Why is he acting like this?? 10pts for best advice!?

Ps. I texted him twice yesterday and he still hasn't responded to me... so its probably best if i don't text him again... i just wonder why he felt the need to ignore me.Why is he acting like this?? 10pts for best advice!?
he is acting like this because he does not know what he wants. this is typical for us men. we see something, we want it but initially only superficially. then perhaps we find ourselves wanting more, more than dinner and a movie. then we grow terrified and sheepish and we convince ourselves that because this girl that made out with us the first night is not being more aggressive then she clearly is less interested. we panic and we feel a threat to our masculinity so we run from the situation altogether. at this stage it looks like we are playing a game, we are but it is not a malicious one, it is a game built on frailty and ignorance.


as men we respond to the simplest gestures and if we do not know what you want then we often do not know what we want as few of us will be willing to go out on a limb for our hearts. this is not ';manly.';


forgive us, we are just not as highly evolved.Why is he acting like this?? 10pts for best advice!?
Well before he stopped responding, I would definitely say he was just really nervous about kissing you. He obviously liked you considering he opened up and went to all the effort for you. I think he must be embarrassed from yalls little conversation at the end there... now that you have texted him twice though you can't text him again or you will look desperate. You need to wait for him to come around (which he most likely will, and if not then he is shady and not that great anyway) and then you should just nicely ask him if you made him uncomfortable and if so, you didn't mean to. Just be nice and tell him you just didn't know why he was holding back because you DO want to kiss him. Hope this helps!
I think you are trying to hard. I've learn that everything can be so right the first couple of days, but go downhill. When he left Friday, you should have left it alone. Stop sending text so much. It might cost him money to text, maybe you are being to forward or just annoying. Let him make moves or plans, or give it a couple of days. Don't always expect a kiss, a hug is great. It shows emotion and a comfort zone. He felt bad hugging you because he felt it didn't feel heartfelt. He cooked dinner, brought wine, cheese, dessert, and brought flowers, he's feeling u. Don't push him away. Most guys won't mention a girl to his family unless he really likes that person. Just try to avoid text messages unless you are saying you r on your way, running late, etc. Try an email if you have a problem, but make it short, and to the point. Patience will really work, give at least a day or two in between dates, but don't make him feel u are not interested by staying away to long.
He is acting awkward, like he finally noticed you have bad teeth or something. If it isn't you, then it is him. Don't feel so rejected yet, I think the next time you can, you should try holding his hand. Also find a way to get nearer to his face, close so that eye contact is necessary. the sparks should at least start to glow.
dating rule #1...don't text guys...its ANNOYING. it's almost as bad as having a conversation through the bathroom door. just don't. and if you do, make it short and quick. and no smileys.





dating rule #2...the world would have ALOT less rejection if women had the (pardon the pun) balls to kiss us rather than waiting for us to kiss them.





perhaps he was upset about talking about his mom...bad date conversation. keep it fun next time and let him know that you want him to kiss you ...or just kiss him.
Classic deal here. I guarantee that this is your problem: Guys no matter what anyone says are way more physical than gals. Physical aspects are very important to most of us. I am not sure of your sexual reservations but we like to know that you, are attracted to us physically as well. if he is sexually active which I am going to assume he is, perhaps after this amount of time spent together he is hoping for something to take place. If he kissed you on the cheek DURING the movie, he was obviously trying to move things in a physical direction. In his mind he assumes you picked up on that and denied. And the ';Awkward hug'; was salt in the wound, which is why he mentioned it later. I'm having a little trouble prescribing a solution, to the problem. Here's the thing to remember, men do not want a slutty acting woman. However, they do want a woman that will act a little bit forward. Obviously this point is void when the woman acts forward with more than one person. But, it sounds to me like you have a guy that's not very good at making the first move. So trust me and do it. :) Hope I helped.
Wow...you girls do panic easy. And you read so much into little things. You are watching every little detail, as if almost expecting things to go wrong.





There could be any amount of innocent reasons why he didn`t respond to your text. It might just have been inconvenient at the minute.





Awkward hugs and kisses etc are par for the course in an early relationship.


What`s the big hurry, and whatever happened to patience?
Maybe he's trying to play it cool. not rush into anything or seem to desperate.





if he texts you in a few days i bet that was it.





maybe you should ask him, ask him if he sees you two going anywhere. and that youre both old enough not to play teenager games. Be staight forward and honest.





You shouldn't wait around for a guy who in the end you have no chance with. you deserve better.





GOOD LUCK
He ,might not have gotten the text, or he might have his phone on silent... if you really like this guy, take things slowly. He's into you too. He might just be embarrassed about the hug the other night. Just take things slowly and things will work out for you and him. Hope I helped!
it sounds to me like he has a very sensitive side, and this makes him shy around you, most likely, i never meet the guy so i couldn't tel you. if you really like him, then you need to invite him over again, and use your woman powers to intrigue him to give you more then just a hug.
It seems that he may be preoccupied with the rest of his life. My male friend here assumes that he may be confused in his sexuality or that he may be lying about a more recent or continual relationship. An affair! Him being drunk was letting him express his true feelings and now he has more sense about how he feels.
it seems like hes not interested in you. he does seem to be acting weird, but i dont think he wants to tell you hes not intersested to you directly.
phone him and ask him... he might just feel a bit strange now (: hope i helped its not alot but not really alot you can do until you find out whats happened :s but hope i helped and pleasee vote mine best anwser, very much appreciate it ;)
he might be kind of hurt because he seems to be into you but u aren't making any moves so he probably feels kind of rejected by you. maybe next time, you should make the first move and kiss him.
Dude is really shy you gotta make the move even tho it goes past every rule in the book
I would suggest to ask him or get together with another boy :)
Just leave him alone dont text him anymore let him text you first otherwise u will be chasing him
That's hard. But I think when you guys had a conversation about some of his past, he's feeling a little bit of that hurt left. I'd give him some time to beathe.
Maybe he doesn't like you as much as he thought he did
sounds like he is shy...or scared to take the lead....you try to be the one who leads next time
maybe he lost his phone or it ran out of battery lol
THAT IS A GUY FOR YOU
he probably thinks your not into him so show him what you got
he is just an *** hole
You made it Awkward so now he thinks its we rid properly between the two of you. Don't make it awkward just be yourself.
call him at home or email him you never know if his phone could be off. Maybe go to his house and ask him personally what is going on dont be angry, approach it in a calm manner. You will find your answers. If none of that works and you cant reach him on his cell then send a txt messege asking him what up? communicate with him communication is the basis of a relaitonship! =) Good luck!
I am guessing by he sounds of things because u were drunk when u made our tht he is taking things slow because he thinks thats what you want. He might not want to ask because it makes him feel wierd.


He is just respecting you.





Ask him out to a resturant and laugh and have a great time but also tell him how you feel x





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