell me this be4 i started liking u? he was like cause i didnt like her till a few days ago and i like here more than anyone and i said how do u know u just met her?! (and i was mad so i lied and told him i told tayler everything wen i didnt)and he was like idk and then he was like i just hope u understand i g2g and hung up
i didnt talk 2 him till 2night and he acted ok on facebook i said what r u doin 2morrow and he said y?! and i said cause neeli wants to know if ur going skating
he said no
i said ok
and so did he
and then i said r u mad at me
cause i think u r
and then i said so ya
and he said ya
and i said what did i do?
and he said i was saying what u said and then i said i said so ya! and he said sowwy and didnt reply and so then an hour later i called him and he said.....
Curtis:hello
Tina:hi
Curtis:what?
Tina:idk im bored
Curtis:well im on the other line with a friend
Tina:ok...
Curtis:so i thought u were mad at me
Tina:i am, but arent we still friends?
Curtis: ya i guess but ok i g2g
Tina: Ok *click*
what do i do at this point
i want it to work out between me and him
help me plzMajor guy trouble who ever gives me the best advice gets 10 pts?
Wow. That is messed up. About as messed up as my sad story. But that guy, no offense, is being a jerk to you. A real big, fat-headed jerk. And this road you're on is only gonna lead to heartbreak and hurt, if you're not already hurting already. But the best thing you can do in this situation is back off. Don't talk to him unless he talks to you first. If he flirts with you respond coolly and stay distant until he gets the picture. If he stops talking to you, don't fret. If you just give it time, a couple of months at the most, things will have calmed down enough for you to be able to start talking and be friends again. But when you do, don't ever let yourself get into a relationship with him because he'll only break your heart. That's my best advice for you. Oh and don't ever let him know how it makes you feel when he treats you like that. Hold your head high and act as though nothings wrong.Major guy trouble who ever gives me the best advice gets 10 pts?
Move on. Plenty of fish in the sea. You will find out how he really feels when he finds you with someone else. His loss. F-him.
Okay so how old are you anyway? And if he is acting like that then he really isn't worth you wanting to work it out between the two of you just let him be and find someone else I'm sure there is someone out there. Girls these days just get to hung up on one guy, which is okay if he wants the samething you want. Uhh hello can't you understand by what he is saying to you.
Alright im going to give it to you straight. take it or leave it.
I know how you feel. you like him and I can tell, and as hard as it is going to be to let go of him, youre going to have to.
He sounds like hes being an *** to you and although i dont know you im sure you dont deserve to be mistreated.
so move on from this one. it seems like hes already headed in another direction, so you should go ahead and do the same.
good luck with this. and remember not to just live in the present. this guy isnt everything in your life. the right guy will come along.
hes not ready for a girlfriend or he dosent want one right now. maybe he was flirting with you before and he might have been all over you but that dosent mean anything in some cases. but if he continues with this then its going to be a lost cause, since if theres no change soon in how he acts then there isnt much you can do but forget about it. theres a LOT more guys out there then just him. and maybe when your done gawing over him he will notice what hes missing and crawling back to you.
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