Will I regret this 10 points for the best advice. Thank you very much?

I met my true love four years ago (I believe he is my soul mate). We went to the same college. I am Thai and he is American.





I am 22. I am very goal oriented, highly motivated, and persistent. I finished college in 3 years. Thereafter, I got a full scholarship to do a Master Degree. I will finish a Master degree in May 2008.





My love is 24. He is a student marine. This is his last year in undergraduate school. He is very nice and adored me. He plans to go to law school (His father is a lawyer). He is also a college football player. He likes to party and drink. (But---I don't)





We are separated last years because I moved to Washington D.C. I recently asked him to move from P.A. to D.C. He said, ';he is not sure'; Because he want to be the man in the relationship.





My dream is to work for the UN, NGOs, or in Thailand. On the other hand, he wants to be a lawyer in the U.S. We obviously have different goals. I want to scarify my love for my passion. What do you think? Will I regret it?





Thank you.Will I regret this 10 points for the best advice. Thank you very much?
If you think you will have regrets later on in life, I say do what you have to. You will only find your soul mate once, don't let it go. I am in the process of chasing my soul-mate. Do not give up on the future.Will I regret this 10 points for the best advice. Thank you very much?
If your dreams are so close to being reached, perhaps you should consider ending your relationship. It may not be quite as good as you think, from the way you talked...However, there are other men out there who are just as good, I'm sure. In the end, it's your choice: only you know how much you love him and what you are willing to sacrifice for him, and how much you love your dream. Whatever you do, be sure it comes from the heart, and not without much deliberation.
The logical side says to me that you should go for your long term goals...but however the hopeless romantic side of me says find a job where ever and be with the man you love. However the key to any relationship is compromise, you both need to do so to make the relationship work you can't just sacrifice everything to be with him there has to be some give and take in order for it to work and to be fair.
There comes a time in every relationship where you have to (Together) evalute the situation, determine if being together (wherever it may be) is what both of you TRUELY want.





From there... comes the next thing everyone in a relationship has to do (but few people want/like/actually do): COMPROMIES! Both sides here are gonna have to give and take so both parties end up happy. Example: He wants to be a lawyer in the US and lives in PA. you want to work for the UN or in Thailand, but currently live in DC. Is he willing to practice law in maryland/Virginia/DC if you're willing to not move back to thailand and take a local international relations job in DC?? Get the idea?! Both sides need to lay down what they want, what they are willing to give up, what they are willing to not budge on.





After this converstaion, you will know for sure if it was truely ment to be... sometimes to keep what you need (to be with your soul mate), you have to give up little things you want.
I chose a man over a goal when I was 21, after dating for 5 years. Big, big mistake. After the man left my life a complete mess, I went back to my goal and achieved it. I then found my TRUE soul mate as a result of reaching my goal and getting where I wanted to be with my own life. Life has a way of working out for the best, and I think you should go after your own goal and if he follows, great, and if not, you will find the right man later.
It sounds like you're having doubts about your relationship with him. Your goals really come off as your top priority and it looks like you're really doing well and going for what you want in your life. Both of you aim to do different things and it seems as if you're both going in those different directions albeit the other one is following behind. The best thing to do is to talk it out with him thinking of the pros and cons and what you want to do with your lives. Obviously you want to go to other places and he wants to stay in the U.S.





Do what you think (KNOW) is right for you. It'll be hard as hell to figure out what both of you want without hurting each other, but you'll either have to sacrifice for each other and stay together...or you go for what you want and hope that the two of you will either meet again or that you'll find some one for you.





Just think of what could happen if you stayed with him.... what if you broke up? Where would that leave you?





I hope you find what you're looking for, my dear.


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You can get a job anywhere and if he is the one you want to be with then be with him you will regret it and always think about it and it will eat you alive. Pick him. Havent you seen the movie family man with nicholas cage. If not I recommend watching it!
You need to continue your education, get your dream job, and worry about a man later babe! I am 29 and I am going back to college now! I wish I would have waited on love. You both still have growing to do believe it or not! He may be growing in a different direction it sounds like. Don't be married and miserable.... Wait.