We known each other for almost 5 years. I have not seen him for 2 years because I moved to different states. We tried to be together, but things did not work out. He goes to law school and serves as a marine in PA. I work and go to graduate school in DC. Moreover, I plan to go back home in foreign country soon. We are not sure about the relationship.
Although we have gone through good and bad. Sometimes, he made me mad and very upset. I still love him and miss him everyday. I think he still loves me too. He does not have any girlfriend. He still draw pictures and writes poems about me.
The sad thing is we just cannot be together. Life is just not easy for us right now :(Still missing an ex? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I'm kinda having a similar problem.
I think now is the time to be alone. Focus on yourself, job, etc.. Then see what you come up with.
See what type of person you are and what you really want.
That can't happen when your with someone or constantly thinking about someone.
Good luck:)Still missing an ex? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I know that things seem hopeless right now but if it is meant to work out then it will. You both seem to still be in love with one another and love always wins. You have to believe that while you live your lives apart. Have faith and trust that you will someday be together forever if that is what you both want. Go live your life and keep in touch with one another. Love always finds a way. I believe that and you should too. Good luck!
well it seems if you're going back home why bother trying to have a relationship. intercontinental relationships are not a good idea at all. it's one thing to be in different states but overseas is will prove more difficult. just treasure the time you had together and maybe when you get home you'll find a nice guy in your home country and hopefully he'll be the one. if something or someone is meant to be it will work itself out. take care.
You two need to either work it out or go your own way baby girl !';I know its not hard but in time you will get over it. You will have to get out of the house and not sit around thinking about him all the time driving yourself crazy. Eventually you will look back on this as one of life's lessons learned.
Your name says it all: Hope. You will always have that. If it is meant to be the two of you will work it out somehow. If it isn't meant to be then you will hurt for a long time for what you have lost, but keep in mind the person you are really destined to be with you haven't met yet. What doesn't kill us makes us stronger.
maybe you should visit each other and have some conversations about how you feel about each other and try to get on the same page. if you both have feelings that strong for each other then it would be worth it to try and figure something out. if you don't have mutual feelings then at least you know you tried and can move on. hope this helps.
id say rely on the support your friends and family can offer you. its hard to let go sometimes, but whats meant to be, will be. do something nice for yourself. go to a day spa, or a weekend away, or go see a movie or go shopping. get your mind off him.
I feel bad for you, Maybe you can go visit him on Vacation when he has off and take it from there
Sometimes its not meant to be. If you can stand to be apart, its best to move on, long distance relationships are so hard.
If you both feel you are soul mate you can work it out, if it's one sided...it will never work out. Good Luck
if you are leaving the country isee no future in this relationship
if you guys truley have talked his out and love each other tell him that love can go through all of that...
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too many things going on for both of you. i would drop everything and go to him if he still loves you. good luck
Keep to your studies...relationships are made up of good and bad, ugly and pretty, horrific and ecstatic. If you think a relationship is all good, your living in a fairy tale.
Life is choices, there is no god that puts things in place for you as some might say. You make choices, either good or bad.
Yes or No
That is a choice....ketchup or mustard?
Simple....you make your own destiny, not some one else, not a nonliving being while you are on this god's given green earth. You only live so many years...lets say 80. Life may be half over or a quarter over. You need to think out of the box, make good choices, and good things will come your way. If you want to try again with this man, you make that choice. If not you make that choice. Good luck!
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